Fucking an ex-

[australwind]

I found the guy I am planning to see by looking on SchoolFriends (a UK site that has reference lists for Australia)........there must be something the same that is US based?





And I'm not telling how many years ago I was in college!

 

[Lust Engine]

I found the guy I am planning to see by looking on SchoolFriends (a UK site that has reference lists for Australia)........there must be something the same that is US based?

And I'm not telling how many years ago I was in college!

The US equivilent is classmates.com so look away!

 

[JRaven]

Oh c'mon... haven't we all Googled an ex's name online before??

Or take a look here:
http://www.zabasearch.com/

Kinda scary but take a look!

I tried that. I also tried classmates.com
No luck.

For all I know, he died ten years ago. (Hope not! )

 

[bronzeage]

You'll never get well.

I've done it. And I know I'm not the only one. This activity has even earned itself a name among my group of friends, after the name of one friend who had done it..

I always called it "drinking from the poisen well"

I think everybody gives a relationship their best effort the first time around. Sex after a breakup just prolongs the pain and raises false expectations for at least one person.

 

[Lust Engine]

Sex after a breakup just prolongs the pain and raises false expectations for at least one person.

Hmmm...some people here seem to have an emotional distance that allows them to do it. Me? I'm not sure but that's not to say it's impossible.

 

[australwind]

Perhaps the question could be looked at in a broader context......who would consider having a sexual relationship outside of their primary commitment?

There are quite a number of people who inhabit this cyber world who have online sexual relationships regularly and don't consider themselves to have "cheated" on their partners. There are others who regularly seek physical gratification outside their primary commitment.

There are some single persons who have a sexual relationship with someone who is in a committed relationship, or even both parties involved being in relationships.

Then there are those that freely and willingly indulge in physical relationships with other people with the full knowledge and blessing and sometimes active participation of their partner.

Let's face it, there are some amongst us who can enjoy having physical and cyber sexual relationships with other people purely for the enjoyment and the pleasure of the act and nothing more.

Why can't that happen with someone with whom you have shared more than just your body with in the past?