Dom/Domme or sub/sub crushes, anyone?

[shy slave]

I'm switch, so maybe y'all will stop reading at this point, but I have something to say about this topic.

I've never had a crush on another sub, while I was in a sub mode, nor on another Dom/me while I was in Domme mode. When I crush on a Dom/me or sub, it's because that person inspires in me the feelings of the other.

Example: my Daddy is my Dom, and I am His sub. He also has another girl he adores, who adores him. She is sweet and innocent, and she and I adore each other to pieces.. and she inspires in me Domme feelings... even though we are both sub to him. (She is only very mildly submissive, as far as awareness goes.. she is not in the lifestyle.. but her personality has always screamed 'sub' to me). She doesn't inspire the sadist in me, or the Top in me... but rather the loving care that a Domme has for her sub. She inspires me to protect her and cherish her and teach and guide her...

Maybe it doesn't make sense.. I don't know.

Makes sense to me

 

[graceanne]

I'm switch, so maybe y'all will stop reading at this point, but I have something to say about this topic.

I've never had a crush on another sub, while I was in a sub mode, nor on another Dom/me while I was in Domme mode. When I crush on a Dom/me or sub, it's because that person inspires in me the feelings of the other.

Example: my Daddy is my Dom, and I am His sub. He also has another girl he adores, who adores him. She is sweet and innocent, and she and I adore each other to pieces.. and she inspires in me Domme feelings... even though we are both sub to him. (She is only very mildly submissive, as far as awareness goes.. she is not in the lifestyle.. but her personality has always screamed 'sub' to me). She doesn't inspire the sadist in me, or the Top in me... but rather the loving care that a Domme has for her sub. She inspires me to protect her and cherish her and teach and guide her...

Maybe it doesn't make sense.. I don't know.

Ew! Switch cooties!

Makes sense to me, too.

 

[Aeroil]

I'm switch, so maybe y'all will stop reading at this point, but I have something to say about this topic.

I've never had a crush on another sub, while I was in a sub mode, nor on another Dom/me while I was in Domme mode. When I crush on a Dom/me or sub, it's because that person inspires in me the feelings of the other.

Example: my Daddy is my Dom, and I am His sub. He also has another girl he adores, who adores him. She is sweet and innocent, and she and I adore each other to pieces.. and she inspires in me Domme feelings... even though we are both sub to him. (She is only very mildly submissive, as far as awareness goes.. she is not in the lifestyle.. but her personality has always screamed 'sub' to me). She doesn't inspire the sadist in me, or the Top in me... but rather the loving care that a Domme has for her sub. She inspires me to protect her and cherish her and teach and guide her...

Maybe it doesn't make sense.. I don't know.

makes perfect sense.

 

[Killishandra]

I'm switch, so maybe y'all will stop reading at this point, but I have something to say about this topic.

I've never had a crush on another sub, while I was in a sub mode, nor on another Dom/me while I was in Domme mode. When I crush on a Dom/me or sub, it's because that person inspires in me the feelings of the other.

Example: my Daddy is my Dom, and I am His sub. He also has another girl he adores, who adores him. She is sweet and innocent, and she and I adore each other to pieces.. and she inspires in me Domme feelings... even though we are both sub to him. (She is only very mildly submissive, as far as awareness goes.. she is not in the lifestyle.. but her personality has always screamed 'sub' to me). She doesn't inspire the sadist in me, or the Top in me... but rather the loving care that a Domme has for her sub. She inspires me to protect her and cherish her and teach and guide her...

Maybe it doesn't make sense.. I don't know.

I'm confused.

 

[sphynx's dragon]

I'm confused.

A common occurence.....

 

[Killishandra]

A common occurence.....

don't make me kick your butt.

 

[sphynx's dragon]

don't make me kick your butt.

Oddly enough right now you probably could...not at the top of my form at the moment. Just you wait, let me take a couple of vicodan so I won't feel it and then we can see who's bad!








hehehehehehehe

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I'm confused.

Im glad some of you understood.


Killi, why are you confused?

 

[Killishandra]

Oddly enough right now you probably could...not at the top of my form at the moment. Just you wait, let me take a couple of vicodan so I won't feel it and then we can see who's bad!








hehehehehehehe

Oh yeah, I forgot about that. We'll save the sparring for a while. (Until I get real good at JKD! )

*big hugs*

 

[sphynx's dragon]

Im glad some of you understood.


Killi, why are you confused?

I understood, I don't get that way myself, having no Dom tendencies at all. Serious sub here. I've never met anyone who inspired that in me.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I understood, I don't get that way myself, having no Dom tendencies at all. Serious sub here. I've never met anyone who inspired that in me.

For a long time I couldn't imagine feeling Domme. And then I met one woman.. then a second.. who really inspired me.

Since then, I've met a few men, as well, who inspired it... but it's completely based on the individual, not on an ideal.

 

[sphynx's dragon]

For a long time I couldn't imagine feeling Domme. And then I met one woman.. then a second.. who really inspired me.

Since then, I've met a few men, as well, who inspired it... but it's completely based on the individual, not on an ideal.

True, I won't rule anything out, it's always possible I could meet someone who brings it out. <shrug> If it happens it does, if not I'm content with my subbieness.

 

[Killishandra]

Im glad some of you understood.


Killi, why are you confused?

I'm not. Sorry, Ms Lilith! I was only making a joke, because there was a line of people simply saying "Makes sense to me" so I thought I'd jump in there with a funny. I have weird humor sometimes, perhaps.

