Gentlemen: Can you explain the appeal of cuckolding?

Yes! I've never heard this word before. It's a goodie.

I'm a candulist, but I'm also a cuckold. I've been a cuckold by choice and i can assure everyone that humiliation was never, ever a part of that. If there had ever been a hint of humiliation from the other guys I would have hit them and they would not have got near my wife. If my wife had tried humiliating me the marriage would be over.
Yeah, as far as fiction goes I can only enjoy the humiliation aspects if its repeatedly stated the cuck is enjoying that aspect himself.

I can't imagine wanting that for myself. Even though I struggled with shame as a young man and imagine its similiar and could be fetishized... I'm glad I escaped rather than potentially having tried to transmography the feelings
 
for me, there is no homosexual intent or humiliation. The "stag" label probably is accurate. I didn't ask for this kink. My first wife cucked me, without my permission, of course. The trauma of adultery and children cooked my brain. and that's what caused the brain chemistry. the original recipe for this brain chemical concoction was shock, upset, anger, jealousy, awakening and more. That resulted in a slow burn, that when you think about it over & over, causes the most pleasurable mind & body sensation. and it goes on for the longest time. That first wife & i tried several swinging events and couples, but it was the 3-way with a solo Bull that caused the most pleasure for all of us. faw-keen weird. :-/ That marriage failed.

The heroin of cuckoldry chemistry was not forgotten. 10 years later, I got remarried to the goody 2-shoes wifey. She was monogamous in her first marriage for over 25+ years. That got changed. I taught her what I wanted and she followed lead into becoming a desired MILF. The brain chemistry returned, but the cocktail was different, even more pleasurable. Kelly got to live hoe-life in her 40s and I became a dopamine junkie.

Our brains make better neuro-chemistry than any recreational drug dealer.
 
Me and my wife go all the way back to grade school. We lived about 4 miles apart. I didn't really get to being around her a lot until my jr/sr year. I had enjoyed sucking boys cocks more up until my senior year. Her close friend and me got to fooling around together some. We more or less broke up and my wife moved in on me then. I liked her a lot. We just grew closer and closer. Then I got her pregnant and we had to get married. I joined the army for a secure job and insurance. We spent 3 years in. During that time we had a fling with another couple that got too drunk we wouldn't let them drive home one saturday night. We all slept in the same bed because we just had a one bedroom apartment. We had all had some drinks and it turned into a free for all. I fucked his wife, he fucked my wife, the girls done each other, they made me and him do each other. It was wild. When we all sobered up the next day we all talked about how much fun we had had. We all decided to do it more. We even done some full swaps a few times. I found out my wife liked a little kink. And I did too. When she stayed with him it was almost like I was cucked. And the same for her because I was with his wife Monica. We liked it but it was just fun and kinky for us. We all got out and that was the end of that. We talked about it every now and then how much fun it was for us. So we decided to try it again. I found a couple about an hour from us. We played with them a few times. But it wasn't the same. She was more lesbian oriented and my wife was ok with it but wanted something different. So we done some threesomes. Never really had a bad one but some we only seen one time. We found a few men her local finally we liked. One was in her class but married. He had always wanted to fuck my wife, and finally got to. It was hard for us to get together because we had to rent a motel and money was tight. The other two was older than us. The one would get a motel once every month or two. Then he moved off about 100 miles. He is the one that really started our cuckold relationship later when he called and said he could meet us about half way and I was at work and I told my wife to go see him by herself. We had another one that lived about 7 miles from us, was divorced and had his own place. He was bi and kinda kinky. We seen him quite a bit. Later he is one that my wife would go see by herself too. Then we met this one guy that was real kinky. He came through here every week and worked for a tech company in Dallas. He was married but his wife didn't want to do anything. We played hard with him for about 3 years. He had a company credit card and rented a room at least once a month. My wife loved seeing him and fucking him. He is the one that fucked me in front of my wife with her help. He claimed me as his girl too and made me start crossdressing. My wife loved me being his sissy girl. We done gang bangs in Dallas and Tulsa. I had to go enfem. We had some very wild times. He lost his good job and we couldn't see him anymore. Sure missed him too. Now we are down to two guys. I ocassionally join it with the one guy but it is mostly cuckold for me now. And has been for the last several years. My wife doesn't go out looking for men but likes when this one has an extra man to fuck her sometimes. It is usually a complete surprise for her. And she may never see him again. But she likes being "whored" as she calls it.
 
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