Fat Chick Fetish?

[Gilroygal69]

Oh class. Totally optional. A wildebeest in a tight enough skirt will go home with someone at bar close.

Too true. But most men don't form committed relationships with wildebeest. They want...eh fuck it. I'm out of analogous animals. You get my point, I'm sure.

 

[midwestyankee]

Oh class. Totally optional. A wildebeest in a tight enough skirt will go home with someone at bar close.

Indeed. Slimy, yet satisfying.

 

[Primalex]

Indeed. Slimy, yet satisfying.

Slurm!

 

[Primalex]

Give me a Cate Blanchett, Lauren Bacall, Meryl Streep. Character, strength, inner beauty and loads of sex appeal.

But we are talking about fat chicks. What about Roseanne Barr?

Tell me a famous fat chick that you apply those attributes above to.

 

[Netzach]

But we are talking about fat chicks. What about Roseanne Barr?

Tell me a famous fat chick that you apply those attributes above to.

Roseanne Barr and Rosie O' Donnel is all we've gotten in the last 20 years. If those are my only options I'll do men.

Etta James, whose size has varied. Debbie Voigt, who's still large after gastric bypass but less so. Prior to a world where a talent-free skank like Spears can garner serious attention, the world of music was full of normal sized and looking people with incredible presence and voice. Who I find more attractive than Blanchett actually - the genericness of looks now is boring in the extreme. There are a lot of attractive but oddly sexless actresses. Angelina Jolie just looks clammy to me. Like if I touched her she'd be sweaty and cold.

Monica Lewinsky was FAT. The size 12 dress was a worse crime than anything Clinton did with her, I mean this was the way people crucified her.

The insanity of fat phobia makes it so that you have to go out of your way to see images of women who are above a sz 6 at all. There are some very attractive models in the plus parts of the Secrets in Lace catalog, and I find the one who shows up the most to be the most attractive model in the catalog.

I think Beth Ditto of the Gossip is kind of crass and gross and shouldn't be allowed to talk because her personality's atrocious, but she's attractive to me as a very plus sized person. But I also dig PJ Harvey who's really skinny with a huge head and a nose like mine.

 

[Gilroygal69]

In that particular post, I was adressing the young lady you dubbed "curves" and why she does nothing for me aesthetically. The examples I gave were women whose looks, while not conventional, are still beautiful, as well as unique and interesting.

But, okay, I'll play.

Delta Burke. Cameryn Manheim. America Ferrera. Dana Owens, (aka, Queen Latifah) Nancy Wilson, Winona Judd, Keeley Shay-Smith, Kelly LeBrock (look her up, she's a little wider than in her Weird Science days, but still beautiful), Carnie Wilson....do I need to go on?

 

[Primalex]

But, okay, I'll play.

Danger, Will Robinson!

Delta Burke.

Okay.

Cameryn Manheim.

No sex appeal.

America Ferrera.

Not fat, curves.

Dana Owens

Abstention.

Nancy Wilson

Jazz Nancy Wilson or Rock Nancy Wilson?

Not fat, curves.

Winona Judd

Okay

Keeley Shay-Smith

Close call. Okay.

Kelly LeBrock

Sex appeal? Hmm...

Carnie Wilson

Now this is interesting. Who do you think men would vote for? For pre-Carnie Wilson or fat-Carnie Wilson?

 

[Gilroygal69]

OOPS, I misspoke. The brunette, Anne, is the heavier one. She used to be curvy, now she's most definitely fat. But still, I think, an amazingly beautiful and sensual woman.

Men would undoubtedly choose post gastric bypass Carnie Wilson. That's not even in question. You've all been brainwashed by modern standards of beauty which are unrealistic and for most women, unattainable.

I suppose that's true of every generation though. They always manage to dupe the female collective into adopting ridiculous trends in order to feel attractive.

 

[Primalex]

Men would undoubtedly choose post gastric bypass Carnie Wilson. That's not even in question. You've all been brainwashed by modern standards of beauty which are unrealistic and for most women, unattainable.

Would you call "Twiggy" modern?

And I can't believe that height/weight appropriate is unattainable these days.

 

[Gilroygal69]

Absolutely. I think "modern" encompasses the entire 20th century and from there forward. The roaring twenties started the whole willowy, pre-pubescent trend, and it has been amazingly enduring, thanks in part, I think, to the expanding reach of media.

 

[dexwebster]

But we are talking about fat chicks. What about Roseanne Barr?

Tell me a famous fat chick that you apply those attributes above to.

There's a slight (and by slight I mean huge -- dare I say even a big fat) problem with the question.

When Amanda Palmer is getting into fights with her metal record label over her "fat" stomach and American Ferrera is held up in Hollywood as a plus size role model just because her dress size ekes up into the double digits, then digitally reduced on magazine covers until she looks like they stuck her head on a different body, it's not exactly a culture ripe for promoting famous Fat Chicks.

The best I can offer you are plus size supermodels Kate Dillon, Mia Tyler (sister of Liv), Barbara Brickner and the occasional comedienne, Mo'nique.

 

[Netzach]

Would you call "Twiggy" modern?

And I can't believe that height/weight appropriate is unattainable these days.

Most men are just as shitty at this. But we don't have threads about it.

 

[Harmony_1985]

I'm a fat chick. I actually would prefer being called a fat chick than a BBW. For some reason every time I hear someone say BBW it's like hearing nails on a chalkboard. I don't know why..

