For married couples

[carlsnake]

I have those fantasies, and my wife shares them. We even thought about trying it years ago, but decided against it. I know that when we were dating in college, she had sex with several other men over a period of three years. She felt really guilty because we were committed to each other and planned to marry. I didn't find out about it until after we were married, but I found it extremely exciting. Now she tells me about her real experiences with other men, and it does not endanger our relationship.

 

[Swgopro]

I have those fantasies, and my wife shares them. We even thought about trying it years ago, but decided against it. I know that when we were dating in college, she had sex with several other men over a period of three years. She felt really guilty because we were committed to each other and planned to marry. I didn't find out about it until after we were married, but I found it extremely exciting. Now she tells me about her real experiences with other men, and it does not endanger our relationship.

Even if we never experience actually having Mrs. S be with another guy, I'd love for her to share her sexual experience from before me...problem is that she doesn't have any. I told here to just make some up, but she hasn't done that yet.

 

[ChattyAnnie]

Maybe I'm not the norm, but I would not want to be married to someone who encouraged my infidelities and then have me tell him about it. For me the excitement of cheating is not just in the sex. It is knowing I am doing something forbidden and secret. It is letting my dark side out on occasion so I don't have to keep it bottled up inside me.

 

[draconus_infernus]

Recently my husband and I discovered we have a mutual fantasy of me having sex with other men, something I thought until a few months ago he would divorce me for! It turns out he is really turned on by other men wanting to have sex with me and me telling him about the encounters. I really just like getting laid by men I find attractive and so our new found discovery has led to me being able to release my inner slut and him getting to enjoy a fantasy of his.

Is this common?

Women, would you have sex with more men if your husband was okay with it?

Men, are there more of you out there like my husband?

My wife and I are in an open polyamorous relationship. We both have lovers other than each other. I've watched her with other men before, and it is a huge turn on! And she's turned on watching me with other women.

 

[lordfarquat]

Thought-Provoking Questions

My wife and I will always be monogamous in terms of having physical relationship. However, there is something about visual stimulation that we love to enjoy. I'm not sure if there is a thread for it on this site but would love if there were more married couple porn. Any suggestions would be welcomed.

 

[screwher]

I have those fantasies, and my wife shares them. We even thought about trying it years ago, but decided against it. I know that when we were dating in college, she had sex with several other men over a period of three years. She felt really guilty because we were committed to each other and planned to marry. I didn't find out about it until after we were married, but I found it extremely exciting. Now she tells me about her real experiences with other men, and it does not endanger our relationship.

Nice! I know my wife's really limited sexual past. If she had fooled around on me in those first three years of our relationship we would've been finished right then and there. But now years later I'd love for it to come out she'd been having sex with other men the whole time.

 

[Ava_44]

I think that it is for certain types of women honey... I agree with you, but I have friends who could never think of anyone but their husbands, not out of belief they couldn't possibly like other men, just out of love. x

 

[lydia_kitty]

I don't see my marriage being anything other than monogamous. We both have a jealous streak, so I know it would be a formula for disaster. Very happy so if it's not broke, don't fix it! What happens in my mind is a totally different story...

 

[tnhardon]

I don't see my marriage being anything other than monogamous. We both have a jealous streak, so I know it would be a formula for disaster. Very happy so if it's not broke, don't fix it! What happens in my mind is a totally different story...

Agree with this all the way!

 

[Grindallnight]

Recently my husband and I discovered we have a mutual fantasy of me having sex with other men, something I thought until a few months ago he would divorce me for! It turns out he is really turned on by other men wanting to have sex with me and me telling him about the encounters. I really just like getting laid by men I find attractive and so our new found discovery has led to me being able to release my inner slut and him getting to enjoy a fantasy of his.

Is this common?

Men, are there more of you out there like my husband?

I am like your husband. I don't want to be cuckolded, I don't want to eat the creampie out of her. I want her to have amazing sex with other men and then to come home to me. Then I can fuck her and enjoy how she feels right after doing something so "naughty" and taboo in society.

 

[ararejewel]

I don't think that it would change much for me, except that I wouldn't have to sneak around and make sure that the people I have sex with aren't going to blab.

 

[30bandits]

I don't think that it would change much for me, except that I wouldn't have to sneak around and make sure that the people I have sex with aren't going to blab.

deal...

 

[SatinDreamGirl]

I've recently been considering and actually fantasizing about this. Developments with my husband since New Year's have involved him confessing and me indulging his desires to be a sissy, to be feminized, and dress up. We've never talked about it but I'd give him fair odds that he'd get very excited by it. And if watching me have sex with another man with a big cock is what hubby wants, who am I to hold him back?

 

[guns44]

I would be ok with it as long as I could watch and or participate. I would love to have a mmf 3sum with my wife its one of my biggest fantasies

 

[WifeLender]

Started

Ours started from us swapping past fuck stories. I especially loved hearing them.

