Five things...

[TheJestersAdvocate]

MFM 3some
Suspension/shibari
Being tied and flogged/whipped on St. Andrews cross
Anal hook (so scary looking tho)
Public spanking.

So lazy today, going to blame sub drop, same question!

Slacker. *smirks and winks, moving a hand to smack and just as I'm about to make contact, stops* It's ok....this time.

Suspension/Shibari
Edging a woman with the assistance of a hitachi wand and/or sybian
public spanking
Sex in the shower (crazy, a simple one, yet the occasion just hasn't happened. *shrugs*)
Sex in a field/ out in the woods...just celebrating nature and enjoying the beauty of the scenery and one another.

Name 5 Things That Annoy You About Other People

 

[MastersDelight]

Slacker. *smirks and winks, moving a hand to smack and just as I'm about to make contact, stops* It's ok....this time.

Suspension/Shibari
Edging a woman with the assistance of a hitachi wand and/or sybian
public spanking
Sex in the shower (crazy, a simple one, yet the occasion just hasn't happened. *shrugs*)
Sex in a field/ out in the woods...just celebrating nature and enjoying the beauty of the scenery and one another.

Name 5 Things That Annoy You About Other People

you're such a copy cat . Sex in the field is fun btw, the big bites however, not so much.

When their time is infinitely more important than everyone else's.
How rude ppl can be to those in the service industry. I've been there, it sucks.
When ppl judge me for using WIC and food stamps, but they have no idea who I am or my situation.
When my kindness and tendency to turn the other cheek is mistaken for weakness.
When they think no means ' keep begging I might give in '

You already know what I'm going to say.... Same question.

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

you're such a copy cat . Sex in the field is fun btw, the big bites however, not so much.

When their time is infinitely more important than everyone else's.
How rude ppl can be to those in the service industry. I've been there, it sucks.
When ppl judge me for using WIC and food stamps, but they have no idea who I am or my situation.
When my kindness and tendency to turn the other cheek is mistaken for weakness.
When they think no means ' keep begging I might give in '

You already know what I'm going to say.... Same question.

You call me a copycat....there you go even stealing my color. Bug bites suck.....bring laundry sheets. I know just from hiking.

Judgmental/hypocritical people.
Anyone lacking manners....say someone opens a door for you, a quick thank you isn't going to kill you.
People driving through neighborhoods like maniacs blaring music like dipshits.
When someone/people can't be more compassionate/understanding for others that need help....such as the mentally or physically disabled.
Anyone who tailgates

Name 5 Foods That You Cook Like No One Else

 

[MastersDelight]

You call me a copycat....there you go even stealing my color. Bug bites suck.....bring laundry sheets. I know just from hiking.

Judgmental/hypocritical people.
Anyone lacking manners....say someone opens a door for you, a quick thank you isn't going to kill you.
People driving through neighborhoods like maniacs blaring music like dipshits.
When someone/people can't be more compassionate/understanding for others that need help....such as the mentally or physically disabled.
Anyone who tailgates

Name 5 Foods That You Cook Like No One Else

I am NOT a cook so....

Hard boiled eggs
Ramen noodles
I can make a mean burger
Fried spam
Baked tilapia and veggies

5 things you do, or do for someone, to combat drop.

 

[Blue]

When ppl judge me for using WIC and food stamps, but they have no idea who I am or my situation.

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You already know what I'm going to say.... Same question.

Funny that people in Missouri shun you for taking welfare when Missouri has one of the highest amounts of welfare recipients. I bet they're in dire financial straights too but have been too brainwashed by right-wing radio to accept welfare and are just projecting their subconscious jealousy at you not having to shoulder the extra financial burden?

