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Hey falkor207... Welcome aboard!Subscribing, this sounds incredible and I want to learn/experience more.

Another bump...
I watched romantic comedy Love and Leashes on NetFlix last month...
https://i.imgur.com/kswDtCY.jpg
Koreans Jung Ji-woo (Seohyun) and Jung Ji-hoo (Lee Jun-young) are office colleagues with similar names. One day Ji-woo accidentally opens Ji-hoo’s boxed order mistaking it for Her own. It reveals to Her Ji-hoo's submissive nature by virtue of the collar inside.
It turns out Ji-woo is subconsciously a dominant. Their meeting results in a contractual relationship to satisfy each other’s BDSM kinks.
https://i.imgur.com/4tQqYcA.jpg?1
It's a little like BDSM painting by numbers to begin with. Partly down to where it's filmed, and the intended audience which is understandable as it's exploring the dominance/submission rhetoric for their benefit. However as the movie shifts into the second act, the characters delve deeper into other aspects of BDSM with more intent. By the final act it feels more tangible IMHO.
It's a fun movie, light at the start, but gaining more momentum (and darker themes) towards the end. The vanilla world (in Korea for the movie, but a metaphor for the world?) still a lot to learn about us... But simply put, we're not that different after all...
I saw the thumbnail, but didn't watch. May have to search again this weekend.
I have always fantasized about being controlled by a Dominatrix, but it's never happened YET !I feel this is the best male audience to pose a question to.
Would a female led relationship appeal to you and, if so, what would it look like? I realize there are many variances to this particular theme and the 2 people involved can make it whatever they choose, but are there key components that would draw you to this particular dynamic?
My question extends beyond the sexual component, of course. Being a strong woman with a slightly "sub" man is nothing new of course...but I am not speaking of a D/s type interaction. Ordering someone around and expecting your bidding to be done without question isn't my thing. I prefer a much more cerebral, gentle dynamic where my strength isn't used to wield punishment, moreso guidance and nurturing.
Any of you out there currently enjoying such a dynamic? Hoping to or actively searching for such a thing? Would love to discuss the ins and outs and get a real life feel of how this manifests in your day-to-day lives.
As always, PM's are not only welcome, but encouraged![]()
The series She-Hulk sounds interesting. I hope it has good writing. I do find strong women appealing but in my case, it is more of internal strength I am referring to vs physical. Some of your posts on CFNM show smaller women who could be easily overpowered by the men they are dominating. Those are great scenes because it shows her internal power.
ES
I stumbled across this movie too...it's great and very entertaining.Another bump...
I watched romantic comedy Love and Leashes on NetFlix last month...
https://i.imgur.com/kswDtCY.jpg
Koreans Jung Ji-woo (Seohyun) and Jung Ji-hoo (Lee Jun-young) are office colleagues with similar names. One day Ji-woo accidentally opens Ji-hoo’s boxed order mistaking it for Her own. It reveals to Her Ji-hoo's submissive nature by virtue of the collar inside.
It turns out Ji-woo is subconsciously a dominant. Their meeting results in a contractual relationship to satisfy each other’s kinks.
https://i.imgur.com/4tQqYcA.jpg?1
It's a little like BDSM painting by numbers to begin with. Partly down to where it's filmed, and the intended audience which necessitates the movie's exploration of the dominant/submissive rhetoric for their benefit. However as the movie shifts into the second act, the characters delve deeper into other aspects of BDSM with more intent. By the final act it feels more tangible IMHO.
https://i.imgur.com/6bq98ES.gif
It's a fun movie, light at the start, but gaining more momentum (and darker themes) towards the end. The vanilla land (in Korea for the movie, but a metaphor for the world?) still a lot to learn about us... But simply put, we're not that different after all...
I stumbled across this movie too...it's great and very entertaining.
The series She-Hulk sounds interesting. I hope it has good writing. I do find strong women appealing but in my case, it is more of internal strength I am referring to vs physical. Some of your posts on CFNM show smaller women who could be easily overpowered by the men they are dominating. Those are great scenes because it shows her internal power.
