erotic phone sex
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DriveSouth
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I'm agreeing here flirt-
Love erotic phone play here...
Love erotic phone play here...
BrassMonkey
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Re: it's not up to you
I understand that it isn't for me to decide what turns the other person on, it is up to them. I guess what I am getting at is it greats a mental block for me. Sort of like speaking a foriegn language and not believing that the sounds you are making are really interpreted as words by the listner. I am being quiet, I am thinking this can't be that great for them, I get more nervous ... Okay, sounds like I am over thinking it.
On similar note. Haven't been asked "tell me what you're doing" but during sex in person, I have been asked, "tell me what you're thinking." Thinking? I was supposed to be thinking?
ShamelessFlirt said:
I understand that it isn't for me to decide what turns the other person on, it is up to them. I guess what I am getting at is it greats a mental block for me. Sort of like speaking a foriegn language and not believing that the sounds you are making are really interpreted as words by the listner. I am being quiet, I am thinking this can't be that great for them, I get more nervous ... Okay, sounds like I am over thinking it.
On similar note. Haven't been asked "tell me what you're doing" but during sex in person, I have been asked, "tell me what you're thinking." Thinking? I was supposed to be thinking?
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ShamelessFlirt
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Sex is a cereberal thing
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Sex is a cereberal thing, yes you were supposed to be thinking!
I can't count how many times the adage "you have to get into my head before you get into my pants"
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Sex is a cereberal thing, yes you were supposed to be thinking!
I can't count how many times the adage "you have to get into my head before you get into my pants"
BrassMonkey
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Re: Sex is a cereberal thing
Okay, I see your point, but I see the key word as 'before.' After that I find it more of a stream of consciousness that crashes like a derailed train when asked to explain itself. I lose focus when I find myself thinking too much about what I am going to do next rather then let it happen.
ShamelessFlirt said:
Okay, I see your point, but I see the key word as 'before.' After that I find it more of a stream of consciousness that crashes like a derailed train when asked to explain itself. I lose focus when I find myself thinking too much about what I am going to do next rather then let it happen.
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Re: try netmeeting
I want to hear more about the bathtub ...
Celtlan said:phone sex is nice but just to be different try netmeeting when your in the bath...... hits the spot for me
I want to hear more about the bathtub ...
WickedEve
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One thing I enjoy doing for my lover is writing a very hot story for him about the two of us. And when we have phone sex, I start by reading the story first. It can really get things going. I like to add lots of passionate and nasty dialog to the story. And when I read it, I read it with FEELING! Especially if I'm playing with one of the dildos he sent me.
And that's another idea. You can make phone sex even more personal if you both have special things you've given each other there with you. And atmosphere can help. You can even try to make your settings match. Maybe both of you can be in bed or the bathtub, lights low or have the same scented candles, same soft music in the background, silk scarf, etc... This way you can share similar sights, sound, smells, textures!
Sometimes just sending some naughty emails, or a quick call to tell your "phone sex lover" how much you want him/her, before the actual "phone date" can make great foreplay!
And that's another idea. You can make phone sex even more personal if you both have special things you've given each other there with you. And atmosphere can help. You can even try to make your settings match. Maybe both of you can be in bed or the bathtub, lights low or have the same scented candles, same soft music in the background, silk scarf, etc... This way you can share similar sights, sound, smells, textures!
Sometimes just sending some naughty emails, or a quick call to tell your "phone sex lover" how much you want him/her, before the actual "phone date" can make great foreplay!
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WickedEve said:
I do so love the naughty ideas....maybe it will be fun.
Thanks...
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ShamelessFlirt
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someone to help
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Just another side note, the reason I would call if I had someone there to help would be as much for the other person (on the phone and physically there to help) as for myself. It's a voyeristic thing.
Picture this
You're on the phone with your phone partner, and her roommate comes in and catches her. Would it turn you on to know she was helping your partner? Maybe she likes to be watched and she's getting turned on knowing that you're listening to her eat out her girlfriend.
So many possabilities ...lol
BrassMonkey said:
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Just another side note, the reason I would call if I had someone there to help would be as much for the other person (on the phone and physically there to help) as for myself. It's a voyeristic thing.
Picture this
You're on the phone with your phone partner, and her roommate comes in and catches her. Would it turn you on to know she was helping your partner? Maybe she likes to be watched and she's getting turned on knowing that you're listening to her eat out her girlfriend.
So many possabilities ...lol
BrassMonkey
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Re: someone to help
Ah yes, I see voyeristic, or even an LD threesome.
Thanks for the imagery.
ShamelessFlirt said:
Ah yes, I see voyeristic, or even an LD threesome.
Thanks for the imagery.
If you are shy about having phone sex where the other person is actually listening you could always try leaving a voice mail. Due to my limited knowledge on how to begin a phone sex session and a lack of time, a close friend of mine decided to leave a voice mail on my cell phone that had him describing us having sex and was masterbating while telling me what he was doing to me. It was the most erotic thing I had ever heard. I have it saved on my voice mail and any time that I need some inspiration I just check my voice mail and voila, I am ready to ride. I am waiting for the opportunity and privacy in order to return the favor. My dildo and I are primed and ready to go. I am hoping to give him a voice mail he won't soon erase and then once I am comfortable with talking that way I will be able to have him actually interact with me.
