Does a guy jacking off turn a lady on?

Does watching another mastrubate turn you on?

  • I'm F or M, and another jacking or jilling is gross.

    Votes: 2 0.2%
  • I'm F, and almost any M jacking off does it.

    Votes: 173 13.2%
  • I'm M, and almost any F jilling off does it.

    Votes: 553 42.1%
  • I'm F, and I turn on only when a special M does it.

    Votes: 163 12.4%
  • I'm M, and I turn on only when a special F does it.

    Votes: 96 7.3%
  • I'm F, and another M mastrubating does nothing for me.

    Votes: 29 2.2%
  • I'm M, and another F mastrubating does nothing for me.

    Votes: 5 0.4%
  • I'm M or F, and I enjoy watching anyone.

    Votes: 265 20.2%
  • I'm M, and "none of the above"

    Votes: 11 0.8%
  • I'm F, and "none of the above"

    Votes: 15 1.1%

  • Total voters
    1,312
It use to turn my ex-wife on, very much so! In fact, we both enjoyed watching each other masterbate. It always lead to good sex!!
 
When I answered "I'm M or F, and I enjoy watching anyone," I meant that this is true only on general principal. Specifically, a lot depends on the individual involved... whether I think he or she is sexy, whether I'm in the mood or not, and maybe the phase of the moon or the alignment of Venus or something.

If I'm scanning through erotica and happen to see a video of someone masturbating, I may or may not stay and watch the whole thing. But I wouldn't be repulsed at it.
 
I wasn't sure until just recently. In the week leading up to a romantic weekend, we both agreed to edge...for seven days. She'd tease me by saying how close she was in the shower before work and I'd counter with something similar, but she seemed skeptical. One night while she was at work I texted her and told her I couldn't sleep and had been thinking about our trip. In the heat of the moment I took a video of myself edging on an old phone and left it for her to find in the morning with a note that said, "look, touch, show."

As I sat at my desk the hours passed...8:00, 9:00, 10:00 with no response. I immediately thought she either didn't watch or was so disgusted that she wasn't speaking to me. Around 11:00 I got a text that read, 'I'm still at it. I want to...so bad.' I praised her for her restraint and told her to go to sleep. She replied, 'one more edge.'

Later in the car she confessed that the video turned her on more than she thought it was going to and that she loved the proof that I was edging too.
 
These apply to us.

I'm F, and I turn on only when a special M does it.
I'm M, and I turn on only when a special F does it, but it’s more of the sound she makes that excites me.
 
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I love watching a man I sext with jack-off and cum. Knowing I am the muse for his pleasure is exciting.
Seeing the strength with which he strokes and ejaculated is so erotic.

I have a few friends who send me videos if we can't connect but they are using my photos or chats like porn.

I can watch over and over, and often use it to cum when I am alone.
 
I can honestly say that it would have to be someone I am involved with or attracted to in order for it to turn me on. Just a random stranger doing it (unless they were just a beautiful specimen of a man) would not do a lot for me. But watching someone you are involved with lose themselves and knowing that my watching is adding to his pleasure....that would be amazing. If he cums on command, even better. 🔥🍆🔥
 
mutual

I love watching a man I sext with jack-off and cum. Knowing I am the muse for his pleasure is exciting.
Seeing the strength with which he strokes and ejaculated is so erotic.

I have a few friends who send me videos if we can't connect but they are using my photos or chats like porn.

I can watch over and over, and often use it to cum when I am alone.



Mutual masturbation is the best foreplay!
 
I love to watch my wife but she doesn't like to be watched. I caught her with her dildo. She was stark naked on top of the covers having a great time and was mortified when I caught her. I tried to reassure her, but she still doesn't like to be watched.

She likes to watch me under certain circumstances. If we're in bed together and she's even slightly in the mood, she loves it. If I walk up to her while she's reading or something, drop my pants and jack off, she isn't interested.
 
Love watching either pleasure themselves. Usually by the time their done I’m playing with myself!!
 
Love watching either pleasure themselves. Usually by the time their done I’m playing with myself!!

Usually by the time they’re done, I’m done. There’s nothing more arousing than watching a male or female lover jerk off when I’m doing the same right beside them.
 
A couple days ago GF and I were at a public beach, a quiet one. She jilled off while sitting in a lounge chair. I stood in front and watched while keeping an eye out for beach walkers.
She came six times in about four minutes. She stopped because the next one was going to be a big squirt.
What a turn on! I had to go for a swim to get rid of my erection.
 
having seen it and happen to me in person
watching a guy jack off is a thrilling experience
that sec or two where he knows he cant hold off any longer and then losing it is hot
 
having seen it and happen to me in person
watching a guy jack off is a thrilling experience
that sec or two where he knows he cant hold off any longer and then losing it is hot

It's even hotter when you encourage him to let it go, so you can see him cum
 
And hearing you talk dirty while he's jacking off. Such a turn on.

yes i was am surprised how much dirty talk get guys hard ( silly pretty obvious i guess why they do ) but also getting my breasts out does it too
 
yes i was am surprised how much dirty talk get guys hard ( silly pretty obvious i guess why they do ) but also getting my breasts out does it too

Putting out your sexy boobies makes us hard. hearing you talk dirty makes us harder. it's the icing on naughty cake.
 
So nice to know

Yes! I love love watching a guy cum while he's jacking off! Especially in chat!

Hi

I do like your reply.

Unless a couple is together a cyber chat can e such a wonderful connnection and release. Make the best of the situation.

Even in person self pleasure is wildly erotic. I've learned so much from a new lover about what touch turns her on. A place to start then create our own special fun.

This is a great thread.

If you'd like to chat, let me know

Have fun!

Tom

PS Pics on request
 
Putting out your sexy boobies makes us hard. hearing you talk dirty makes us harder. it's the icing on naughty cake.

O you have had plenty of dirty talk from me in private
It's just a pity I could see you loose all self control
 
Point of no return

having seen it and happen to me in person
watching a guy jack off is a thrilling experience
that sec or two where he knows he cant hold off any longer and then losing it is hot

Hi,

this is a very arousing thread. For me, I do like watching my Lover when she Jills, especially during the time we're getting acquainted. I get a better understanding how she likes being touched. This is a place for our touch play to start.

There is that moment when edging ends and orgasm is inevitable. So erotic!

We can't always be together, Cyber can fill in if touching isn't possible. Wonderful playtime

Drop me a note if you'd like

Have fun!

Tom

PS pics on request
 
Putting out your sexy boobies makes us hard. hearing you talk dirty makes us harder. it's the icing on naughty cake.

Hi,

this is a very arousing thread. For me, I do like watching my Lover when she Jills, especially during the time we're getting acquainted. I get a better understanding how she likes being touched. This is a place for our touch play to start.

There is that moment when edging ends and orgasm is inevitable. So erotic!

We can't always be together, Cyber can fill in if touching isn't possible. Wonderful playtime

Drop me a note if you'd like

Have fun!

Tom

PS pics on request

Hi
I do enjoy sitting back and watching a guy loose all self control
Specifically when all he wants to do is fuck me and looses it and spurts his goey stuff everywhere those few seconds of no turning back is hot
 
Hi
I do enjoy sitting back and watching a guy loose all self control
Specifically when all he wants to do is fuck me and looses it and spurts his goey stuff everywhere those few seconds of no turning back is hot

Reading this was such a turn on
 
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