1) This probably applies to almost everybody here, sorry in advance, but conversations. The uuuurgh-inducing drivel that peppers almost everybody's conversations is horrific. But to be fair, sort of linking back to a previous question, my ideal date involves me and a beautiful girl sitting in a fancy restaurant between a lit candlestick, reading each other statistics.
2) When somebody is only a vegan or donates to charity or rides a bike for the environment, not because they actually care about what they're doing, but just because it gives them a method of validating their pre-existing sense of moral superiority over others. It's insulting to us actual humanitarians.
3) When nobody validates my obvious moral superiority over them.

-Thinking. I'll be back-

Pass on.

 

[MastersDelight]

Funny that people in Missouri shun you for taking welfare when Missouri has one of the highest amounts of welfare recipients. I bet they're in dire financial straights too but have been too brainwashed by right-wing radio to accept welfare and are just projecting their subconscious jealousy at you not having to shoulder the extra financial burden?

1) This probably applies to almost everybody here, sorry in advance, but conversations. The uuuurgh-inducing drivel that peppers almost everybody's conversations is horrific. But to be fair, sort of linking back to a previous question, my ideal date involves me and a beautiful girl sitting in a fancy restaurant between a lit candlestick, reading each other statistics.
2) When somebody is only a vegan or donates to charity or rides a bike for the environment, not because they actually care about what they're doing, but just because it gives them a method of validating their pre-existing sense of moral superiority over others. It's insulting to us actual humanitarians.
3) When nobody validates my obvious moral superiority over them.

-Thinking. I'll be back-

Pass on.

I absolutely cannot stand having to take handouts, but for right now, it's what I have to do for the well being of my children. It's temporary for us, once they're in school and I can go back to work I can kick those stupid checks to the curb For a long time I was one of those idiots refusing help, until I just couldn't anymore. But you're probably right, they're jealous lol.

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

I am NOT a cook so....

Hard boiled eggs
Ramen noodles
I can make a mean burger
Fried spam
Baked tilapia and veggies

5 things you do, or do for someone, to combat drop.

Funny that people in Missouri shun you for taking welfare when Missouri has one of the highest amounts of welfare recipients. I bet they're in dire financial straights too but have been too brainwashed by right-wing radio to accept welfare and are just projecting their subconscious jealousy at you not having to shoulder the extra financial burden?

1) This probably applies to almost everybody here, sorry in advance, but conversations. The uuuurgh-inducing drivel that peppers almost everybody's conversations is horrific. But to be fair, sort of linking back to a previous question, my ideal date involves me and a beautiful girl sitting in a fancy restaurant between a lit candlestick, reading each other statistics.
2) When somebody is only a vegan or donates to charity or rides a bike for the environment, not because they actually care about what they're doing, but just because it gives them a method of validating their pre-existing sense of moral superiority over others. It's insulting to us actual humanitarians.
3) When nobody validates my obvious moral superiority over them.

-Thinking. I'll be back-

Pass on.

I absolutely cannot stand having to take handouts, but for right now, it's what I have to do for the well being of my children. It's temporary for us, once they're in school and I can go back to work I can kick those stupid checks to the curb For a long time I was one of those idiots refusing help, until I just couldn't anymore. But you're probably right, they're jealous lol.

Simply put....it's because people are assholes. And I agree with your number 3. Lol.

MD....I'll be more than happy to give someone the shirt off my back, but I am not so great at accepting help. Whether it's pride, not wanting to appear "weak", thinking I don't deserve it.....I have somewhat come to understand that there are times it's not so bad having a helping hand.


What do you mean to combat drop?

 

[MastersDelight]

Simply put....it's because people are assholes. And I agree with your number 3. Lol.

MD....I'll be more than happy to give someone the shirt off my back, but I am not so great at accepting help. Whether it's pride, not wanting to appear "weak", thinking I don't deserve it.....I have somewhat come to understand that there are times it's not so bad having a helping hand.


What do you mean to combat drop?

Sry, sub or Dom drop, how to stave it off or prevent it, the things you do.

 

[cookiecat]

5 ways to prevent sub drop?

