rossgeller84
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we think about it, but we want 1st time 3some - my hubby other man and me..
TreshasMaster
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Ditto
I could never ever share my wife/property with anyone. If I am not comfortable with anyone driving my car, why the fuck would I share the one thing I hold most dear in this world?
I could never ever share my wife/property with anyone. If I am not comfortable with anyone driving my car, why the fuck would I share the one thing I hold most dear in this world?
Grindallnight
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Yes - no question!
My wife has my permission to screw other men. She tells me it will happen.
She had an opportunity a few years ago, before we discussed it, but passed at the last minute.
She was out of town at a work conference and a guy at the bar wanted her to take him up to her room. She was with coworkers so needed to be discreet. She gave him her phone number, but once she was back in her room, decided not to answer his calls. He called for hours, but she didnt do it. Now its one of our biggest turn ons.
My wife has my permission to screw other men. She tells me it will happen.
She had an opportunity a few years ago, before we discussed it, but passed at the last minute.
She was out of town at a work conference and a guy at the bar wanted her to take him up to her room. She was with coworkers so needed to be discreet. She gave him her phone number, but once she was back in her room, decided not to answer his calls. He called for hours, but she didnt do it. Now its one of our biggest turn ons.
Sorry it didn't happen for you and your wife. I know I'd want my wife to have taken him up to her room. During this past summer she spend a week out of town visiting relatives. The whole time I was hoping she'd have another man or men at her hotel room with. Unfortunately I don't think that happened.
ADIDAS00
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Yes, there are plenty of us out there just like your husband. It's a thrill to have a sexy wife other men lust after. Also, there is an erotic taboo nature to it all that is exciting. It's like"she shouldn't be doing this, but seeing her act so naughty is amazing!"
Also, it excites the male's competitive side. Our testosterone fueled brains want to reclaim their woman after she's had another man's hard penis inside her. Lots of other factors that make this fantasy hot.....but I'll stop here
MysteryMan2014
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I can't wait for the day where I get to watch the wife enjoy another man (or men). We have talked about it, just need to get up enough nerve to actually go through with it. She also knows that she has my "permission" to act on anything she finds desirable.
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I'm not sure what what my hubby was thinking when we first started swinging, but it became clear pretty quickly that watching other men with me wasn't what was going to get him off.
A true shame. We had to get out of swinging when he became too possessive. I'd truly love an MFM, but I don't see it happening any more.
Still holding out hope for an FMF, though! I don't think he'd mind that.
A true shame. We had to get out of swinging when he became too possessive. I'd truly love an MFM, but I don't see it happening any more.
Still holding out hope for an FMF, though! I don't think he'd mind that.
mewandrer63
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I'm not sure what what my hubby was thinking when we first started swinging, but it became clear pretty quickly that watching other men with me wasn't what was going to get him off.
A true shame. We had to get out of swinging when he became too possessive. I'd truly love an MFM, but I don't see it happening any more.
Still holding out hope for an FMF, though! I don't think he'd mind that.
MFM can be fun!!
Ray Roberts
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Those interested in this subject might like to read the response that I made to someone thinking about trying it and my own experience in having tried it with my wife.
Not too sure I can be that helpful though as usually it's the male driving these things. The most important issue in deciding to go ahead is that both of you are on the same wavelength in wanting to do this, so you have a head start on our situation where my wife was reluctant. She was quite happy to talk about it and roleplay with her actively shouting out someones name she fancied while we were having sex. But a huge leap to actually meeting someone and end up virtually fucking a stranger. I have to say it took a couple of years of playing out this fantasy when to my surprise she suddenly agreed to do it. I was on cloud nine during the couple of months it took to find someone and make arrangements.
I would have been happy with her meeting someone and then sharing the details with me however she couldn't see the point of that as it was me that wanted it so I should at least take part and it would also take out the fear factor of being alone with someone she didn't know.
It's not easy finding the perfect stud! she wanted nothing to do with it and left it up to me. This was before the internet had taken off and I placed an advert in a NZ swingers magazine I also put a photograph with the advert (with her eyes covered) She has a really good body and her nude picture attracted over 200 replies, wow I was taken aback by the response. After a thorough vetting I reduced it to 5 possible studs we wanted someone from out of town who visited regularly and chose a businessman who came to our town every two months. He had to be older than her with reasonable body and a huge cock, this was my input and his pictures verified a good hard 9" There was another guy who I could have picked who had similar asset's but he also had film star good looks and although I was 99% sure my wife would stick with me I didn't want to test that theory so played safe.
When the big night came of our first meeting I think we were all nervous. He ended up staying in a hotel where the owners were our friends! so it meant he had to come to us. I insisted he be blindfolded and I went to pick him up and take him home. It was winter and we sat in the lounge chatting about nothing in front of a roaring log fire. My wife said "well are we going to do this or not" with that she led him into our dinning room and shut the door. The door has glass square panes so I could see them snogging and feeling each other - now I was nervous - She led him back into the room dragging him in by his erect cock and saying "is this one big enough for you" a very comical moment which broke the ice.
