Fact or Fiction: Which Turns You On Most?

[talldad1]

Fact. If it seems at all like I'm being told something fake just to get me or the other person off - that's a serious turn off. There's so much eroticism in truthfulness, you don't need to make it up.

Exactly what she said, fact turns me on more than anything.

 

[LucyH]

I prefer fiction, in large part because I am fascinated by things that aren't physically possible.

 

[richfun]

I prefer fiction, in large part because I am fascinated by things that aren't physically possible.

What a great thread.
Agree with Lucy, I think the greatest sexual weapon (in a nice sense of the word) is the mind.

 

[LucyH]

Fiction, absolutely. Give me dragons, aliens, imaginary cults which promote incest, imaginary aphrodisiac drugs with no bad side effects, superheros, and that sort of thing any day.

I'll drink to that. Maybe a slightly different assortment of impossibilities, but close enough!

 

[Typo Fu Master]

Fiction, absolutely. Give me dragons, aliens, imaginary cults which promote incest, imaginary aphrodisiac drugs with no bad side effects, superheros, and that sort of thing any day.

I'll drink to that. Maybe a slightly different assortment of impossibilities, but close enough!

Agreed. It is undeniably erotic to share real life experiences but there are some things it's just not possible to do ... or that shouldn't be done ... in the real world.

 

[gabriel16]

hi -- real life experiences are #1

real life experiences are #1

 

[earth7913]

They both turn me on but I think that fact is a little better. Something about hearing a real experience can be so erotic.....

 

[dz2681]

Fiction is a turn on and fun to read, but there is nothing like exchanging personal experiences with another person. I've only been able to do that with a few people on here but some of the more personal stories I've been told are mind blowing and quite the turn on. It seems easier to open up to a stranger that will probably never meet than to share secrets with people we know, guess there's less judgement on a site like this, which def helps. Role playing is always a good time in my opinion especially when both people are really into the fantasy it can make for some memorable moments

 

[OnceFuturePoly]

Real Life to Fiction?

How about the case where a writer starts with a real incident and then extends it?

This is what I should have done.
Here's what I really wanted.
If I only knew then what I know now.
My fantasy ending would be.
This would have been even better.

 

[mayflowers]

I think that women are better with fantasy because at least for me lots of the fantasy has to do with things that men suck at doing. Men are better with true stories but of course they always go to the most exotic experience first which is a turn off for me. I like vanilla stuff and its hard to find people into the regular everyday scenario that is classy and romantic.

 

[jackdaw]

I think that women are better with fantasy because at least for me lots of the fantasy has to do with things that men suck at doing. Men are better with true stories but of course they always go to the most exotic experience first which is a turn off for me. I like vanilla stuff and its hard to find people into the regular everyday scenario that is classy and romantic.

Try me; you might be surprised x

 

[klippert]

I like factual stories....I'm sure some are embellished...like cock size...or being fucked for an hour. But, I truly luv telling my sexual history and REALLY like hearing about other sexual past. Especially Mrs K's.

I luv when she tells me about coming out of her shell in college, the big cocks, getting fingered on at 30K feet...hehe