1. know i need to cry and keep pushing me to let that go
2. good music keeps my brain focused
3. immediately after i don't like a lot of cuddling/touching... i like to be left alone but later, yes yes yes to kissing, hugging, lots of "good girl"
4. write about it the next day
5. vanilla sex within the next several hours

5 things you're afraid of.

 

[LallyH]

5 ways to prevent sub drop?

1. know i need to cry and keep pushing me to let that go
2. good music keeps my brain focused
3. immediately after i don't like a lot of cuddling/touching... i like to be left alone but later, yes yes yes to kissing, hugging, lots of "good girl"
4. write about it the next day
5. vanilla sex within the next several hours

5 things you're afraid of.

1. Heights
2. Enclosed spaces
3. Public speaking
4. Fairground rides
5. Being naked

5 precious memories?

 

[seela]

5 ways to prevent sub drop?

1. know i need to cry and keep pushing me to let that go
2. good music keeps my brain focused
3. immediately after i don't like a lot of cuddling/touching... i like to be left alone but later, yes yes yes to kissing, hugging, lots of "good girl"
4. write about it the next day
5. vanilla sex within the next several hours

5 things you're afraid of.

1. dogs
2. that I've already reached the highest point of my life and it's all downhill from here
3. tight, closed spaces make me feel uncomfortable but I'm not sure I'm really afraid of them
4. guns
5. public speaking, which is especially problematic considering what I do for a living

1. Heights
2. Enclosed spaces
3. Public speaking
4. Fairground rides
5. Being naked

5 precious memories?

Oops, sorry Lally, didn't mean to skip you!

1. Learning to read. I was around 4 and we were driving home from visiting my cousins and all of a sudden I realized I understood what was written on the street signs. My parents didn't believe me, they thought I had just learned to spot a few words, so when we got home, they gave me a newspaper to read from.

2. Interrails. I felt like the world is so full of possibilities. Ah, youth.

3. J dropping me off to the airport when I was going away for a longer period for the first time. He was so sweet and worried about it. I had a horrible cold and felt really crappy, but it's one of my fondest memories.

4. Playing Finnish baseball as a kid with friends. It was a summer staple for the kids living close to me and we always had such a great time. We were about 10-17 years old, but all had fun and got along really well. The "central" guy, who always got people together, died of cancer when he was 16 or 17 and after that we didn't play anymore, but I really cherish those 4 or so summers.

5. Getting a hamster when I was a kid. It was glorious.


5 favorite smells

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Farawyn]

1. Violets. I love also that it numbs your sense so that your pleasure is limited so much, but it carries precious memory as well as just being lovely.

2. All the citrus and citrus blossoms. Really, who can be sad with their nose full of these uplifting scents

3 bergamot flowers.

4. Wet leather. It means work done, it's never a smell in isolation until the work is over, but in isolation or with the other smells it's always good.

5. Grass: growing, cut, dried: it's life, it's security in the barn dried, it's often what a lot of the year has hinged on. A full barn of dried means security, a full field of fresh means potential, a garden of cut and fragrant, just pleasure

Five is too few. I could list five , fifteen , more , more still and not have completed the smells that fill my router week with pleasure. Let alone the standout smells of special times.

Sometimes I lose my sense of smell and it is surprisingly upsetting. More than hearing for me, though I love music and have been ruled by it more conspicuously.


I am interested in this from others to, so I ask the question to the next person...

We were talking about this a bit in the Control thread. Certain smells can take you anywhere. They are very individual, and intimate.

1- Citrus. I wear D&G Light Blue, which is very orangey and light. Lemons, limes, oranges, hell even grapefruit! Makes me feel clean and fresh.

2.- Fresh cut grass. Saturday morning as a kid. When my Dad could still walk, he used to mow the lawn, and everythting smelled NEW, and it reminds me of my Dad.

3.- Bacon. Because, duh.

4.- Gasoline or car oil. Love men who can fix things, know how to tinker with cars. It's manly and hot.

5.- The beach. I can never NOT live by the water. Prefer the ocean, but will take the Bay. I have both, very lucky. Earthy and salty.