In all seriousness, I do understand what you were talking about.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I'm not. Sorry, Ms Lilith! I was only making a joke, because there was a line of people simply saying "Makes sense to me" so I thought I'd jump in there with a funny. I have weird humor sometimes, perhaps.

In all seriousness, I do understand what you were talking about.

ah, okay. Thank you for explaining.

 

[Marquis]

True, I won't rule anything out, it's always possible I could meet someone who brings it out. <shrug> If it happens it does, if not I'm content with my subbieness.

This is totally off topic, but I want to take a minute to say something nice.


Having read you online and met you in person, I will say that it is really inspiring to see someone so confident and content in their orientation. I wouldn't know, but I suspect it is not an easy thing for a man to accept himself as a sub, and to respect yourself as a sub in the way that you obviously do takes a maturity that I have to admire.

 

[roosterado9]

well uhh yes i have seen some hot sub sis's i'll pretend they are Domme works for me ?????

 

[sphynx's dragon]

This is totally off topic, but I want to take a minute to say something nice.


Having read you online and met you in person, I will say that it is really inspiring to see someone so confident and content in their orientation. I wouldn't know, but I suspect it is not an easy thing for a man to accept himself as a sub, and to respect yourself as a sub in the way that you obviously do takes a maturity that I have to admire.

Thank you Marquis. That means a lot to me. It has taken a while to be this way and I never would have made it without my Lady's love, guidance and acceptance.

 

[FurryFury]

I'm switch, so maybe y'all will stop reading at this point, but I have something to say about this topic.

I've never had a crush on another sub, while I was in a sub mode, nor on another Dom/me while I was in Domme mode. When I crush on a Dom/me or sub, it's because that person inspires in me the feelings of the other.

Example: my Daddy is my Dom, and I am His sub. He also has another girl he adores, who adores him. She is sweet and innocent, and she and I adore each other to pieces.. and she inspires in me Domme feelings... even though we are both sub to him. (She is only very mildly submissive, as far as awareness goes.. she is not in the lifestyle.. but her personality has always screamed 'sub' to me). She doesn't inspire the sadist in me, or the Top in me... but rather the loving care that a Domme has for her sub. She inspires me to protect her and cherish her and teach and guide her...

Maybe it doesn't make sense.. I don't know.

Hi Ms_Lilith!

You made perfect sense to me! *smiles*

However, I am not that way myself. I don't like labels. I just like who I like and I don't really care what their "label thing" is. I'm not sure why. Maybe because I'm not free to pursue it?

Or maybe because whoever I was with, I would do whatever they needed to make them happy as I could?

Of course I know from personal experience there are some ass holes you can love that you can't make happy but I'm still damned sure going to work my ass off for them, if we are together.

So I don't think of people in terms of Doms or subs, straight or gay, male or female, or any other terms like that. We can discus such things all we want but I mostly just think of people in terms like this. I LIKE them and we enjoy our time together.

Not that together time might be writing back and forth, eating lunch and *gasps* shopping,.
Or it could be shooting pool, throwing back some brews or sex. I give all of my best when I am with them. I expect very little back. Just that they be themselves. Not spend time with me unless they WANT to, treat me with respect and tolerance as I will them.

The fact is most of the people I enjoy are warm and caring. We sort of have this raging mutual admiration thing going on. Life is sweet like that sometimes.

Other times it sucks big green donkey dicks...

But sometimes, a lot of times if I / they let it be, it's all good!

Fury

 

[Netzach]

I crush out on all kinds of people.

And I'd fling and fuck with other Dommes and maybe certain Doms/male switches in a non-BDSM way (though they seem to have to make everything in bed a power thing, women are far more cooperative and thus attractive to me.)

But that's vanilla, pretty much. Been there done that. It's certainly fine for a snack, but not very susbtantial for me, which is only going to be provided by someone submissive to me.

 

[astralkiss]

the tendency i have is to crush on fellow subbies, although everyonce in a while I fall for a domme.

BUT I have never crushed on a submissive male except for one or two.

My PYL is dominant, so there is that.

On here, I crush on..

Killi (duh)
CC(too damn cute)
Aeroil (great personality and those glasses...rawr...)

I think that is it.

I would love if I could just live in a house with a bazillion other dominants and submissives, play "puppies in a basket" when I was feeling cuddly and have sex with all the other submissives and dom(me)s, yet at the end of the day be able to go back to my PYL and know that it is just us.

I hope that made sense

 

[Marquis]

OK, since the debut of her latest av, I officially have a HUGE crush on Netzach.

I am now imagining Netzach and I together as a Dominant couple in House Martzach, luring innocent young kinksters from around the world to serve us limitlessly.

'Twould be glorious, I say.

 

[Xelebes]

Add to the list: Quint.

K. Done for now.

 

[jasonlf]

I've always had a thing for ShadowsDream. I feel like she's a midaevil lady I need to like go slay things for.

 

[Netzach]

OK, since the debut of her latest av, I officially have a HUGE crush on Netzach.

I am now imagining Netzach and I together as a Dominant couple in House Martzach, luring innocent young kinksters from around the world to serve us limitlessly.

'Twould be glorious, I say.

I always knew I could make any man admit anything, with the correctly applied strategy

 

[Aeroil]

I've always had a thing for ShadowsDream. I feel like she's a midaevil lady I need to like go slay things for.

DAMN YOU JASE!!! Medieval!! how many times must I tell you??