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Sensitiveguy708 said:
The thing about feminization is there are ton of guys into it and so few women into it. Many guys would prefer their wives or girlfriends to force feminize them than to be feminized by men. Unfortunately the chances of that happening is extremely rare.

There are a select few men who seek out dominant men for feminization, but most are scared to meet and actually go through it. So there ends up a lot wannabe fembois who live vicariously through their blogs or chatrooms, pretending to undergo some feminization.

It's a sad thing when so many desire it but never truly act on it. Even worse are those Doms who mislead prospective femtoy into thinking they have found their savior.

My advice to those who want to be feminized, don't bother seeking out others to force you to become a woman. If you're truly serious about it, do it yourself, self-feminize. Make the effort to change your life because sitting around waiting and wishing someone to transform you into the pretty bimbo that you've always had wetdreams about is never going happen.

Force yourself, be your own master and make yourself do what you need to do in order to be the kind of woman you want to be. Millions of transgendered do it every day...they pull the courage from themselves and commit. I know this doesn't sound as fun as the fantasy, but trust me when I say that pulling the proverbial trigger yourself is the most powerful feminization you could do.
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Nice post. My one quibble with it is the term "transgendered" ... there is no such word. One wouldn't describe someone as "talled" or that the grass was "greened". Someone is, or is not transgender. No "ed" added.

That said, I *think* that there are transgender people, and there are transsexual people. They aren't the same thing. Transgender people know their brain / gender identity doesn't match the body they were born with. Transgender people find solace in living as their true identity.

Transsexual people find their solace in sexual behavior, and usually, in my experience, don't fully identify as a gender different from their physical body parts. Also, most transsexuals who present as female, again in my experience, don't wish to take female hormones as those terminate any male sexual function. When one sees a woman with a penis, and it is fully functioning, it is clear she is not on hormones. She may have had breast augmentation to have female curves, but if her male equipment functions she is not on hormones.

Trans women tend to love hormones as they do "kill off" any functionality, which is frequently a cause of their dysphoria.
 
timreh said:
Nice post. My one quibble with it is the term "transgendered" ... there is no such word. One wouldn't describe someone as "talled" or that the grass was "greened". Someone is, or is not transgender. No "ed" added.

That said, I *think* that there are transgender people, and there are transsexual people. They aren't the same thing. Transgender people know their brain / gender identity doesn't match the body they were born with. Transgender people find solace in living as their true identity.

Transsexual people find their solace in sexual behavior, and usually, in my experience, don't fully identify as a gender different from their physical body parts. Also, most transsexuals who present as female, again in my experience, don't wish to take female hormones as those terminate any male sexual function. When one sees a woman with a penis, and it is fully functioning, it is clear she is not on hormones. She may have had breast augmentation to have female curves, but if her male equipment functions she is not on hormones.

Trans women tend to love hormones as they do "kill off" any functionality, which is frequently a cause of their dysphoria.
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An interesting take on it. I do share some of your realizations of terms. :kiss:
 
Sensitiveguy708 said:
The thing about feminization is there are ton of guys into it and so few women into it. Many guys would prefer their wives or girlfriends to force feminize them than to be feminized by men. Unfortunately the chances of that happening is extremely rare.

There are a select few men who seek out dominant men for feminization, but most are scared to meet and actually go through it. So there ends up a lot wannabe fembois who live vicariously through their blogs or chatrooms, pretending to undergo some feminization.

It's a sad thing when so many desire it but never truly act on it. Even worse are those Doms who mislead prospective femtoy into thinking they have found their savior.

My advice to those who want to be feminized, don't bother seeking out others to force you to become a woman. If you're truly serious about it, do it yourself, self-feminize. Make the effort to change your life because sitting around waiting and wishing someone to transform you into the pretty bimbo that you've always had wetdreams about is never going happen.

Force yourself, be your own master and make yourself do what you need to do in order to be the kind of woman you want to be. Millions of transgendered do it every day...they pull the courage from themselves and commit. I know this doesn't sound as fun as the fantasy, but trust me when I say that pulling the proverbial trigger yourself is the most powerful feminization you could do.
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I can definitely relate to this. Very hard to find someone to explore with. Even harder to find someone trustworthy to have lead you. I have met some great people but distance then becomes a factor. Still hopeful.
 
teddie_grl said:
An interesting take on it. I do share some of your realizations of terms. :kiss:
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I'm glad it resonated with you.

I know very clearly, and have since I was quite young, that I'm transgender. I'm not transsexual.

I so love the wonderful life hormones have graced me with.
 
timreh said:
Nice post. My one quibble with it is the term "transgendered" ... there is no such word. One wouldn't describe someone as "talled" or that the grass was "greened". Someone is, or is not transgender. No "ed" added.

That said, I *think* that there are transgender people, and there are transsexual people. They aren't the same thing. Transgender people know their brain / gender identity doesn't match the body they were born with. Transgender people find solace in living as their true identity.

Transsexual people find their solace in sexual behavior, and usually, in my experience, don't fully identify as a gender different from their physical body parts. Also, most transsexuals who present as female, again in my experience, don't wish to take female hormones as those terminate any male sexual function. When one sees a woman with a penis, and it is fully functioning, it is clear she is not on hormones. She may have had breast augmentation to have female curves, but if her male equipment functions she is not on hormones.

Trans women tend to love hormones as they do "kill off" any functionality, which is frequently a cause of their dysphoria.
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Sorry I didn't take the time to differentiate and use the proper terminology. My entire point was about those seeking others to change their life, which is unrealistic based on things I pointed out. Whether it's gender dysphoria or fetishism the best result is making the change yourself. I can't tell you how many overweight middle age men who claim they'll do anything for Dom to transform them into a woman. As Dom I tell them if you can't take it upon yourself to learn the basics of taking care of your body and learning the basics of crossdressing then you're not remotely serious about wanting to commit to a life of feminization. I'm not talking about those who suffer from gender dysphoria. I'm talking about millions of wannabes. There's far too many fat ass queers looking for someone to sprinkle fairy dust on them hoping they'll be a sexy fucktoy.

I commend those with gender dysphoria for their courage to change their lives, I just wish the fetishists out there had the same courage to try to be remotely passable. Sorry for the rant. It's a sore spot for me. I've been burned by too many wannabes, and my life is no longer ideal situation to take on a sub femboi.
 
Sensitiveguy708 said:
Sorry I didn't take the time to differentiate and use the proper terminology. My entire point was about those seeking others to change their life, which is unrealistic based on things I pointed out. Whether it's gender dysphoria or fetishism the best result is making the change yourself. I can't tell you how many overweight middle age men who claim they'll do anything for Dom to transform them into a woman. As Dom I tell them if you can't take it upon yourself to learn the basics of taking care of your body and learning the basics of crossdressing then you're not remotely serious about wanting to commit to a life of feminization. I'm not talking about those who suffer from gender dysphoria. I'm talking about millions of wannabes. There's far too many fat ass queers looking for someone to sprinkle fairy dust on them hoping they'll be a sexy fucktoy.

I commend those with gender dysphoria for their courage to change their lives, I just wish the fetishists out there had the same courage to try to be remotely passable. Sorry for the rant. It's a sore spot for me. I've been burned by too many wannabes, and my life is no longer ideal situation to take on a sub femboi.
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::thumbs_up::
 
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