Fetishes you just don't understand

[southern_gal]

Grown men obsessed with My Little Pony.

And here I always thought that grown men were only obsessed with MY little Kitty.

Kronies?

 

[xtinelauren1]

Don't knock it 'til you try it.

I'm gonna have to pass on that. I watched a documentary on them, and it was more painful than any of my three piercings. I stopped it halfway through.

 

[BloodMoonRising]

I'm gonna have to pass on that. I watched a documentary on them, and it was more painful than any of my three piercings. I stopped it halfway through.

I've seen that documentary! My daughter loves MLP. I can tolerate it well enough, but I'm with you. I'll never understand the adult male obsession with it.

 

[RawHumor]

And here I always thought that grown men were only obsessed with MY little Kitty.

Kronies?

My Little Pony as a fetish?

I could see having a fetish for your kitty...

 

[southern_gal]

My Little Pony as a fetish?

I could see having a fetish for your kitty...

No but I think my little kitty is.

 

[Anomaly1964]

No but I think my little kitty is.

You kitty needs pet....

 

[southern_gal]

You kitty needs pet....

*nods* maybe a kitty for my kitty?

 

[Anomaly1964]

*nods* maybe a kitty for my kitty?

A nice young but legal kitty....

 

[xtinelauren1]

-Period sex
-The whole cuckold thing
-Crossdressing
-BBW
-Sex that involves pain or violence

Now only if men were as disgusted with rape as they were with fucking girls who are on their periods... A girl can dream.

 

[a75]

- Scat
- Large tattoos
- Body/tongue piercing
- Hairy armpits/legs

 

[twister947]

Grown men obsessed with My Little Pony.

Holy shit...

Does this have a sexual component? Do I want to know?

 

[xtinelauren1]

Holy shit...

Does this have a sexual component? Do I want to know?

yes and it's incredibly disturbing. There was actually a situation a few months back, the Make A Wish Foundation granted some kids wish of being drawn into MLP, and bronies turned that pony into a sexual character. It was disgusting.

 

[johnjones1]

Now only if men were as disgusted with rape as they were with fucking girls who are on their periods... A girl can dream.

I'm disgusted with rape, but not with fucking girls who are on their periods. FWIW

 

[johnjones1]

쵸ㅑㅓㅇ 사ㅔㅂ 펴고 있는

I wish I could say I'm aroused by that text, but sadly, no.

 

[policywank]

An old male friend of mine who I used to have a huge crush on several decades ago told me he liked to dress up as a woman sometimes. Somehow that just ruined any romantic interest I might have in him, I'm sad to say.

Why does that make me feel almost guilty?

I also dated a guy long ago who is into shoes... I never understood that one either, but I did end up with an amazing collection, courtesy of him (unfortunately, not generally shoes I wanted to wear in public).

Of course I don't know why that makes you feel guilty but I have a theory. We tend to tell ourselves that women are more accepting and open minded. But personally I don't think that is true. If a guy is sexually ambiguous or non-traditional we congratulate ourselves on being nicer about it than guys are but the reality is we still judge him for it. We still treat him as less of a man and not an appealing partner because we expect our men to fit a gender stereotype as much as men do.

Most times we come across a man who is not our ideal we can tell right away so we never develop an attraction - we never think about it or if we do we convince ourselves that is for any number of other reasons. You had the experience of being attracted to someone and realizing that his sexual variation was a direct turn-off. You didn't have a chance to ignore it or attribute your lack of attraction to other reasons. Your bias is unavoidable and maybe it forced you to realize you are not as perfectly accepting as you thought.

That is very disconcerting to women, especially if you ever treated men as being superficial. When a man loses interest in us for superficial reasons but still wants to be friends we call him a jerk. But when we lose interest in a man for sharing his inner self with us but still want to be friends we congratulate ourselves on being so willing to still be friends with him - as long as he stays in the friend zone and behaves like one of the girls.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

I'm disgusted with rape, but not with fucking girls who are on their periods. FWIW

That's how my ex bf started anal on me and continued it ever after, till he moved out of town.

 

[Spartacus1981]

Of course I don't know why that makes you feel guilty but I have a theory. We tend to tell ourselves that women are more accepting and open minded. But personally I don't think that is true. If a guy is sexually ambiguous or non-traditional we congratulate ourselves on being nicer about it than guys are but the reality is we still judge him for it. We still treat him as less of a man and not an appealing partner because we expect our men to fit a gender stereotype as much as men do.

Most times we come across a man who is not our ideal we can tell right away so we never develop an attraction - we never think about it or if we do we convince ourselves that is for any number of other reasons. You had the experience of being attracted to someone and realizing that his sexual variation was a direct turn-off. You didn't have a chance to ignore it or attribute your lack of attraction to other reasons. Your bias is unavoidable and maybe it forced you to realize you are not as perfectly accepting as you thought.

That is very disconcerting to women, especially if you ever treated men as being superficial. When a man loses interest in us for superficial reasons but still wants to be friends we call him a jerk. But when we lose interest in a man for sharing his inner self with us but still want to be friends we congratulate ourselves on being so willing to still be friends with him - as long as he stays in the friend zone and behaves like one of the girls.

Interesting theory.

Perhaps attraction is a lot more complex than previous imagined. Guilt, shame or anger towards the failure of a relationship, sexual or otherwise might be summed up to an immaturity on all our parts to be completely honest with ourselves and each other?

Does that make sense or is it a bit too new agey?

