Domly patience and impatient subbies

[AngelicAssassin]

I like to think of myself as fairly patient, but I do have a lightning quick temper (thankfully it rarely goes off, I'm working on it).

And as I believe I may mentioned before enjoy training a sub, no one elses tastes ingrained into her.

Agreed to an extent.

i hated cleaning up after some idiot's mess.

Finding, showing, and exploring ... that had a secret sweetness all of its own.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: Re: Re: An observation

I'm sure the experienced subs appreciate those like Eb, who prefer someone "full grown".

Diversity is pretty cool.

You misunderstand, I did not say that. I have new subs, and in fact, I train new subs all the time.

I said I do not want subs who do not know they are submissive.
I do not do charity work.

I do not want subs who are "finding themselves", those males subs who have that mentality tend to be men who just want their kink satisfied. The dynamic between male subs and female dominants is different that the one between male Dominant and female sub. Not better, just different.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

God grant me because i sure as hell need it now.

 

[catalina_francisco]

God grant me because i sure as hell need it now.

Now what exactly do you need....domly patience or an impatient sub?

C

 

[Ebonyfire]

God grant me because i sure as hell need it now.

I can tell you that My patience has been running thin in the last couple of weeks.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

I can tell you that My patience has been running thin in the last couple of weeks.

Jump ball on Pure Eb ... shot out.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Jump ball on Pure Eb ... shot out.

He is neither sub or Dom.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Have I posted here yet?

I have zero patience... it makes Him crazy. I have worked on it, but I don't succeed most of the time. ;-)

 

[catalina_francisco]

Have I posted here yet?

I have zero patience... it makes Him crazy. I have worked on it, but I don't succeed most of the time. ;-)

Try meditation...it can work wonders in so many constructive ways.

C

 

[A Desert Rose]

Try meditation...it can work wonders in so many constructive ways.

C

I think there's a hidden message in there.... LOL.

;-)

Actually, I would love to learn self-hypnosis. I am often uptight and my shoulders and neck suffer for it.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I think there's a hidden message in there.... LOL.

;-)

Actually, I would love to learn self-hypnosis. I am often uptight and my shoulders and neck suffer for it.

That can also be good, but I think meditation and visualisation are my faves. I have had huge success giving people colour visualisations....didn't think they could make so much difference.

C

 

[Desdemona]

I am compelled to report that Master taught me a lesson in patience last night.

OK, this post got me to thinking. I know for certain that patience is not my strong suit. As in... how many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop? The answer for me is exactly 2. *crunch*

I bring this up also because last weekend, Snooze and I were out with a friend who bought tootsie pops for us all. She and I crunched to the center in short order. He sat there, slowly savoring the candy outside, lick after lick after lick until I was dying for Him to bite it. During this time, He was teasing me about my own lack of patience and inability to take my time and savor the moment.

We were out last night, as usual, looking for bargains on antiques at an auction. Snooze excused Himself for a minute and returned with a couple of tootsie pops and an evil grin.

He whispered in my ear: "I haven't said anything to you, but I saw your thread about patience. I'm going to teach you a little lesson. I want you to eat this slowly. If you crunch, even once, you'll be sleeping on the floor tonight and there will be no hope of playtime this weekend".

Needless to say, I was motivated to give it a good try. After about 3 licks, I was dying to bite down on the candy and get to the chewy center. I saw Him watching me with that same evil grin. He said: " It's killing you, isn't it?" All I could do was nod and keep licking as He watched and enjoyed my inner struggle.

It was pretty cool to be dominated like that in public. We were doing something seemingly innocuous, yet it brought home the fact that He is always in control; even when we are surrounded by people.

About halfway through that tootsie pop, I was feeling pretty proud of myself and no longer had a strong urge to bite it. I'm not sure if I became a tiny bit more patient or if I was just enjoying this little act of submission. I don't think I'll ever eat another tootsie pop without remembering the feeling of His control over me.

I guess patience does have it's own rewards. At least, it did last night. I think the knowledge that I had earned the privilege made the mattress feel a bit more comfy. I'll leave the rest of the evening's activites to your fertile imaginations.

Thank you for a wonderful evening Master.

 

[Desdemona]

Have I posted here yet?

I have zero patience... it makes Him crazy. I have worked on it, but I don't succeed most of the time. ;-)

Hiya ADR.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I think there's a hidden message in there.... LOL.

;-)

Actually the way my mind works, there probably is. Very rarely can something I am thinking be squeezed into a nice concise sentence as there are so many variants and divergent thoughts going on at the same moment.

Catalina

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Begging your pardon if, Des ...

OK, this post got me to thinking. I know for certain that patience is not my strong suit. As in... how many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop? The answer for me is exactly 2. *crunch*

So, the quetions are:

Are subs, in general, impatient? Or is it an individual trait?

Are dominants, in general, patient? Or is it an individual trait?

Is this yet another way that we are equal and opposite halves of a whole?


I'm interested in your thoughts on this.

but this definitely needed a bump.

 

[Silverlily]

I don't know that it's a matter of what you are, but possibly a matter of what you can learn.

For example - I started this life as impatient as it gets. I was even born early. I frequently got into trouble as a child for not waiting my turn and was very prone to tantrums if I had to wait. Even as I got older and outgrew the tantrums, I would literally get hives from being forced to wait.

Perhaps it was the arrival of a small, dark-haired, toothless screaming humanoid that stifled my impatience, but over the years I have mastered the art of being patient, emphasis on being. It is still not and never will be something I am, but I can with relative ease, be patient.

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Begging your pardon if, Des ...

but this definitely needed a bump.

It's cool with me AA.

 

[Never]

It took me 668 licks to get to the center.

 

[h_i_s]

As a slave to my Master, as well as while i am out and about in the vanilla world, i'm very patient most times. The main reason for my impatient meter going bust would be heavy traffic that may make me late for work. i drive an hour commute each way to get to & from my job 5 days a week. There is always some idiot driving 60 in the high speed/far left passing lane. my impatience makes me want to yank them aside and smack them silly for their inconciderate tendancy to stay in that lane like they own the daymn thing.

However, Master is a very impatient Dom at times. There have been times when He has driven in the breakdown lane to pass up a whole line of stopped traffic.

He is patient with me for the most part, yet many times it seems as if nothing s done quickly enough to suit His desires.

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