dom/ Domme addresses

[.exposure]

In the bedroom, I've called my boyfriend

Master and Sir, I can't remember any other names.

He's called me dirty slut, cunt, bitch, whore, etc.
I prefer cunt, actually.

and in public or when he's being 'sweet', he calls me 'baby goose' (short story) and I call him 'Muffin' (short story too)_

 

[vidharra]

Female Top
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Divine

Male Top
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Uncle

Female Bottom
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Whore

Neutral Bottom
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Toy

 

[CharleyH]

*gives charleyh a thong-wedgie, a noogie, and stuffs her in her locker*

You are such an ass, but since I love ass - bend over.

 

[CharleyH]

Thanks Ms. Lilith, Miss Netzach, Daddi Luna - that is different! And certainly Xeleebes and the others a kiss. Thank you all! I have a wealth of info now.

Female Top
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Baroness
Daddi
Dame
Divine
Domina
Dominatrix
Domme
Duchess
Frau
Goddess
Headmistress
Lady
Madame
Madamoiselle
Miss
Missus
Mistress
Mommy
Mother
My Lady
Princess
Queen
Queen-bitch
Sister

Male Top
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Alphadom
Baron
Brother
Dom
Duke
Father




T
Herr
King
Lord
Master
Mister
Monsieur
Schoolmaster
Sir
Uncle

Female Bottom
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Bitch
Cunt
Daughter
Girl
Kitty
Schoolgirl
Slave
Slut
Whore

Male Bottom
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Boy
Boytoy
Cuntboy
Pervert
Poppet
Puppy
Manslut
Manwhore
Schoolboy
Servant
Son

Neutral Top
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Counsellor
Doctor
Dom
Dominant
Owner
Schoolteacher
Teacher

Neutral Bottom
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Pet
Patient
Slave
Student
Subject
Submissive
Toy
Victim

 

[Technodivinitas]

For a very long time, I refered to Master as "My Lord". We were actually in scene when he decreed, rather with a snarl, that there would be no more of that, and that I would call him Master. Period. (At least he doesn't expect me to call him that in vanilla/public places...)

I've always been partial to Sir. (And lately, Daddy has seemed awfully sexy to me...)

He calls me gyrl, or sometimes uses no direct reference to me at all, just direct commands. When I'm his pet, he calls me by the pet's name, which is jivvin. Like everyone, I love it when he calls me filthy names, though he doesn't do it often. I love little slut, and whore. Cunt, fucktoy, and fuckhole are also hot.

For a Domme... I'm not sure. Ma'am is too old-lady for my ear, but Mistress seems to have too many vanilla connotations. I suppose I'd call her whatever it pleased her to be called!

 

[astralkiss]

Well, I call Him simply Dear or his name when we aren't playing.

Playing, it's usually Sir. That's it, nothing too special.

Me, while playing I am usually His Slut, Sluttacus, or Buttacus. When I am not in trouble.

When I am trouble, it is anyone's guess. *L*

 

[Technodivinitas]

Well, I call Him simply Dear or his name when we aren't playing.
Playing, it's usually Sir. That's it, nothing too special.
Me, while playing I am usually His Slut, Sluttacus, or Buttacus. When I am not in trouble.
When I am trouble, it is anyone's guess. *L*

With Master & I, "not playing" doesn't really apply, since we consider ourselves to be 24/7. What that really means though is, *I* am His 24/7, and he may at ANY time decide that he wishes to drag me downstairs by my hair and beat me til I bleed, or command me to lift my skirt for inspection, or shove my face to his cock. Also, that I am expected to show him the respect due my owner at all times, although he often lets me slide, and I'm pretty lax about that.

Buttacus...? Can't help thinking of someone else who's name's on the tip of my tongue... *lol*

Also, I forgot to mention, I love Sire. Sire is elegant, to my ear, just as Sir is dignified. What about formal court-addresses, such as Your Excellence, Grace, or Benevolence? (highness and majesty seem like they'd be a bit much...)

My Leige is nice, though also a bit over the top.

If one were going to use M'Lady or MiLady, and *I* were on the other end of the crop, I think I would require proper english and annunciation, and demand that it be used as a clear my Lady, with no apostrophe. I might also go off into creative mode, and require something colorful, like, Fair One, or Marquessa. Or maybe something in actual French or Russian.

