Gay men: Do you like to be dominated or are you submissive?

[Travler99921]

I am a cocksucker, and most people think that is submissive. However once I have a guy's cock in my mouth I feel I am in control. Ther are exceptions.

 

[Subs2men]

Definitely submissive when I'm with a man. I love it when he takes charge and takes what he wants.

 

[easyoff]

I'm a sub with a guy, I have two places for his cock and I want him to use both.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Total submissive

 

[Cumpup39]

100% sub bottom. I want a MAN to use me how he sees fit. His needs in control, I am just a playground for his cock and imagination.

 

[TheF1x3r]

Hmm you could be on to something lol. But some tops i have been with are really... submissive, and i could tell them what to do pretty easily and that's not the way i like it. So i guess i like dominate tops lol

Are you gay, bi or "straight"? ("straight" - like Clark Kent, you live a normal hetero life but often find yourself in a phonebox taking your pants off... or someone elses pants off)

I've noticed that gay dudes tend to be bottom/top but the bi/"straight" spectrum tend to be dom/sub

 

[SPARTAN047]

Switch, but mostly bottom and sub. I prefer being used. I've topped a lot, especially online, because it's very hard to find people who are Dom/me.

 

[Sunnyade]

Mainly Dom top but feel very submissive when I switch

 

[Swuchmann]

Bi total fem bottom here. Definitely want to be dominated. I find my only pleasure with a top that aggressively uses me for his needs.

 

[starfish71]

In my view, Top/Bottom ≠ Dom/Sub ≠ Active/Passive, and none of these "continuums" are necessarily fixed for all people.

 

[CandiGurl]

Submissive sissyslut here ready to serve.

 

[Skooter57]

Total bottom here, submissive by nature

 

[alwayshorny2020]

Alpha male but when it comes to my bi play I love nothing more than being dominated. Last time my play mate wanted me on my back. Legs over his shoulders. I felt like I was nearly doubled over as he pounded my hole. I don’t normally kiss me but I was so turned on I had to kiss him. It was so hot. I really felt he had used me, almost to non compliance levels but I loved it.

 

[John256212]

I also len to the sub side when I play with other guys. I think it has been that way since i started. I was pretty shy when I was learning and it helps to have someone take charge. I guess that stuck with me. Nothing better than hands on your shoulders putting you on your knees!

 

[bobb64]

i'm a total bottom and definitely not Dom i will do as asked but don't consider myself sub either.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Im a submissive bitch. Spank me. Slap me around. Spit on me. Tie me up. Call me names. Talk shit. Piss on me. Make it hurt. Brutally use my two holes til you're done, then send me off like the whore I am.

 

[phil1955]

I do not consider myself either, I love to suck cock and enjoy having them fuck my mouth. I am getting what I want and hopefully he is getting what he wants.

 

[BillyWalrus]

Sexually, I am completely submissive to my trans gf. My holes are hers to use when and how she wishes. She has never taken HRT so she has her natural testosterone. She is dominant and as she says, she is the man in the bedroom.