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My numbers are solid unlike your marriage. :)

I don't care about your numbers sharing with best GF saved our marriages! And we're all stronger now than ever before! Get back to the real world! Sometimes things aren't like the researchers proceed them to be! Every relationship is different not a text book situation!
 
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My numbers are solid unlike your marriage. :)

My marriage is great. Unlike some I'm not afraid to post some information. Your information about my marriage probably came from the same place your stats did. You made it up. At least you admit your a troll.
 
Oh my, I can't remember the last time I posted on this forum... I know I joined 10 years ago! I look a helluva lot different now ... ha.

Anyway, I've come back because my husband (not the guy from 10 yrs ago) likes the idea of this. I'm not even sure where to start, I'm fantastically insecure :( but I'd love this to be a reality for him.

Will be reading more about it :)
 
The wife and I have talked about this before and have both admitted it is quite a turn on. She is however very reluctant to take it to anything beyond bedroom talk. I on the other hand would like to see us take this farther and allow for some things to happen.
 
This is a topic that was discussed in our bedroom many times. The thought of seeing my wife with another man is very stimulating, but I am not sure how I will feel afterwards.
 
This isn't true! Maybe best friends are the way to go worked for us !

I agree that (single) friends are the best way to start. The first time my husband watched me fuck another guy, it was with a guy I once dated. I knew he really liked having sex with me, and me with him, and there were no strong feelings of love-lost or attachment. With him I knew basically what to expect and some of the nerves around 'the first time' you have sex with someone obviously weren't there. Worked out great for all three of us! Fast forward to now where MFM's (with hubby more often than not watching) is our favorite sexual activity and something we do often.
 
I'm male, and I would not be comfortable with another man fucking my wife.

Same here. I'm not saying others shouldn't or whatever. It's just not for me.

Provably selfishly though, I would probably be happy if she wanted me to fuck other women. Haha.
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Recently my husband and I discovered we have a mutual fantasy of me having sex with other men, something I thought until a few months ago he would divorce me for! It turns out he is really turned on by other men wanting to have sex with me and me telling him about the encounters. I really just like getting laid by men I find attractive and so our new found discovery has led to me being able to release my inner slut and him getting to enjoy a fantasy of his.

Is this common?

Women, would you have sex with more men if your husband was okay with it?

Men, are there more of you out there like my husband?

It sounds great and I think we will go down this path. What kind of guys have you found? Friends or guys from Lit etc?
 
Recently my husband and I discovered we have a mutual fantasy of me having sex with other men, something I thought until a few months ago he would divorce me for! It turns out he is really turned on by other men wanting to have sex with me and me telling him about the encounters. I really just like getting laid by men I find attractive and so our new found discovery has led to me being able to release my inner slut and him getting to enjoy a fantasy of his.

Is this common?

Women, would you have sex with more men if your husband was okay with it?

Men, are there more of you out there like my husband?

I think it is probably more common than people realise.

As for myself, I don't think that I would have sex with more men if my husband was okay with it. Knowing my husband, he would not be okay with it, but that is fine by me. It isn't something every couple desires to experience.
 
Wife and I use the fantasy as fuel during RP when we are in bed. She has no real fantasy about getting fucked as more so being filled with cum, the more the better. I tend to use multiple toys on her and tell her how each one is a different guy filling her hot tight pussy with cum. She loves it and it's probably about the closest I will ever get to seeing her act upon it.
 
What happened ??

Recently my husband and I discovered we have a mutual fantasy of me having sex with other men, something I thought until a few months ago he would divorce me for! It turns out he is really turned on by other men wanting to have sex with me and me telling him about the encounters. I really just like getting laid by men I find attractive and so our new found discovery has led to me being able to release my inner slut and him getting to enjoy a fantasy of his.

Is this common?

Women, would you have sex with more men if your husband was okay with it?

Men, are there more of you out there like my husband?

When you started this new wild lifestyle your husband was quite excited and eager to share the details of your new sexuality in a previous forum. It was my favorite forum, I loved reading his account of when you got fucked by another man and how much he enjoyed it. I guess I was living vicariously through him. A part of me, and we all know which part that is, wishes my wife would take another lover again.

