Does a guy jacking off turn a lady on?

[dominatrixNY]

big turn on jacking off and watching

Yes - for me - i think it is hot and i love to watch when a guy is playing with his dick and goes up and down with his hands and i can see him cum

 

[ILuv2Taste]

Definitely a turn on for me watching a guy masturbate and pleasuring themselves at same time as I am.......

I love mutual masturbation. It's a great turn on watching the way a woman touches herself and the way her eyes follow me as I pleasure myself.
As an added bonus I love when she will seductively place her fingers in my mouth so I can suck her taste off when she is finished.

 

[Dillharris]

Must be a theme because this is the second time tonight I'm answering this question but in a different thread. I worked with a girl for years and, although we never had sex, found ourselves to be kindred spirits. Cutting to the punch-line, we both loved porn and masturbation and watching and hearing and stroking and strumming.....freaking crazy. She was usually the instigator of the fun and we would even do it at work in the bathroom. We'd each grab a stall and slowly edge our way through to orgasm. Nerve racking though when someone came into to legitimately use the washroom. It evolved over the years into a Jack and Jill Club with a few other invited guests joining in on occassion. Amazing, and a lifetime ago.

 

[sutherngent65]

Agree

I love watching a man jack off, especially if I am turning him on by playing with myself and talking dirty to him. I really love it when my husband and I masturbate at the same time watching each other and talking dirty to each other. I never thought I would like it, but I think a man’s cock is just gorgeous. It is nice to just mix it up and do something different.

Agree, great foreplay.

 

[InvaderZim]

My wife also loves it. Sometimes she has be Jack off while she lays face down rubbing on her magicwand with her face very close to my dick so she can watch. For porn though she enjoys penetration

 

[JerseyJade]

Does nothing for me.

 

[ShaneoD]

Does nothing for me.

Wonder how many guys saw your name here and came by, with so much false hope?

 

[JerseyJade]

Wonder how many guys saw your name here and came by, with so much false hope?

Lol

Oh well. It is what it is.

 

[ShaneoD]

We're only human

This guy!

For sure, there's no point pretending to be into something you're not, I mean what would a girl do with an army of masturbating men anyway *

Lol

Oh well. It is what it is.

 

[JerseyJade]

For sure, there's no point pretending to be into something you're not, I mean what would a girl do with an army of masturbating men anyway *

Hmmm... well if they were all in the same room with me, I could think of something... and they wouldn't have to masturbate either.

 

[ShaneoD]

Hmmm... well if they were all in the same room with me, I could think of something... and they wouldn't have to masturbate either.

Queue a silent army of men, not quite sure of what to say next but very much hoping you're happy to be their inspiration to do it tonight

 

[UtilityCurve]

Please understand that I am not being critical.

It's quite common, it seems, for women to be uninterested in men whom they are not involved with masturbating.

As a man, this is both incomprehensible (I would watch any woman in the world masturbate) and a little depressing (I know I’m not every woman's cup of tea, but it's a little ego-deflating to think my most private and ultimately manly act isn't appealing/moistening).

Still, it's heartening that when a girl DOES take an interest in me that watching me self-pleasuring gives her a thrill.

I just wish some women would explain to me why the relationship/attraction thing is so necessary for her interest. It’s not like she has to fear him (man, could he BE less threatening/aggressive than when he is providing his own pleasure). It's almost like me having to have an interest in a particular woman to want to see her breasts. (SPOILER: I want to see every woman's breasts--pretty sure every guy does.)

No one "owes" me an explanation/justification (please no defensiveness), but I'll be grateful to any woman who provides one.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife enjoyed giving guys hand jobs when she was in college, but she does not like to see a man jack off.

 

[LilyWaters]

Can only speak for this lady here, but YES. It does.

 

[Daisy_Love]

Please understand that I am not being critical.

It's quite common, it seems, for women to be uninterested in men whom they are not involved with masturbating.

As a man, this is both incomprehensible (I would watch any woman in the world masturbate) and a little depressing (I know I’m not every woman's cup of tea, but it's a little ego-deflating to think my most private and ultimately manly act isn't appealing/moistening).

Still, it's heartening that when a girl DOES take an interest in me that watching me self-pleasuring gives her a thrill.

I just wish some women would explain to me why the relationship/attraction thing is so necessary for her interest. It’s not like she has to fear him (man, could he BE less threatening/aggressive than when he is providing his own pleasure). It's almost like me having to have an interest in a particular woman to want to see her breasts. (SPOILER: I want to see every woman's breasts--pretty sure every guy does.)

No one "owes" me an explanation/justification (please no defensiveness), but I'll be grateful to any woman who provides one.

Because in general, men are interested in body-centered sex. You have sex because you like the way it makes your body feel. You aren't concerned with the emotions of a partner.

Whereas women, in general look for person-centered sex. Sex to connect with the other person. We care about the emotions involved and the relationship.

I am generalising, I do realise not all women need an emotional connection. But there’s a high majority that do, even if it’s low level. I mean, you can go to a porn site and watch a guy jack off, it’s just as vapid.

But when there is a connection?

 

[lizzyqte]

Missing

Female watching female masturbate - that makes my blood boil anytime.

 

[ICraveCock]

My wife goes nuts whenever she see me starting to jack off. Within 5 seconds she’ll have her hand in her own crotch and will be beating away. Within 10 seconds she’ll be moaning loudly, and by the end of 15 seconds she’ll be cumming like a crazy woman. Then 10 seconds later I’ll be spurting all over the place. I’ve never seen her come like this any other way. I’ve tried to get her to watch porn and see other guys jerking off. It would really turn me on if I saw her jilling while watching another guy jerk on screen but she shows no interest. Which is odd, because when I see a guy jerking in a video my hand is on my cock in no time.

 

[RunningJib]

Very articulate

Because in general, men are interested in body-centered sex. You have sex because you like the way it makes your body feel. You aren't concerned with the emotions of a partner.

Whereas women, in general look for person-centered sex. Sex to connect with the other person. We care about the emotions involved and the relationship.

I am generalising, I do realise not all women need an emotional connection. But there’s a high majority that do, even if it’s low level. I mean, you can go to a porn site and watch a guy jack off, it’s just as vapid.

But when there is a connection?

Daisy, a very articulate analysis. Call me old fashion, but I have to have a connection too.

Call me kinky, as I'll jack-off on her face and mouth, then ask for a sloppy sex. Yes, I thoroughly enjoy a snowball.

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

Not really I’d rather be the one jacking a dude off.

 

[Chubbyissh]

Definitely hot..but I guess it applies only when I am attracted to the guy. Extra points if he cums

 

[DCO_65]

Watching anyone is like porn, a poor substitute for the feel of someone's hand, tongue, lips or penis on me, or my hands, lips or tongue on them.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Yes! I love love watching a guy cum while he's jacking off! Especially in chat!

 

[Gwenndolynne]

Definitely hot..but I guess it applies only when I am attracted to the guy. Extra points if he cums

I feel the same way!

 

[hulmule]

Back in the day it turned on my wife though she would never admit it or talk about it. When laying in bed i could she her eyes trying to open to watch. It's a turn on. Now if i do it in the morning in bed and she's facing me , she'll just roll away What happened...

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Soooo much so! I could watch it every single day! I agree if he cums that's a thousand points!
I will watch strangers jack off online, but my favorite is watching my man! Something good different when they're jerking off just for YOU! {Opposed to letting a stranger watch them}...
Bonus points if you say my name as your cumming!