Fear of anal

Re: Re: Re: Condoms on toys

Ebonyfire said:
To tell you the truth my anal toys have been less places than most men's cocks. Maybe more men should have more than one cock.

If you clean them, they are fine.

Ebony

Not if they are made of latex, which is quite porous and harbours infectous diseases. Of course, that's a risk that each individual must weigh for oneself. I wouldn't share a toy with anyone.

FYI ... isopropyl alcohol destroys the Jelly type toys.
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Condoms on toys

Cuckolded_BlK_Male said:
Not if they are made of latex, which is quite porous and harbours infectous diseases. Of course, that's a risk that each individual must weigh for oneself. I wouldn't share a toy with anyone.

FYI ... isopropyl alcohol destroys the Jelly type toys.

I do not have jelly toys.

but I am sure the others here are appreciative of the information.

Eb <to each his or her own>
 
Cirrus said:
A little update for y'all. We haven't attempted actual intercourse again since that first time, but I'm able to take a medium buttplug with no pain and some pleasure, and a dildo that's as thick as the plug but longer with a little more pain...but it's getting better.

I used to tense up at his fingers...now I LOVE it when he's fucking me and slides 1 or 2 in there. If I'm having a hard time getting over the edge, that usually does it if it's going to happen at all.

I'm actually starting to equate anal play with pleasure now, instead of pain and fear.


It's my first time in the BDSM board and this is the thread I stumble upon. :)

Cirrus, it does get better, I promise. I've read the entire thread and I know what you are going through. It is hard to overcome that fear. I've done it and I'm a very happy woman.

There is something to be said for lube, as pretty much everyone has pointed out. I have gotten my best orgasms from anal, and I never plan to stop. It will just have to be a thing that a future partner is going to have to accept. :p

Keep at it, keep your positive attitude and *hugs*. You're doing wonderful!!

:rose:
 
Anal is fine , but I don't see it as a pussy substitute. It's a nice tight hole, but I don't feel much sensation beyond it.

Unless she really gets into it, then it's fun.
 
Okay. bumping up this thread as per ebony's advice on her bump a thread thread..... though I would rather bump her.

has alot of really excellent ideas on how to start and so on.
 
Merelan said:
Okay. bumping up this thread as per ebony's advice on her bump a thread thread..... though I would rather bump her.

has alot of really excellent ideas on how to start and so on.


You naughty thing you!

Eb
 
I just had to jump in.

Having more that an few anal fantasies this thread has made for great reading.

Thanks a/All.
 
I was following her advice and "commands" wink...... who wouldn't want to bump her? or into her?

Yes, I agree, this thread is one of the best offerings for help. I have reread it a couple times.

Now for my practicum.
 
The smell of excrement makes me puke, the thought about it alone is to me extremely repulsive. To have my fountain of love and life besmeared with the even ever so slight possibility of fecal matter is so disgusting that the idea alone to have sex in a shit hole is impossible.
Amen.
 
AngelicAssassin said:
You must have a terrible life if you can't defecate without having to vomit.
Well dear, fortunately my ass is on the other side of my body as my face, so let's face it, I can sit and shit without vomiting, but turning around and hitting the flusher, I have to do fast lest I puke.
Thinking of all those who practise anal sex I know they are somewhat mentally deranged as the asshole is not and was biologically never intended for love making.
But then, most sexual fanatics have completely lost the Path towards the deep and true pleasures of making love/life.
Tantric ecxstacy, the total complete body and mind orgasmic experience that brings Enlightenment near will never be reached by them.
 
Captain Zen said:
Well dear, fortunately my ass is on the other side of my body as my face, so let's face it, I can sit and shit without vomiting, but turning around and hitting the flusher, I have to do fast lest I puke.
Thinking of all those who practise anal sex I know they are somewhat mentally deranged as the asshole is not and was biologically never intended for love making.But then, most sexual fanatics have completely lost the Path towards the deep and true pleasures of making love/life.
Tantric ecxstacy, the total complete body and mind orgasmic experience that brings Enlightenment near will never be reached by them.

Do you practice oral sex?

Also, if you cannot even face feces without vomiting, you are a great deal more sensitive to it than the average person. No wonder you dislike the thought of anal sex! However, just because it doesn't floaters your boat doesn't mean it is immoral or unenlightened. Kindly keep your judgements to yourself.
 
Captain Zen said:
Tantric ecxstacy, the total complete body and mind orgasmic experience that brings Enlightenment near will never be reached by them.
To the best of my knowledge, "Tantric ecxstacy" isn't biologically required either. As long as sperm meets egg, the species continues. By the way, last time i checked, the anus came part and parcel with the "complete body" as well. :rolleyes:
 
True Enlightenment

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ShyGuy68 said:
Can anybody spot the mistake in this picture?
no....but I think it would be sexier if her pantyhose were stockings with garters...pantyhose is awful stuff.
 
tealsphynx said:
no....but I think it would be sexier if her pantyhose were stockings with garters...pantyhose is awful stuff.
Look at her hands, they are positioned wrong compared to the way her arms are crossed.

And yes I prefer stockings as well!
 
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ShyGuy68 said:
Look at her hands, they are positioned wrong compared to the way her arms are crossed.

And yes I prefer stockings as well!

By golly, you're right.

I need to see this movie which has been so hyped up by the BDSM crowd.
 
ShyGuy68 said:
Look at her hands, they are positioned wrong compared to the way her arms are crossed.
Try sitting down, cross your calves and putting your hand on the same side calf. Her arms cross each other as well. Feel the hard pull in the muscles of your forearm(s)?
ShyGuy68 said:
And yes I prefer stockings as well!
Why do you think someone told her to assume the position? It's shredding time ... in more ways than one considering the topic of this thread.
 
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