Female-Led Relationships

[Tayloroc]

Nothing sexier!

 

[Justplatonic]

Months later...

Miss and I are still in touch. We met again twice more, the last time being January this year.

With my Wife's consent, Miss and I met up at a hotel and we played for three hours. I was so happy! I served Her needs, Her desire being to impact me was top of Her list, as well as having the pleasure to paint Her toenails.

Although we haven't met since due to Her ill health, and the one time due to my having a stomach bug! So it's been three long months since we've seen each other!

She did say we'd met at the hotel again, but I know how stressful Her work can be. Regrettably, by Her own admission, She hasn't been leading me so well recently.

However, the plan is we'll make up for lost time tomorrow at an event. But unlike the hotel, I don't anticipate we'll play for more than an hour. My hope is, I'm wrong!...

 

[K0fcali]

Thank you for the feedback. I appreciate those of you that have shared thoughts and experiences.

This relationship dynamic appeals to me, but in a different sense. I dont want to be "in charge" for the sake of being able to throw it in someone's face or use it as some kind of leverage. Any relationship requires a healthy amount of give and take; I wouldn't expect a FLR to be any different.

Please keep sharing, this is quite helpful!

I doubt it could ever work. Best of luck though. I just think you wont respect your partner for being that way.

 

[Cindy027]

I have no stake in this thread and looked in out of curiosity. I found this psychotic rant on the first page.

And then worse yet, now we have this underage *hole called Greta whose idea of sexual thrills is likely to be a D/s ear-bashing using 'climate change, climate change' - and if you submit to the underage slut, you're gonna get social media shamed for submitting to an underage THING.

I wonder what sort of weak man feels threatened by a teenage (she was when this was written) activist.

Stöd Greta

 

[sterculius]

I wouldn't call the relationship between my wife and I as being 'female led'. but the dynamic has changed considerably over the years. My wife is an extremely intelligent woman who has earned a Master's degree, but we both were raised in a decidedly ethnic, 'Latino' culture where women are expected to be timid and demure while the men are very 'macho' and assertive!! This is the second marriage for us both, and in the beginning, my wife routinely deferred to my judgements. As our relationship matured, at my urging, we experimented with unorthodox sexual practices such as her "pegging" me with increasingly large dildos and having her force me to deepthroat these dildos prior to her fucking me anally with them. I also introduced her to the practice of me routinely performing oral on her. At some point, I confessed to her that as a teenager, I'd been my best friend Larry's willing and eager, personal cocksucker all through high school, and that I would suck his abnormally large cock daily whenever and wherever he told me to. I further admitted that as an adult, during my first marriage and unbeknownst to my then wife, I continued frequently giving blowjobs to men who I would arrange to meet, singly and in groups.
The upshot to all this is that my wife no longer respects me as a man and our sex life now consists exclusively of me performing oral on her while I masturbate, and of her occasionally fucking me first orally, then anally with the largest of her dildos. I'm not complaining as, I enjoy this as much as, if not more than she does.

 

[Justplatonic]

Just thought I'd chime in, as this wonderful thread needs the attention it so rightly deserves.

Miss and I are still friends...

I'm really happy to say. Our friendship consolidated in earnest when I domestically served at Her home a few months ago.

It was Her suggestion, and subsequently She's suggested it again to my delight. I guess some submissive readers might think I'm lucky, and I'd agree to a lesser extent. Why?

I find some people say this, as a way to affirm that must be why Miss and I are friends. That some celestial entity has waved a wand, and made me lucky, instead of them.

I think if you ask anyone in an Female Led Relationship, or BDSM Dynamic, it's less about luck. It's more about working together for a common goal from each other's respective points of view, and making that work in a mutual satisfactory way...

 

[MorlockIam]

I have been in FLR's. On the non kinky side, the woman has the final say, I often compare it to the 1950's sitcoms and TV shows etc except instead of the husband calling the shots, the wife does. I see my role as support, I do the domestic duties, cook etc It doesn't mean my input isn't valued or welcomed and one woman I was with, was clear about both of us playing to our strengths, if I happened to know more about a topic than she did than she would go with my suggestions.

On the kink side, CFNM plays a big part. Never seeing my lady naked, sexual intercourse involves lights off or me being blindfolded. Cuckolding might be part of it, except I don't get to watch or take part as that would mean the woman is performing for me and goes against the concept of her being in charge.

Going down on her on command, being expected to make her cum and put my own orgasm second, if at all. Sometimes being locked in chastity, especially if she is out on a date with someone. Maybe even driving her to the date.

Giving massages etc

There's no set way to do it and has to be worked out between the people involved to suit their own dynamic and what they want to get out of it.