Why not one step farther?
Hi everyone! This is my first post here!
Why not add a web cam? My online lover and I each have a camera and get on Net meeting. It's private, fun and best of all Free.. We each have head phones so there isn't any cost involved.
Hi everyone! This is my first post here!
Why not add a web cam? My online lover and I each have a camera and get on Net meeting. It's private, fun and best of all Free.. We each have head phones so there isn't any cost involved.
lovetoread
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Hello to you
The thought of performing in front of a camera is beyond me at the moment, but I will keep it in mind.
I am wondering though, do you ever get disconnected during?
The thought of performing in front of a camera is beyond me at the moment, but I will keep it in mind.
I am wondering though, do you ever get disconnected during?
Two people now have mentioned this net meetings and I want to know more about it. You can chat and look at video at the same time, right? Is it expensive? Does it matter what kind of camera you use? I want to know like lovetoread if it crashes a lot and leaves you right in the middle of things. Tell me everything!!
And let me tell you, the idea of a man taking a bath with his women like Celtlan does sounds SO HOT!! I'm very turned on by the idea, but I want to know how the camera doesn't steam up.
Questions, questions! But I'm new here so I'm learning.
Sudsy
And let me tell you, the idea of a man taking a bath with his women like Celtlan does sounds SO HOT!! I'm very turned on by the idea, but I want to know how the camera doesn't steam up.
Questions, questions! But I'm new here so I'm learning.
Sudsy
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*whistling innocently*
Net meeting is free and is on any computer that runs Windows - consider it Uncle Bill's little present to each and everyone of us. If you can't find it, you can download it from Microsoft.
It is free to use but does require a webcam - the only limitation there is whether you can get it to run on your computer.
It is fairly stable, especially if you are logging on to meet a specific person.
The newest version of MSN Messenger replaces NetMeeting, and supports audio and video.
An alternative is ISPQ (eye-speak), which can be downloaded at www.ispq.com . That program costs about $40 (and they have a webcam/program bundle for about $80) and it is EXTREMELY stable. It is also organized more like a traditional chat program, with adult and non adult sections, organized by interest. This provides an opportunity to meet new friends as well as stay in touch with old ones.
So I hear
Net meeting is free and is on any computer that runs Windows - consider it Uncle Bill's little present to each and everyone of us. If you can't find it, you can download it from Microsoft.
It is free to use but does require a webcam - the only limitation there is whether you can get it to run on your computer.
It is fairly stable, especially if you are logging on to meet a specific person.
The newest version of MSN Messenger replaces NetMeeting, and supports audio and video.
An alternative is ISPQ (eye-speak), which can be downloaded at www.ispq.com . That program costs about $40 (and they have a webcam/program bundle for about $80) and it is EXTREMELY stable. It is also organized more like a traditional chat program, with adult and non adult sections, organized by interest. This provides an opportunity to meet new friends as well as stay in touch with old ones.
So I hear
Bob Peale
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Sudsy, to be perfectly honest, for the most part it really is plug and play.
You should be able to pick up a decent webcam for $40 or so, and you can download a 21 day trial of ISPQ for free.
Even on a non sexual level it's pretty cool to be able to see the person you are chatting with.
You should be able to pick up a decent webcam for $40 or so, and you can download a 21 day trial of ISPQ for free.
Even on a non sexual level it's pretty cool to be able to see the person you are chatting with.
Net Meeting
I use a cable ISP and so far haven't had any trouble with my connection when I'm using the camera. :}
I'm not positive, but I believe netmeeting came with IE when I downloaded it on my computer. I type in his IP address and it rings is end. He answers it like a phone call and were connected, we turn on our cameras, put on our headphones and get down to business >:}
I use a cable ISP and so far haven't had any trouble with my connection when I'm using the camera. :}
I'm not positive, but I believe netmeeting came with IE when I downloaded it on my computer. I type in his IP address and it rings is end. He answers it like a phone call and were connected, we turn on our cameras, put on our headphones and get down to business >:}
EnchantedBeauty
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Phone sex is very erotic and can get very HOT. I am a shy person so of course I had to be "coaxed" but once there it was a very erotic time that I just wanted to keep repeating. Phone sex to me is alot more fun then just cyber sex. Cyber sex you are just typing to eachother and can't hear the "sounds". I am very vocal during sex as it is so you can imagine during phone sex!
Try it you might like it
Try it you might like it
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Netmeeting
Never had too much of a problem with Netmeeting. The video works very well...much better than any camera site I've seen. The audio is slightly annoying at times because it sometimes echoes. The privacy is what I love the most. It's direct from computer to computer.
Never had too much of a problem with Netmeeting. The video works very well...much better than any camera site I've seen. The audio is slightly annoying at times because it sometimes echoes. The privacy is what I love the most. It's direct from computer to computer.
lovetoread
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The privacy thing is a problem with other programs?
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lovetoread said:
I've only used camera sites and netmeeting, so I don't know about any other programs. In the case of the camera sites though, unless they have a function that allows you to use a password and go private, then anyone who clicks on your "room" can see you.
lovetoread
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Oh my gawd...unless you are into it,that has to be awful!
