LITEROTICA PODCAST
LIT CAMS (200 Free Tokens)ADULT TOYSVOD MOVIES

Greetings from a typical shy and nerdy girl!

LinusRules said:
You should look at boobs in a couple of ways. First, remember there are men who like big boobs and men that like little boobs. The other half of men just like boobs. Therefore while maybe 25% of men wouldn’t care for small boobs on women, 75% of men like your boobs.

Second, there’s a joke about a boy that teases a girl by saying he’s got a dick and the girl doesn’t. She gets upset and runs home crying. The next day the boy sees the girl and whips out his dick again and says, “ha!, I have one of these and you don’t!” The girl looks at him with a smile and says while lifting her skirt and pointing at her pussy, “oh yeah, my mom says I have one of these and with this I can have as many of those as I want.” The little boy turned around and ran home crying.

You hold the power
Click to expand...

Is this your way of fishing for a pussy pic now? :D
 
shynerdgirl said:
Couldn't sleep, so ... (sorry for the lack of underwear but I tend not to wear 'em to bed).
Click to expand...
Probably everything useful I ever needed to know I learned from Dr. Seuss. I've seen all of the pictures you posted in this thread and two things come to mind:

"Today you are you; that is truer than true; there is no one alive who is youer than you."

and

"People who matter don't mind, and people who mind don't matter."

You look just fine to me. If you have a problem, it's negative self-image, not your physical form. Your self-image, just like every other aspect of attitude, is within your control. Everyone has moments of self-doubt and self-criticism. The key is not to embrace them, especially when they're holding you back in life, rather than propelling them forward. It's time to let them go, by embracing other thoughts and attitudes.

As to the perceptions of others, as the many comments in this thread have shown you, you're greatly exaggerating the negative ones, and likely imagining some. You're not a victim of others' standards but rather self-sabotaging yourself.

I offer this from the point of view of a man who is tiny in all the wrong ways, but in time I came to make the best use of what little I have.
 
Last edited by a moderator:
LinusRules said:
See, already things are looking better and better in a new light. You just needed to expose your titties to the world (of Lit...they frown on that at the grocery store)
Click to expand...

Lucky you for having small boobs. Lucky us for you sharing them.
 
shynerdgirl said:
More like unlucky you, but I appreciate the sentiment. :rose:
Click to expand...
I have questions for you that may help you with some of your insecurities.

I assume that you have some friends or work colleagues? I bet you don’t all like the same thing, if one of your work colleagues likes a blue dress I bet everyone doesn’t? Not everyone likes the same car, house, food etc.

You should realise that in life everyone has something different that they are attracted to for whatever reason, that is what makes us human, just because one person doesn’t like something or find it attractive that doesn’t mean it’s a blanket everyone hates it.

As someone who has often had issues around self consciousness either from a personal perspective or a work perspective it has taken me a while to be confident to have the “if you don’t like me then tough, someone out there does”attitude. It can be hard but trust me you will only feel better for it and have much more confidence in your life.

You should feel proud of your body, for sure there are not many people who love everything about there own body, ask anyone on here and anyone who says that they are is a liar.

Please do continue to share and you will be amazed at what it does for you and your self confidence


Here endeth the lesson for today ;)
 
Oh, sure, I get that - I really do - but it seems that the majority of people (even my own family and people who I thought were my friends) have hit me with certain things over the years.

It's great that there are so many different types of people here, but when you're insecure, shy, have low self-esteem - have been told that you don't matter, basically, because you aren't a typical pretty girl - you do start to internalise that. I wish it weren't the case but it is. :rolleyes:
 
shynerdgirl said:
Oh, sure, I get that - I really do - but it seems that the majority of people (even my own family and people who I thought were my friends) have hit me with certain things over the years.

It's great that there are so many different types of people here, but when you're insecure, shy, have low self-esteem - have been told that you don't matter, basically, because you aren't a typical pretty girl - you do start to internalise that. I wish it weren't the case but it is. :rolleyes:
Click to expand...

With family and friends like that, who needs enemies.
 
shynerdgirl said:
Oh, sure, I get that - I really do - but it seems that the majority of people (even my own family and people who I thought were my friends) have hit me with certain things over the years.

It's great that there are so many different types of people here, but when you're insecure, shy, have low self-esteem - have been told that you don't matter, basically, because you aren't a typical pretty girl - you do start to internalise that. I wish it weren't the case but it is. :rolleyes:
Click to expand...

Whilst it can be difficult to overcome what the people who only have negative things to say about you actually say this is your biggest barrier, are these people like this with everyone? Sometimes it is easier to look at that person and question them.

As you have said there are many different people here all of different shapes and sizes. Any guy will tell you for example that at some point in their life whether it was when they were 15 or 50 have had doubts about their size and comparisons to other men, but you know what it doesn’t matter 1 little bit when you have people who appreciate you for who and what you are, anyone who is shallow enough to judge you and dish out harsh opinions isn’t worth wasting oxygen on. As has already been posted on this thread I couldn’t put it better than this

“ People who matter don't mind, and people who mind don't matter."
 
shynerdgirl said:
Oh, sure, I get that - I really do - but it seems that the majority of people (even my own family and people who I thought were my friends) have hit me with certain things over the years.

It's great that there are so many different types of people here, but when you're insecure, shy, have low self-esteem - have been told that you don't matter, basically, because you aren't a typical pretty girl - you do start to internalise that. I wish it weren't the case but it is. :rolleyes:
Click to expand...

I hope the comments, messages and general appreciation here help to re-balance things at least a bit for you.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

HotCosmo
A maybe problematic scene
Replies
4
Views
258
cw5523729
C
S
A little post about my sexuality, dreams, desires and fears
Replies
11
Views
2K
Raybies93
R
SexuallyShy
I have never been so wet and wanted to indulge my lust so much.
2
Replies
36
Views
4K
HotWifeOC
H
ChloeTzang
"The Scent of Jasmine Tea - Tales from the Orient” - the 2026 Story Event Official Support Thread
2 3 4
Replies
82
Views
2K
Voboy
Voboy
T
Give me your thoughts about my take on tension building. And please teach me your way of doing it.
2
Replies
43
Views
2K
DeMont
DeMont
Back
Top