Fucking an ex-

[lstn1drlnd]

I've done it too many times... what made them ex's were mainly circumstances beyond our controll, but then I have too many ex's that just like to fuck...plus w/o that emotional stuff it is just sex and that makes it much simpler, and its safe cause u know them well.... i kinda like it... think that makes me sick
oh well ...im over it

 

[LeahLo519]

Lord knows I think we all think about it.

But would any of you fine folks here seriously consider fucking an ex-lover? Obviously there was something there that made them and ex-lover, but is it worth it to go back and revisit that ol' familiar territory?? Can one actually get over the emotional pain if there was some inflicted in the break up to JUST have sex?

No...they're an ex for a reason and all of mine have been laughable in the sack anyhow.

 

[bmw1080]

No...they're an ex for a reason and all of mine have been laughable in the sack anyhow.

Thats quite sad to hear that Leah. Mind you, hopefully you will get some enjoyment from your quest in finding the appropriate lover.

 

[Lust Engine]

No...they're an ex for a reason and all of mine have been laughable in the sack anyhow.

Yeah, bummer deal. I wouldn't classify all of my previous lovers as being duds in the sack but a few of them were a wee bit less than thrilling. But then I also had a few that had some serious bullets in their sexual arsenal.

It's those that make me think about re-visiting, but admittedly in reality...no way.

 

[SummerMorning]

Sure, why not?

If you didn't split in a screaming fit, if you're consenting adults? *shrug* Nothing special really. If you can have sex with someone you don't know yet, why not have sex with someone you already know and are comfortable with.

 

[Lust Engine]

Sure, why not?

If you didn't split in a screaming fit, if you're consenting adults? *shrug* Nothing special really. If you can have sex with someone you don't know yet, why not have sex with someone you already know and are comfortable with.

DAMN good point! Now I know why people here are so cool!

But I think part of it is that you might know that person too well. And perhaps those wacky things called emotions come into play. And just perhaps the anonymous sex has its appeal because you really don't know anything about them at all- it's a risk, which has its own twists & nuance.

 

[australwind]

DAMN good point! Now I know why people here are so cool!

But I think part of it is that you might know that person too well. And perhaps those wacky things called emotions come into play. And just perhaps the anonymous sex has its appeal because you really don't know anything about them at all- it's a risk, which has its own twists & nuance.

I am about to revisit someone....with whom I have had no contact in more years that I care to count..and I face the possibility that we will both want to pick up[ from where we left off....this I regard as an opportunity I will not let pass me by if the "signals" are right.

We take what life offers us....with both hands please!

 

[77Cobra]

Hell Yes!!! I did it with an ex wife for about six months and it was super.We already knew what each other liked and she was really trying hard to win me back.Really the only thing we had in common the whole time we were married was we both loved to fuck anyway.It first happened by accident actually.My roomate had went to a bar and picked up this gal and brought her to our house to party but she had a friend along with her who just happened to be my ex wife.When they parked in front of my house the ex started to worry and asked my rommate if I still lived there and he said yes.I was in bed sound asleep and wake to hear this voice calling my name.I instantly recognized the voice and thought I was dreaming.Then I opened my eyes and saw her.I about shit.I just reached up grabbed her and we started making out and soon we were fucking like bunny rabbitts.She wanted to get remarried but I didn't.See as I said we both loved to fuck.But a guy has to work and so while I was at work she was fucking my friends.So no way would I marry her.

 

[australwind]

This guy is an exboyfriend...not an ex husband.....I wouldn't touch the ex husband with a forty foot pole! The ex h is ex because he didn't fuck as well as a few other things...

 

[silverwhisper]

cobra: some friends...

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[SummerMorning]

If she don't fuck good, she don't fuck good...

Move on.

*shrug* simple.

 

[mrmgp]

Usually by the time someone becomes my "ex", it means I want to completely sever ties with her.

 

[Private_Label]

To x or not to x

If I actually had an ex, I could give you an answer. My god, I need to find me one.

For the sake of Research I'd be willing to let you call me your Ex...

 

[Lust Engine]

This guy is an exboyfriend...not an ex husband.....I wouldn't touch the ex husband with a forty foot pole! The ex h is ex because he didn't fuck as well as a few other things...

Ex-marriage partners can really be touchy. If it were to ever happen with me, it'd be with an ex-GF. The marriage thing spooks me... possibly it's the baggage and the roots that we would've had tosink down together.

 

[australwind]

Given that he has barely spoken two civil words to me since we split, revisiting with the exmarriage partner is not even a proposition worth considering!



No........any revisiting will be with former lovers....as I would happily like to go over old times with a couple of them

 

[Lovepotion69]

Yes I would.

Of course there are some that I wouldn't sleep with again for various reasons, but there are also a few I'd do it with in an instant. And then there are those who I'd try my hardest not to fall into bed with again, but most likely can't help myself...

 

[JRaven]

Back in college, I had a boyfriend that I really loved a lot. But, I was determined to "save myself" for marriage. He had the normal raging hormones of a young man. So we split up. He wanted to fuck the hell out of me real bad. I kept telling him 'no'.

Now that I know better, I wouldn't mind finding him, throwing myself at him. Just to let him know that I know better now. To apologize for not having sex with him before.

Jenny

 

[australwind]

What's stopping you, Jenny?

 

[Lust Engine]

What's stopping you, Jenny?

Sounds like a fair question to me! Go for it!

 

[australwind]

LOL............and will you do the same if the opportunity comes up?

 

[oxford_flame_uk]

I have fucked an ex-gf of mine two or three times now...... we didn't get on as a couple but the sex was great!

Can definitely relate to the whole thing of the sex being a bit rougher and less intimate once you have split with them. First time I fucked ger after we split I ended up fisting her ;-)

 

[JamesSD]

But would any of you fine folks here seriously consider fucking an ex-lover? Obviously there was something there that made them and ex-lover, but is it worth it to go back and revisit that ol' familiar territory?? Can one actually get over the emotional pain if there was some inflicted in the break up to JUST have sex?

I've done it. I guess I set the precedent by suggesting one last fuck the night we broke up, for long term reasons. We kept getting together every few weeks until she met someone else she wanted to date (which luckily co-incided pretty closely with me meeting someone else). The sex was harder and heavier, with less emotional intimacy but definitely a lot of fun.

If the sex is good and you still get along, I think it can be fun. You have to be careful, and it probably isn't a great idea in the long run.

My ex girlfriends and lovers frequently make appearances in my sexual fantasies. I have positive sexual memories to draw upon with them, so it seems natural.

 

[brighteyed]

I've fucked exs and had both bad and good experiances. The bad was surely because there was still a lot of screwed up emotional shit between us. The good times on the other hand were a lot of fun. It was like checking up on an old friend, you get to see what new tricks you've both learned and you both can remember what really makes the other person buzz. I only recomend it if you are sure you don't want to get back together with the person and don't still feel badly about the break-up.

 

[JRaven]

What's stopping you, Jenny?

Sounds like a fair question to me! Go for it!

The ONLY thing stopping me is that I have no idea where he is now. It's been a couple of decades since I was in college.

Jenny

 

[Lust Engine]

The ONLY thing stopping me is that I have no idea where he is now. It's been a couple of decades since I was in college.

Jenny

Oh c'mon... haven't we all Googled an ex's name online before??

Or take a look here:
http://www.zabasearch.com/

Kinda scary but take a look!