ES
Agreed. While the dictionary definition of domination involves exercising power over another with or without their consent, the fetish application of the word implies consent. When I dominate a man there may be some performative aspects of our interaction that imply physical control (spanking, leashing, etc.) but the reality is that he is submitting willingly. Regardless of appearances he submits to me because he wants to because I lead him with my mind. The physical manifestations of domination don't actually compel submission, but rather contribute to his state of mind.

I don’t think I would be completely opposed to this.https://SPAMPOST/PR0VOCATEUR/post/6fc1ef8a-a1d9-4040-bec7-b68f02d29e38/
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To me communication is a big part of any relationship. Be it friends or something more.Three months later...
Though She acknowledged me in the club having spotted Her, She made no effort to meet me. So having noticed She, Her dominant partner and a Female submissive were eating at a table, I plated up some vegetables to eat, and asked if I could join them. They seemed OK for me to do so.
The energy was different as She was sat holding hands with Her dominant partner, while he was engaged in conversation with the Female submissive to his other side. It became clear to me retrospectively, it was more likely they were there for Her, rather than me. My being a footnote to the main reason it would seem.
Apparently we're still be on the same page which is great. It turns out She had an important job promotion, hence the three months hiatus. That puzzled me, and I wondered why it required Her absence from the community for so long, but each to their own.
She apologized for not being communicative during that period, and said She'd do better moving forward having got to knowing me more. She did talk about exchanging mobile numbers too, but that didn't happen as I could tell She wasn't quite ready for that, having initially said She usually waits a little longer to do so.
However, our connection was still there. Eventually I asked when I'd see Her again. She said She and a friend were going to an event the following Sunday, and I was welcome to come along if I'd like to.
But damn it, having already committed to another event at the end of the month, my attending the following Sunday would make it three events this month. So if I were single, that'd be great! However as I'm not, it would mean less time with my family on weekends, and that's not great. I am expected to help out with service at that other event, and I didn't want to let the Crew down. It simply slipped my mind to mention this to Her at the time.
So to that end, as well as messaging the above, I told Her I'm only attending one event both in November and December. So I asked Her if She'd reconsider me for another event during one or even both of those months, that won't coincide with the other events I'm attending.
Despite what She said when we met, what was abundantly clear was Her lack of priority with keeping in touch. Three months is a long time, and I kept messaging during this period. I didn't want either of them thinking I'd lost interest. Though I sent the message a few days ago, my gut instinct tells me not to hold my breath.
I admit, I could've attended Her event and enjoyed it, but in the process I would hurt either my family at home, or my friends at my local club. So perhaps it's whether She appreciates all that, and we're still good to meet again in the future. But I can't help thinking the time between events can be so long, communication is so crucial for logistical reasons, let alone for sustaining a friendship. As She clearly shows no interest in any of this, may be this time I made the right choice after all.
However She and Her dominant partner do frequent my local fetish club, so chances are we'll meet again. This is familiar territory for me, as I've been here before. So many people in the community compartmentalize, and can detach having returned to normal life. So I do understand Her. Therefore despite Her flaws (heck I have a fair few myself), I know we could still get along, and even play, as long as I accept Her for who She is...![]()
To me communication is a big part of any relationship. Be it friends or something more.
I’m rather old school. Some might say cold blooded.
I go with the rule of 3. If I reach out to someone 3 times. If they don’t send a text or something. I’m done. I’ve stretched that at times might be 5-6 times. But the not communicating yeah. I’m done.
Before anyone says… oh but maybe they’re busy.
BS. How long does it take to send a text.. hey I’ve not had a chance to talk. Been really busy.
That takes mere seconds.
This is wonderful!Yes I freely admit that I need a woman to dominate me. The day she put me in chastity and demanded my complete obedience changed everything for the better. I thank her every day.
https://SPAMPOST/PR0VOCATEUR/post/6fc1ef8a-a1d9-4040-bec7-b68f02d29e38/
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