Gentle bondage

[alexanna]

Gentle bondage has become more interesting to me lately as my Daddy\Husband is reluctant to inflict very much pain. I actually asked him to bind me the other night just so I could feel safe\secure\cherished\owned without it having to culminate in a sexual act. He bound me and let me watch TV on the floor at his feet for awhile before things did heat up

I am one of those people that feel responsible for everything and everyone around them and bondage gives me a break. As the ropes are being tied I literally feel the responsibility transfering away from me. I don't say I feel it transfering to him since much of the responsibility I feel is imagined anyway.

I purchased my Daddy a couple of ropework books recently and plan to send him a link to Homburg's thread. I think it will be something we can do which we can both enjoy without him feeling too uncomfortable although for me there does have to be some form of corporal punishment or discipline on a regular basis just to feel grounded. I have not historically been a brat but I could certainly see myself becoming one if I am driven insane by lack of discipline.

 

[Homburg]

I purchased my Daddy a couple of ropework books recently and plan to send him a link to Homburg's thread. I think it will be something we can do which we can both enjoy without him feeling too uncomfortable although for me there does have to be some form of corporal punishment or discipline on a regular basis just to feel grounded. I have not historically been a brat but I could certainly see myself becoming one if I am driven insane by lack of discipline.

I've seen some interesting articles on brats, and the need for discipline and punishment as a means to show/prove love/affection. Might be worthwhile to do some reading on it, and send him links to those articles too. Places that tend to write on D/g relationships sometimes have posts on that.

As to ropework, I tend to show the non-painful, non-nasty stuff that I do, so, yeah, it would be a good intro. Midori, Two Knotty Boys, Lee Harrington etc all have books that are generally softer. Midori does some righteously rough stuff on her website though, and so does Lee Harrington. Just goes to show that it is infinitely adjustable.

 

[alexanna]

I've seen some interesting articles on brats, and the need for discipline and punishment as a means to show/prove love/affection. Might be worthwhile to do some reading on it, and send him links to those articles too. Places that tend to write on D/g relationships sometimes have posts on that.

Our daughter tends to be like this so he already gets it to some extent but articles would be good. I'll do some research. Thank you for the tip. He has already committed to corporal punishment and has seen its positive effects on my general mood and outlook but inflicting pain isn't something he inherently enjoys doing. I hate the thought of him doing things which are just for me because I need it in much the same way I always had a hard time letting him pleasure me when we were vanilla. The fact that that he is taking the control and responsibility away from me does make it easier to accept having my needs met however.

Knotty Boys is good. I will look into the others as well.

 

[tommynova2001]

I, like you, (but with VERY limited experience) was into gentle bondage in my youth. It was more a tied and teased thing. I still enjoy that, but given that my wife introduced me to my sadistic side...(there but not something I had acted out on sexually) its hard to put that genie back in the box. If I ave tied up and her ass is presented, kinda hard not to leave a print. Red looks so nice against delicate skin...

 

[Xantu]

Need some advice

I plan on having the best insane monkey sex of my life at 65, personally.

How does one go about meeting a nice SSC insane monkey?

Xantu

 

[myinnerslut]

I've seen some interesting articles on brats, and the need for discipline and punishment as a means to show/prove love/affection.

this cuaght my eye. can you send me a copy as well please?

 

[Homburg]

this cuaght my eye. can you send me a copy as well please?

Haven't been able to find them yet.