From there is was all on clothes came off quickly he couldn't keep his hands of her body and they ended up on a huge rug in front of the fire entwined in each other. They both did a lot of oral to each other and he really was an expert with his tongue, my wife writhed around in estasy he had a great looking cock circumcised and my wife could get both her hands around the shaft with the head to spare. The most enjoyable aspect of the meet was him slowly thrusting his total length into my wife's juicy pussy. I have a great picture of him balls deep into him while she straddles him with her on top. They fucked for ages he had great stamina and we both ended up coming three times. I got involved in the action we massaged each other, licked and tongued each other for over three hours it was the best sex of my life. Hard to know why but I was so proud that my wife was doing this for me and from the physical point of view how my small Asian wife could actually accommodate such a large cock was amazing. I returned him to his hotel at 2am not sure if we would meet again.
The things my wife liked about the meeting was the foreplay - 4 hands & 2 tongues! and his great oral skills. She also enjoyed playing with his cock but not that much about the actual fucking. When I mentioned the possibility of meeting him again she was not certain. He sent her flowers and a negligee and quite a few letters - all through me - seeking another meet. We ended up seeing him about 8 times over 18 months period and then he left for Aussie! We have never heard or seen of him again.
My wife was pleased it came to an end as she was always worried about STD's (he might have had other lovers all over the place) and our friends family eventually finding out. We still dine out, when having sex, on her shouting out his name as she cums. So I always think in the right circumstances she just might agree to a repeat. We did see another couple last year, which was a disaster, he said he was 58 but when we met he looked like 78 so that meet came to an abrupt end. Her comment was if she did do it again she wants a toyboy and not an old man as she already has one of those. Very funny.
For the most part though she always maintains I forced her into it and she wished she hadn't done it. While I find this hard to believe remembering her body quivering in delight at all the attention she received.
Well that was our big experience not sure how me chatting about it will help you!
Must finish, have been enjoying the memories whilst writing this, and I hope things work out for you both and you get to enjoy the pleasures of MFM as it can be a great addition to your sex life. I would love to hear how you get on and happy to answer any further questions you may have.
Not too sure I can be that helpful though as usually it's the male driving these things. The most important issue in deciding to go ahead is that both of you are on the same wavelength in wanting to do this, so you have a head start on our situation where my wife was reluctant. She was quite happy to talk about it and roleplay with her actively shouting out someones name she fancied while we were having sex. But a huge leap to actually meeting someone and end up virtually fucking a stranger. I have to say it took a couple of years of playing out this fantasy when to my surprise she suddenly agreed to do it. I was on cloud nine during the couple of months it took to find someone and make arrangements.
I would have been happy with her meeting someone and then sharing the details with me however she couldn't see the point of that as it was me that wanted it so I should at least take part and it would also take out the fear factor of being alone with someone she didn't know.
It's not easy finding the perfect stud! she wanted nothing to do with it and left it up to me. This was before the internet had taken off and I placed an advert in a NZ swingers magazine I also put a photograph with the advert (with her eyes covered) She has a really good body and her nude picture attracted over 200 replies, wow I was taken aback by the response. After a thorough vetting I reduced it to 5 possible studs we wanted someone from out of town who visited regularly and chose a businessman who came to our town every two months. He had to be older than her with reasonable body and a huge cock, this was my input and his pictures verified a good hard 9" There was another guy who I could have picked who had similar asset's but he also had film star good looks and although I was 99% sure my wife would stick with me I didn't want to test that theory so played safe.
When the big night came of our first meeting I think we were all nervous. He ended up staying in a hotel where the owners were our friends! so it meant he had to come to us. I insisted he be blindfolded and I went to pick him up and take him home. It was winter and we sat in the lounge chatting about nothing in front of a roaring log fire. My wife said "well are we going to do this or not" with that she led him into our dinning room and shut the door. The door has glass square panes so I could see them snogging and feeling each other - now I was nervous - She led him back into the room dragging him in by his erect cock and saying "is this one big enough for you" a very comical moment which broke the ice.
From there is was all on clothes came off quickly he couldn't keep his hands of her body and they ended up on a huge rug in front of the fire entwined in each other. They both did a lot of oral to each other and he really was an expert with his tongue, my wife writhed around in estasy he had a great looking cock circumcised and my wife could get both her hands around the shaft with the head to spare. The most enjoyable aspect of the meet was him slowly thrusting his total length into my wife's juicy pussy. I have a great picture of him balls deep into him while she straddles him with her on top. They fucked for ages he had great stamina and we both ended up coming three times. I got involved in the action we massaged each other, licked and tongued each other for over three hours it was the best sex of my life. Hard to know why but I was so proud that my wife was doing this for me and from the physical point of view how my small Asian wife could actually accommodate such a large cock was amazing. I returned him to his hotel at 2am not sure if we would meet again.