Pass this question on, thanks, Elle!
(Gotta go...I smell COFFEE!!!)

 

[seela]

1. Violets. I love also that it numbs your sense so that your pleasure is limited so much, but it carries precious memory as well as just being lovely.

2. All the citrus and citrus blossoms. Really, who can be sad with their nose full of these uplifting scents

3 bergamot flowers.

4. Wet leather. It means work done, it's never a smell in isolation until the work is over, but in isolation or with the other smells it's always good.

5. Grass: growing, cut, dried: it's life, it's security in the barn dried, it's often what a lot of the year has hinged on. A full barn of dried means security, a full field of fresh means potential, a garden of cut and fragrant, just pleasure

Five is too few. I could list five , fifteen , more , more still and not have completed the smells that fill my router week with pleasure. Let alone the standout smells of special times.

Sometimes I lose my sense of smell and it is surprisingly upsetting. More than hearing for me, though I love music and have been ruled by it more conspicuously.


I am interested in this from others to, so I ask the question to the next person...

1. Bedsheets where J has slept for one night. I absolutely love it. They still have the freshness, but also smell like J. Best of the both worlds.

2. Freesia

3. Asphalt after a rain on a hot day

4. Freshly baked pulla

5. A large lake (the small ones can smell stuffy in summer)


Five things you'd show me if I visited you.

 

[Farawyn]

Cut grass has made a lot of lists so far!

Yes, bed sheets, laundry...

 

[seela]

Cut grass has made a lot of lists so far!

Yes, bed sheets, laundry...

Lol, I just changed my final answer from cut grass to a lake, because that is infinitely better to me, just escaped my mind for a moment.

Edit:
Hereäs a repeat of the question in case it got lost in the previous posts.

Five things you'd show me if I visited you.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[MastersDelight]

You know what? I'd tell you what was available
! get you to do some research too and let you choose, because think people know best what interests them, and I would want to see

If you wanted to see MY favourite things here,

Hmm,

1. A tour of big rocks.

2. Hill figures

3. Local archtecture

4. local city that people love

5 for you Seela, the city I sent you museum pictures from that time maybe, so you could see those things in real life


I think seela deserves better answers for this question! Someone else try!

The st. Louis zoo
Grants farm
Botanical gardens
The Loop
The arch and riverfront


And for 5 smells...

Master after a shower
Master after working
Master after sleep
Master after sex
Master before all the above mentioned things

Ps. I decided trying to convey my feeling of drop telepathically wasn't working and actually voiced my needs. I'm doing better now, not 100% but better. For anyone who cares.


5 decisions you wish you could change/take back.

 

[seela]

I think both of you made interesting posts. Elle, I'd definitely go to that museum and MD, I love botanical gardens.

5 decisions I wish I could change

1. I'd say yes to a work opportunity that I declined
2. I'd take the high school finals in math too, because that would push me to learn more
3. I'd take the teaching classes that felt unnecessary at uni.
4. I'd start Russian earlier and Spanish later in highschool, instead of doing it the other way around like I did. Russian would have been more useful to me than Spanish.
5. I'd pick menu 2 instead of menu 1 in a particular restaurant. Talk about major plate envy.


5 things you can't live without (no stuff like water, food, oxygen please )

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[MastersDelight]

THis promises to be a fascinating question to consider! Thank you!

1. There is a sying 'anything for the easy life'. I don't want the easy life. I want stimulus and challenge...in the manageable amount.

2. Sensual experience of various sort, both enriching and deprivatority ( I think I made the last word up)

3 opportunity for solitude

4. Inter species communication opportunity, even when I can no longer take care of pets, I hope I might visit other people's or be visit by them.

5 . My doctors and medecine ! . But I think that counts as oxygen etc. Ok, I say, philosophising and counting blessings, finding the silver linings in life.