Oh, and Primalex you'd be surprised at how many men would say YES

Yah, I can't stand the term either, but if the OP is looking for more info, they'd probably get more from a search of the term.

Just trying to be helpful

Netz, Beth Ditto would be far more beautiful if she learned how to dress herself properly. That's not to say she's not beautiful, cos she is, but some of her choice of outfit makes me cringe.

 

[Netzach]

Yah, I can't stand the term either, but if the OP is looking for more info, they'd probably get more from a search of the term.

Just trying to be helpful

Netz, Beth Ditto would be far more beautiful if she learned how to dress herself properly. That's not to say she's not beautiful, cos she is, but some of her choice of outfit makes me cringe.

I totally agree. She's a trainwreck, like a fat Amy Winehouse with verbal diahrrea, but could be hot. It doesn't do a lot for fat acceptance to dress like a sausage stuffed into a skank outfit casing, but I dunno. It's kind of punkrock in a way. In some ways it's the only possible physical fuck you as jarring as Iggy Pop was back when left out there.

Her biphobic, icky, dumbass blabbering is my issue.

 

[Harmony_1985]

I have to say, it REALLY bothers me when I see a girl who carries a bit of weight that can't dress herself. Seeing larger girls squeezing themselves into outfits that don't fit them properly or trying to pull off an outfit that doesn't flatter their size makes me want to grab hold of them by the shoulders and shake them screaming "FOR GODS SAKES LEARN TO WEAR MORE SUITABLE OUTFITS!!!!"

 

[Primalex]

Absolutely. I think "modern" encompasses the entire 20th century and from there forward. The roaring twenties started the whole willowy, pre-pubescent trend, and it has been amazingly enduring, thanks in part, I think, to the expanding reach of media.

Somehow I seriously doubt that there were more fat women in the 19th century than now..
Even Rubens paintings contain mainly "curvy" woman, there are very very few with fat women.

 

[Netzach]

Somehow I seriously doubt that there were more fat women in the 19th century than now..
Even Rubens paintings contain mainly "curvy" woman, there are very very few with fat women.

They're really detailed though. Dimpled all over. No airbrushing back then and no care to, they're actually pretty dang fat and definitely not toned. Way outside our usual. Titian also.

 

[BiBunny]

I'm a face person. If a girl has a pretty face and basic personal hygiene, I'm not too concerned with what her body looks like, honestly. I don't like butterfaces.

 

[Netzach]

I'm a face person. If a girl has a pretty face and basic personal hygiene, I'm not too concerned with what her body looks like, honestly. I don't like butterfaces.

Same, pretty much. Slight hourglass action in the middle, too, it doesn't have to be Marilyn or anything, but some hip/waist ratio is nice. You can be too thin or too fat to have that. And an attractive or interesting enough face still might outweigh it for me.

 

[graceanne]

What's with the dumpy middle aged loser comic and hot wife pairing on TV? Is it like, this, this could happen for you, dude. Really. Dream on.

OMG! Amen!

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The insanity of fat phobia makes it so that you have to go out of your way to see images of women who are above a sz 6 at all.

Queen Latifah

http://www.tvoneblogs.com/thespin/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/queen_microsoft.jpg

I have to say, it REALLY bothers me when I see a girl who carries a bit of weight that can't dress herself. Seeing larger girls squeezing themselves into outfits that don't fit them properly or trying to pull off an outfit that doesn't flatter their size makes me want to grab hold of them by the shoulders and shake them screaming "FOR GODS SAKES LEARN TO WEAR MORE SUITABLE OUTFITS!!!!"

Seriously. Like someone carrying just a bit extra weight in a crop top and hip huggers.

the only people who look good in that outfit are very skinny. Period. If you are carrying anything extra, DON'T GO THERE.

 

[Gilroygal69]

Somehow I seriously doubt that there were more fat women in the 19th century than now..
Even Rubens paintings contain mainly "curvy" woman, there are very very few with fat women.

No. I don't think fat has ever been a widely accepted standard of beauty. And it's true that our lifestyles are creating an obesity epidemic that didn't really exist in the days when growing, raising and preparing food took more effort than driving up to a window and placing an order.

But I'm not saying fat. I'm saying, realistic.

Seriously, when women like Heidi Klum and Tyra Banks are said to be "too fat" to model any more...there is something seriously warped about that.

Nobody can sustain zero percent body fat and be healthy. That's why people die when they don't eat enough.

Bones and sunken cheeks are not beautiful. And yet we have young women literally starving themselves to achieve that look.

WHY????????

Men. Media. Fashion. In that order.

 

[BiBunny]

Queen Latifah

I've always thought Queen Latifah was super-hot.

Also, on the flip side of the gender thing, I love fat men, too. *Shrug*

 

[Netzach]

OMG! Amen!



Queen Latifah

She really is gorgeous and classy.

 

[Netzach]

I've always thought Queen Latifah was super-hot.

Also, on the flip side of the gender thing, I love fat men, too. *Shrug*

I dig fat guys just fine, but it's the specific *loser immature dumbass* fat guy with smokin' wife thing that just pisses me the fuck off. And the fact that you will never see an attractive svelte man coupled with a fat and even attractive or well written woman.

It would be like casting Brad Pitt in the old John Goodman role - while we know these things happen in real life (My mother uncharitably called these couples peacock and pea hen) you will never

ever


ever see that on TV.

 

[graceanne]

She really is gorgeous and classy.

Seriously. She's one of the best looking 'fat chicks' I've ever seen. Plus she seems to have a level head on her shoulders, and a good heart. *shrugs*