Then roleplay while fucking. That was FANTATIIC. It rather just evolved, and kept going.

It was apparent that she was really turned on by being naughty, and after 10 years thought another cock might be fun haha. Like driving someone else's car.

So I dared her to do it while she was out/work/shopping etc. she was always excited but chickend out.

So my handle comes from the time I sent her out on a date with a mate (he needed one for some work thingo and was bereft). I txt her during the evening to say that I also told him he could fuck her. She txt back with quite the panic, then the next one saying she was a bit excited by that... Now I hadn't actually told him any such thing, but she was very excited by the idea. So we kept txt ING in this fashion and oooop I made her all horny and I was away... Soooooooo I then did actually txt him to say that if she needed "anything" he should say thanks and "help her out" then txt him a pic of "her"

I think she was too horny for that then not to go well.

Now the upshot is that he is not in Australia anymore...

Haven't done much since..a little play though

 

[talkeasy5813]

Recently my husband and I discovered we have a mutual fantasy of me having sex with other men, something I thought until a few months ago he would divorce me for! It turns out he is really turned on by other men wanting to have sex with me and me telling him about the encounters. I really just like getting laid by men I find attractive and so our new found discovery has led to me being able to release my inner slut and him getting to enjoy a fantasy of his.

Is this common?

Women, would you have sex with more men if your husband was okay with it?

Men, are there more of you out there like my husband?

I would have sex with other men if my husband wanted to watch and enjoyed it and if the men are ok with it. I'm a hypocrite though because I don't want another woman to have sex with my husband.

 

[Cabeza]

I would have sex with other men if my husband wanted to watch and enjoyed it and if the men are ok with it. I'm a hypocrite though because I don't want another woman to have sex with my husband.

I think that's pretty common. My wife and I wouldn't act on it, but we fantasize about her being with other men while I watch. But she has no interest in fantasizing about me being with other women.

 

[The_Ghost_Man]

Ours started from us swapping past fuck stories. I especially loved hearing them.

Then roleplay while fucking. That was FANTATIIC. It rather just evolved, and kept going.

It was apparent that she was really turned on by being naughty, and after 10 years thought another cock might be fun haha. Like driving someone else's car.

So I dared her to do it while she was out/work/shopping etc. she was always excited but chickend out.

So my handle comes from the time I sent her out on a date with a mate (he needed one for some work thingo and was bereft). I txt her during the evening to say that I also told him he could fuck her. She txt back with quite the panic, then the next one saying she was a bit excited by that... Now I hadn't actually told him any such thing, but she was very excited by the idea. So we kept txt ING in this fashion and oooop I made her all horny and I was away... Soooooooo I then did actually txt him to say that if she needed "anything" he should say thanks and "help her out" then txt him a pic of "her"

I think she was too horny for that then not to go well.

Now the upshot is that he is not in Australia anymore...

Haven't done much since..a little play though

I'm always looking for a date to take out and see a band. My wife is never up for it.

 

[screwher]

I think that's pretty common. My wife and I wouldn't act on it, but we fantasize about her being with other men while I watch. But she has no interest in fantasizing about me being with other women.

This is exactly the situation my wife and I are in. She recently became a hotwife and is having sex with a coworker of hers. We started our new lifestyle after an affair she had. I gave her blessing to continue as it arouses me. For many years I've fantasized about other men screwing her as well. Despite this my wife would go ballistic if I ever slept with another woman. I'm good with this though and I don't feel that she's a hypocrite. My wife getting laid by other men is my fantasy/fetish. She doesn't have the desires for me and another woman .

 

[ADIDAS00]

I would have sex with other men if my husband wanted to watch and enjoyed it and if the men are ok with it. I'm a hypocrite though because I don't want another woman to have sex with my husband.

You'd make a great hotwife! A lot of guys are into that these days. Just sayin

 

[mikendel]

Recently my husband and I discovered we have a mutual fantasy of me having sex with other men, something I thought until a few months ago he would divorce me for! It turns out he is really turned on by other men wanting to have sex with me and me telling him about the encounters. I really just like getting laid by men I find attractive and so our new found discovery has led to me being able to release my inner slut and him getting to enjoy a fantasy of his.

Is this common?

Women, would you have sex with more men if your husband was okay with it?

Men, are there more of you out there like my husband?

50 men and still going strong. It was his fantasies for some time. I finally gave him for him and man did I love it. I have sex with 4+ men a month alone or in front of hubby.

 

[MarriedMan100]

It's touchy...

It can be a touchy and even dangerous practice: sometimes the line between arousal at the thought of one's wife with another man, and debilitating jealousy, can be a fine one. Especially since it may very well be the latter that fuels the former.

It sounds like you and your husband have a pretty good handle on it, so all the best to you. I would be interested in hearing input from others as well...

Thanks for the interesting post.

 

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