I think this is a great question, and really interesting to consider. It's really easy to think of other people, or things we enjoy daily, or use like the car or home, but in reality many have to exist with out those in their futures, I think the things I have chosen are what have held me together at the hardest times, and when one has failed or not been available others have stepped up to higher force. And I also think it shows a very changed person, I would not have picked need for solitude twenty years ago, for example, now, a good withdraw and reset is often very recharging.


Next person too.

Ok so, I can't look at it as what I can't live without, BC really I can live without them, I just REALLY REALLY don't want to.

My children and Master. My life would be a far dark hole if they disappeared, I don't think I would live very long in their absence

Chocolate, fat, carbs, all the things we're not supposed to eat that are sososo good.

My concealed carry pistol. The world is scary.

A 4 wheeler, can use it for everything, including fun, and harbors most of my fondest childhood memories.

Words. I need words, like I need air.

Pass along!

 

[cascadiabound]

1. I need intellectual stimulation. Challenge. Opportunity to learn new things. To test what I think.

2. Creative time and space. to make things and to play. To be able to manipulate color and texture. Fiber and thread. Graphics and pattern.

3. Time in the outdoors. To breath fresh air - especially sea air. To feel my body work and stretch and get sore from working and playing in the gift that is creation. To revel in it and soak it in and be rejuvenated by it.

4. I need words. To express myself. to think. to be in communication with others. To feed my intellect and to nurture both my emotional self and my creativity.

5. I need relationships. Which includes love. Relationships of all kinds - intimate and professional. Human and non human (my dog in particular). I need one on one relationships and relationships in context of community. While I can hardly imagine life without my husband... intellectually, I know I would go on if something were to happen to him (heaven forbid). Because I would be supported by the other relationships in my life until I could get my bearings again.


keep going with the same question.

 

[Blue]

1) Alone time. So much of it that normal folk would consider my alone-ness to be isolation/solitude. Not as much required when concerning online representations of people like here. I just can't be around people for too long (Minutes) without needing to recede back to the Batcave.

2) My limbs. If I lost a leg I suppose that would be OK since I'm not a very active person, but if I lost an arm, even my lesser dependent one, I think I'd go to Switzerland and enter into their assisted suicide program. The only things that really make my continued existence worthwhile require two hands.

3) My computer. Computers are my life.

I'll think on two others.

Pass on again.

 

[barefootgirl69]

1) Alone time. So much of it that normal folk would consider my alone-ness to be isolation/solitude. Not as much required when concerning online representations of people like here. I just can't be around people for too long (Minutes) without needing to recede back to the Batcave.

2) My limbs. If I lost a leg I suppose that would be OK since I'm not a very active person, but if I lost an arm, even my lesser dependent one, I think I'd go to Switzerland and enter into their assisted suicide program. The only things that really make my continued existence worthwhile require two hands.

3) My computer. Computers are my life.

I'll think on two others.

Pass on again.

1. I need people to talk to/chat with, a connection, just friends to laugh with, share things with.

2. I need to know things, to be challenged, to learn - otherwise, I get bored easily.

3. I need to be needed, loved, cared for; and someone to adore, who will be there for me when I am upset, whose lap is available when I need to rest my mind, and who is there to hear all the silly thoughts in my head.

4. Books

5. Music

List five songs that you've danced to recently.

 

[LallyH]

1. I need people to talk to/chat with, a connection, just friends to laugh with, share things with.

2. I need to know things, to be challenged, to learn - otherwise, I get bored easily.

3. I need to be needed, loved, cared for; and someone to adore, who will be there for me when I am upset, whose lap is available when I need to rest my mind, and who is there to hear all the silly thoughts in my head.

4. Books

5. Music

List five songs that you've danced to recently.

So long as we are using the word 'dance' in its loosest form...

1. Teenage icon - The Vaccines
2. Dark Necessities - RHCP
3. Lane Boy - twenty one pilots
4. You know we can't go back - Noel Gallagher
5. The sound - The 1975

5 people on your 'allowed' list...