I hope he starts posting again. In the meantime, are you still active in this lifestyle. Are you still getting fucked by other men? I'd love got you to share some of your adventures here .
 
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I have to agree this is one of my fantasies I want to be the other guy. not that im selfish but its always been a fantasy of mine to be invited into a relationship from time to time.
 
My husband won't fuck me so I have to get my pleasure elsewhere.

But I do it behind his back because even though he doesn't want me he doesn't want anyone else to have me.
 
If you were...

My husband won't fuck me so I have to get my pleasure elsewhere.

But I do it behind his back because even though he doesn't want me he doesn't want anyone else to have me.

If you were my wife you certainly wouldn't be "neglected". Apart from our own healthy active sex life, my #1 fantasy is other men screwing my wife so you wouldn't have to be running around behind my back. I would insist you bring your lovers home so they can screw you in our marital bed . So hot!!
 
Screw my wife

I have to agree this is one of my fantasies I want to be the other guy. not that im selfish but its always been a fantasy of mine to be invited into a relationship from time to time.

Wow!! With this and I checked out your blog and it looks line just the kind of guy I fantasize about with my wife. I'd love it if you took my wife to a hotel or better yet our own bedroom and screw her brains out.
 
I agree that (single) friends are the best way to start. The first time my husband watched me fuck another guy, it was with a guy I once dated. I knew he really liked having sex with me, and me with him, and there were no strong feelings of love-lost or attachment. With him I knew basically what to expect and some of the nerves around 'the first time' you have sex with someone obviously weren't there. Worked out great for all three of us! Fast forward to now where MFM's (with hubby more often than not watching) is our favorite sexual activity and something we do often.

the men in your life are very lucky.
 
Hot about spicing this up with some specifics about such fantasies and pics from those who have acted on them?
 
I am reasonably certain my wife doesn't want another cock. She doesn't want much of mine, says she had less than zero sex drive, and doesn't really see that as much of a problem.

But if we were to find her sex drive, and somehow determine that she'd really like another man, then yes, I would encourage her to play without me( as long as she came home and played with me too) and/or I would play along in a MFM or MMF with her. I have no particular attraction to cock, but I'm interested in playing with one in the context of group sex.

For example I could foresee 69ing with her while she gets fucked and maybe sucking if it happened to slip out of her a bit, or I can see touching or sucking and guiding his cock into her. I also very much want to eat cream pie, whether it's mine or someone else's(or double stuff.)does that make any sense?
 
Recently my husband and I discovered we have a mutual fantasy of me having sex with other men, something I thought until a few months ago he would divorce me for! It turns out he is really turned on by other men wanting to have sex with me and me telling him about the encounters. I really just like getting laid by men I find attractive and so our new found discovery has led to me being able to release my inner slut and him getting to enjoy a fantasy of his.

Is this common?

Women, would you have sex with more men if your husband was okay with it?

Men, are there more of you out there like my husband?
Like your husband I have always wanted my wife to enjoy sex with other men (and/or women). She has always said how the idea really excites he (it sure does) and turns her on and she would like to do this - but then says, "...but it wouldn't be right." After many years of trying to get her to change her attitude (married 40 years now) and no change I have now given up on this.
 
I am reasonably certain my wife doesn't want another cock. She doesn't want much of mine, says she had less than zero sex drive, and doesn't really see that as much of a problem.

But if we were to find her sex drive, and somehow determine that she'd really like another man, then yes, I would encourage her to play without me( as long as she came home and played with me too) and/or I would play along in a MFM or MMF with her. I have no particular attraction to cock, but I'm interested in playing with one in the context of group sex.

For example I could foresee 69ing with her while she gets fucked and maybe sucking if it happened to slip out of her a bit, or I can see touching or sucking and guiding his cock into her. I also very much want to eat cream pie, whether it's mine or someone else's(or double stuff.)does that make any sense?

I'd love to join a couple like you!
 
Yes, I love the idea of my wife fucking other men. Its such a huge turn on when she talks about it
 
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