 

[Summer_Jasmine]

I just want one to call *something* anything he wishes

 

[snowy ciara]

I don't have anyone to call anything yet. crossing fingers and toes However, a friend of mine calls her Master by his first name when in vanilla company, Sir in kinked crowds, and Sir or Master in private. He calls her sweetie, babe, my girl, that sort of thing in public. He has a special nickname for her, in private. However, he's also been known to call her "my Precious" with a gollum-like grin and shuffle.

I've found that with most PYL's a version of their name is sufficient. With those whom I have tons of respect for I'll add an honorific unless they tell me not too. Like Ms. Shadowsdream or Mr. Gil or Mr. Rathbone, Esq. Okay, so the last one is sort of teasing after he called me a fluffy hand grenade once. But still, I do respect him in a weird way.

One thing I've never ever gotten into is calling another pyl "sis", "sister", or "bro" or any of that. It's just that such title are reserved for closer relationships to me than a shared personality trait. For instance, I have 4 brothers, 3 of whom I love dearly and the last of which I don't. I'd rather reserve the sibling title for those related to me.

 

[Aeroil]

One thing I've never ever gotten into is calling another pyl "sis", "sister", or "bro" or any of that. It's just that such title are reserved for closer relationships to me than a shared personality trait. For instance, I have 4 brothers, 3 of whom I love dearly and the last of which I don't. I'd rather reserve the sibling title for those related to me.

I only have one sibling and I hate him, for me I'd have no problem calling someone else brother or sister, sort of a reverse of the normal connotation of the word sibling, which has always been a negative word for me. Mine have always been my enemies, it'd be nice to 'purify' the word .

 

[Technodivinitas]

Oooooo...

little sister. I think I like that one. So raunchy, in a wierdly clean, sarcasticly polite sort of way. (Also brings to mind a sneering Billy Idol- was I the only one who thought White Wedding seemed to have a bizarrely kinky and evil undercurrent?)

But he'd have to say it in a stiff British accent- or maybe a thick, dirty brogue.

 

[Immolator]

My Wife calls me "puppy".

Hello, puppy!

Still looking for the perfect thing for him to call me...

 

[snowy ciara]

I only have one sibling and I hate him, for me I'd have no problem calling someone else brother or sister, sort of a reverse of the normal connotation of the word sibling, which has always been a negative word for me. Mine have always been my enemies, it'd be nice to 'purify' the word .

Well, to be honest, I don't really refer to the brother I dislike intensely (Mum would prefer I didn't call him the brother I hate...) as my brother. He's known simply as THE Asshole in our family. (A title she's used at least once in my hearing...) So a sibling, like a brother or sister is not a casual term for me.

I get echoes of the Ethical Slut in your answer, though, where they refer to reclaiming the word slut as something to be proud of.

 

[Etoile]

I have no idea why, but "Daddi" always gives me the giggles. I see no problem with "Daddy" for a male or female. (Well, duh, this is me!)

Plus, it reminds me of Francis Urquhart. Rowr.

 

[shy slave]

I don't particularly want to call him 'Master,' although I do in private sometimes; but I always wonder how many people would turn to respond if I used it in a BDSM setting

OTOH I can't think of anything else to call him(or if I can, its not appropriate )

He often calls me 'girl' which said with a sexy Danish accent sound Mmmmm

I usually just use his name or 'darling' but I admit I tend to overuse the word 'darling' for anyone I am close to, children, people at work, friends etc.
Its a term of endearment with different meanings depending on the person I am speaking to.

 

[Andante]

He often calls me 'girl' which said with a sexy Danish accent sound Mmmmm

'Accent'? .....me?......nahh, you must be kidding

Besides, didn't I order you to go to sleep, hours before you wrote this?

 

[shy slave]

'Accent'? .....me?......nahh, you must be kidding

Besides, didn't I order you to go to sleep, hours before you wrote this?

Ummm.

I am sleeping, see, look, fast asleep.

Honest.

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

 

[landcruisergal]

master is master..
His choice, tho I had major difficulty with it...too many frankenstein movies with lisping Igors....."Yeth Mathter" yech. It was easier with simply sir.

The boy is pup, or by his pet name friday ( after a friend's dog, not the Crusoe story)

I am pet, sub, or my full first name (which I detest) if I am in trouble.

I am mistress...sometimes "my beautiful mistress" when he is sucking up.