 

[htobeme5]

period sex

he missed the best part. It's always warmer, more sticky during that time. Something in that period discharge tingles my cock and makes me keep shooting multiple times. Don't want to pull out. It's safe during that time, but feels so much better than on day 14.

 

[oggbashan]

I have written many fetish themed stories but they are mainly femdom. I can 'understand' most fetishes, and write stories about them, even if the fetish does absolutely nothing for me.

I have tried to write for specific and rare fetishes including Unbirth, but I am stuck on one. I can't write a believable story about South Indian Women's Hairy and Sweaty Armpits. I have tried, but the story isn't working.

That's a shame because there are several Adult Yahoo Groups about that fetish, with tens of thousands of English-speaking members. There may be more groups that are not in English.

There are hundreds of fetishes. It seems almost anything can become a fetish if that aspect becomes essential for an individual's sexual arousal. But obscure fetishes can make finding a partner who is prepared to share or tolerate than fetish very difficult.

There are very few people into Vore, and even fewer into Unbirth which is a subset of Vore - and Unbirth is physically impossible so would have to remain a fantasy.

My problem as an author writing about fetishes is:

If the story is a successful portrayal of the fetish, it might be popular with those who share the fetish, but anyone else is likely to think WTF? and criticise the story because that fetish doesn't appeal or disgusts them. The audience for a particular fetish can be very small.

 

[policywank]

Interesting theory.

Perhaps attraction is a lot more complex than previous imagined. Guilt, shame or anger towards the failure of a relationship, sexual or otherwise might be summed up to an immaturity on all our parts to be completely honest with ourselves and each other?

Does that make sense or is it a bit too new agey?

I think that makes some sense. The guilt comes at least in part because of the realization that we aren't as perfectly accepting as we thought.

On many fronts we have convinced ourselves that certain groups are more or less accepting, bigoted or whatever. It doesn't work that way. We are all individuals and being a certain gender or colour or whatever does not make us more or less open-minded.

Society treats us differently based upon those outward characteristics and that leads to different experiences which in turn may affect our behaviour - but that is as much perception as reality. We aren't allowed to say that some women are shallow or some black people are bigoted, but that doesn't mean it isn't true. Likewise it is accepted wisdom that all men are pigs - it isn't true but they have been told it so often that when they do something shallow there is minimal incremental guilt. Conversely society tells women that we are virtuous and nice and we knowingly confuse manners with character. So it is a bit of a shocker to find that we can be just as shallow as men.

 

[xtinelauren1]

Impregnation fetishes
Men who are obsessed with rape fantasies. It's different if it's between two consenting people in a safe environment, but the former is kind of frightening.
Hucow (sp?) fetishes
The fetishization of certain races (asian, black women, etc) but that's just racism above anything.

As much as I hate being a Debbie downer or judgmental- I think I'm for the most part understanding of certain fetishes- but there are so many things here that are just so disturbing.

 

[Aphro]

There are plenty of fetishes I don't understand, because they are not my fetishes. There are only a couple that really squick me out, though, and those are anything to do with poo, and anything to do with needles /knives/bloodletting.

 

[ShyJake]

There are plenty of fetishes I don't understand, because they are not my fetishes. There are only a couple that really squick me out, though, and those are anything to do with poo, and anything to do with needles /knives/bloodletting.

Second that. Body wastes and blood aren't my bag, nor can I really comprehend it.

 

[FGB]

I'll go first:

I do not understand foot fetishes. Something that I've never found sexy and I just don't understand how people find that as sexually appealing as say a naked breast or a beautiful ass. Just not my cup o' tea. However I'm interested in hearing what it is about it that many of you on here I'm sure find sexy.

Hoping to hear from a lot of people on here and to get a lively discussion happening!

You have that right! I never could understand why people loved feet so much?? It makes no sense at all. Or getting peed on. No golden showers for me.[/QUOTE]



I have a touching as in massaging a woman fetish.

I love to rub oil or lotion is good too (especially a tanned body)into a woman's skin. Sure Some have feet that are more appealing than others and paying the proper amount of attention to the feet will help relax and sometimes arouse a person.

I have been known to spend thirty minutes to a hour and a half massaging sometimes. The result can vary from deep relaxation... I have put a few females to sleep and sometimes they do get stirred up a lot of it depends on how much they want a great massage. If I have worked my magic on them before they usually strip down to only panties or less fast enough to raise my eyebrows!

I don't touch nothing without an invitation but if they move their bodies at the wrong time and moan or groan I will stay in that area for awhile for sure!

I also enjoy a woman who is into light bondage and things of that nature.

I have been known to help fulfill some fantasies even if they were not my favorite thing to do...

 

[NiceNastyMann]

Impregnation fetishes
Men who are obsessed with rape fantasies. It's different if it's between two consenting people in a safe environment, but the former is kind of frightening.

Rape isn't about sex - it's power, dehumanizing the other usually. It's intended to be frightening. Not my bag. Don't really have a problem with bad things happening to people who practice this form of human subjugation.

Hucow (sp?) fetishes

Milk - does a body good. You want to see a mainstream - snark - movie glorifying human milk - here you go.

The fetishization of certain races (asian, black women, etc) but that's just racism above anything.

Racism? Too pat. Taboo is the oldest part of the human condition. The other who is not like us. For some it translates into sexual desire.

As much as I hate being a Debbie downer or judgmental- I think I'm for the most part understanding of certain fetishes- but there are so many things here that are just so disturbing.

Yep. Tentacle sex. Now that is disturbing.