The things my wife liked about the meeting was the foreplay - 4 hands & 2 tongues! and his great oral skills. She also enjoyed playing with his cock but not that much about the actual fucking. When I mentioned the possibility of meeting him again she was not certain. He sent her flowers and a negligee and quite a few letters - all through me - seeking another meet. We ended up seeing him about 8 times over 18 months period and then he left for Aussie! We have never heard or seen of him again.
My wife was pleased it came to an end as she was always worried about STD's (he might have had other lovers all over the place) and our friends family eventually finding out. We still dine out, when having sex, on her shouting out his name as she cums. So I always think in the right circumstances she just might agree to a repeat. We did see another couple last year, which was a disaster, he said he was 58 but when we met he looked like 78 so that meet came to an abrupt end. Her comment was if she did do it again she wants a toyboy and not an old man as she already has one of those. Very funny.
For the most part though she always maintains I forced her into it and she wished she hadn't done it. While I find this hard to believe remembering her body quivering in delight at all the attention she received.
Well that was our big experience not sure how me chatting about it will help you!
Must finish, have been enjoying the memories whilst writing this, and I hope things work out for you both and you get to enjoy the pleasures of MFM as it can be a great addition to your sex life. I would love to hear how you get on and happy to answer any further questions you may have.
HubbyApproves
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My hubby has talked about me shagging other men since we got together 15 years ago (he's nothing if not patient!).
I'm over the social conditioning 'taboo' aspect of it now, but a couple of things still hold me back:
I don't want him to shag anyone else (selfish maybe, but that's how I feel), so that kind of rules out swingers clubs. Then, actually finding someone...opportunities to go out without the kids are few and far between, and if I were to go out with girlfriends, I wouldn't want them to know what I'm up to.
I'm over the social conditioning 'taboo' aspect of it now, but a couple of things still hold me back:
I don't want him to shag anyone else (selfish maybe, but that's how I feel), so that kind of rules out swingers clubs. Then, actually finding someone...opportunities to go out without the kids are few and far between, and if I were to go out with girlfriends, I wouldn't want them to know what I'm up to.
My husband constantly talks about wanting to see other men fuck me. I think it would be a huge turn on to have him watch.
JustAnotherMarylander
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newcouple1128
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Wife and I were never interested in having another man play with her. But one night while we were experimenting with some kinky stuff the topic came up. To my surprise, she actually liked the idea of a guy doing stuff to her (no penetration though). She wanted a guy to take her clothes off, play with her, mutual oral, and so on. Then she said she wanted to guy to spend time with me.
I'm not going to lie, the thought of her with another guy is kind of a turn on. I would be so happy knowing she was getting pleased and being horny as could be. Maybe one day we can find the right guy/couple; we will see.
I'm not going to lie, the thought of her with another guy is kind of a turn on. I would be so happy knowing she was getting pleased and being horny as could be. Maybe one day we can find the right guy/couple; we will see.
Dreamer110
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It is one thing to fantasize. I think it is dangerous to enter that world. Could cause jealousy and resentment. To each their own, not our cup of tea. IMHO
Ever see that commercial with the devil on one shoulder and the angel on the other? DO IT!!!
MumSisterTgirlLover
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To be with you both would be a lot of fun.
newcouple1128
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We'd love that.
northstarlet
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Its the only thing holding us back. Once we've gone down that route there's no way to reverse it but if it happens some day it happens spontaneously. Sigh! its a bloody good fantasy though works everytime when we talk about it in bed.
It is one thing to fantasize. I think it is dangerous to enter that world. Could cause jealousy and resentment. To each their own, not our cup of tea. IMHO
knowhow7890
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I agree. My wife loves to fantasise about being with others, however the risk of us losing what we have for each other probably means we stay enjoying the fantasy.
Grindallnight
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The fantasy for us is so hot, one of us usually goes "there" while we are fucking. It makes me cum pretty fast, which she likes. The best is the next morning, I go again and she loves the idea of being filled by one guy after the other, with her pussy full of cum for each next guy to enjoy.
I think it could become reality - both of us seem to be into it, but time, place and guy have to be just right.
I personally would not be a fan of my wife sleeping with another guy, but I may be okay with it if I got to sleep with someone else too. It already bothers me that she has slept with a number of guys in the past, while I have only slept with her.
I can understand the fetish though, it is not that your husband is weird. I just have my own issues with it in my situation.
jordanhipster
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I have a question. Do you fuck your husband as hard or even better than you do these other guys?
While I have fantasies about my wife with other men, I don't know if I could emotionally handle her doing things with them that she won't do with me. Anal, oral, spanking, dirty talk, getting rough, etc.
