Guilty?

[Eilan]

Oh no, now I feel guilty for making you feel even more guilty as well feeling guilty for starting this thread.

Now I feel guilty for making you feel guilty for making me feel guilty. . .

Most of my guilty feelings are parenting-related.

I felt guilty for leaving my oldest child with my in-laws when I went back to work after she was born. I felt like I was imposing on them because they wouldn't hear of talking any money to care for her, and I felt like I was doing my child a disservice by not staying home with her.

Now that I'm home with the kids, I feel guilty about not working, even though I don't have to (or really want to) work.

I feel guilty because I think I treat my second child differently from the other three. My husband says I don't do this, but I think I do.

I feel guilty whenever I get some "mom time."

I occasionally feel guilty about intentionally spacing my two youngest children so closely together, like I robbed my third child of the opportunity to be the "baby."

I could continue, but I think I've made it pretty obvious that I have issues. And I haven't even gotten to the non-parenting stuff yet!

 

[Sarojaede]

Now I feel guilty for starting this thread.

don't make me hurt you for saying that.

[weakly swats quoll with a sheaf of paper]

 

[Quoll]

don't make me hurt you for saying that.

[weakly swats quoll with a sheaf of paper]

Owwie, it's ok SJ, please don't feel guilty for having to do that, I understand and it would make me feel awfully...



It was Cates comment about catholic guilt that made me start the thread, I overcame mine after seeing the lead line in an article in a catholic newspaper when I was twelve, it basically said that masturbation was ok, I had no need to read any further, and since that day I have been a right little wanker.

 

[bobsgirl]

Now I feel guilty for making you feel guilty for making me feel guilty. . .

Most of my guilty feelings are parenting-related.

I felt guilty for leaving my oldest child with my in-laws when I went back to work after she was born. I felt like I was imposing on them because they wouldn't hear of talking any money to care for her, and I felt like I was doing my child a disservice by not staying home with her.

Now that I'm home with the kids, I feel guilty about not working, even though I don't have to (or really want to) work.

I feel guilty because I think I treat my second child differently from the other three. My husband says I don't do this, but I think I do.

I feel guilty whenever get some "mom time."

I occasionally feel guilty about intentionally spacing my two youngest children so closely together, like I robbed my third child of the opportunity to be the "baby."

I could continue, but I think I've made it pretty obvious that I have issues. And I haven't even gotten to the non-parenting stuff yet!

I have huge guilt issues related to parenting. My youngest has been making some life decisions that are very self-destructive, and all I think is I must have failed him somewhere along the way. No joke--this is a real preoblem for me.

I almost didn't post in this thread. That's an indication of how guilty I feel.

 

[Sarojaede]

Owwie, it's ok SJ, please don't feel guilty for having to do that, I understand and it would make me feel awfully...

lol. quoll, there are somethings i don't feel quilty about; swatting you virtually with a sheaf of paper 'tis one of them.

It was Cates comment about catholic guilt that made me start the thread, I overcame mine after seeing the lead line in an article in a catholic newspaper when I was twelve, it basically said that masturbation was ok, I had no need to read any further, and since that day I have been a right little wanker.

i have no such thing as catholic guilt, but being raised a southern baptist brings it's own skewed sense of guilt with it.

 

[bobsgirl]

lol. quoll, there are somethings i don't feel quilty about; swatting you virtually with a sheaf of paper 'tis one of them.




i have no such thing as catholic guilt, but being raised a southern baptist brings it's own skewed sense of guilt with it.

Truer words were never spoken.

 

[Quoll]

Suffice it to say I have no religious guilt at all anymore, this was replaced with a burning hatred instead.


*quoll backs slowly out of the thread, we wont go there ok*

 

[pleasteasme]

I'm not sure where my guilt came from. I was not raised in a religious family at all!

I feel guilty over things I really shouldn't.

I generally over analyze things and think entirely too much.

I try to keep myself busy busy with everything and anything to avoid the down time to over think.

 

[Sarojaede]

Suffice it to say I have no religious guilt at all anymore, this was replaced with a burning hatred instead.


*quoll backs slowly out of the thread, we wont go there ok*

[pats quoll on the noggin]

no...no...we won't go there.

btw, it's good to see you posting here. i'm keeping you and the family in my thoughts.

 

[reddelicious]

I scratched my brother's car... some guilt, but admitted it!

Still stymied over my cheating issue... I need to find someone free and clear to have some fun with!

 

[Quoll]

[pats quoll on the noggin]

no...no...we won't go there.

btw, it's good to see you posting here. i'm keeping you and the family in my thoughts.

Oh great now I feel bad for not keeping up my post count.

Thanks, it's been a real boost to come here and read all the responses and suggestions.
Things are going relatively smoothly at the moment so all the good vibes must be helping.

 

[Texguy84]

Felt kinda bad about giving a full-body massage, making out with, and dry-humping the girlfriend of a friend of mine on the floor of my dorm room (the ground rules when we started making out was "No kissing, no bodily fluids", so being a man of my word, our pants stayed on. Though her shirt and bra certainly didn't )

I felt less guilty about it than I would have since her boyfriend had, a week or two earlier, badgered me to take a body shot of tequila out of her bra (I nearly choked on the shot glass, part of why I still don't quite like tequila to this day ). Felt a lot less guilty about it later when I realized what a prick the guy was. He did have an awesome DVD collection though (Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Babylon 5, Dune, the works. A shame he couldn't avoid SCRATCHING the damned things.)

Felt guilty because, well, I was raised to be a good Catholic boy, and I did consider the guy to be fairly cool at the time. Was also confusing cause the girl wasn't really (and still isn't) anything like what I normally consider good looking, though she had some very nice lips. I wasn't drunk or anything like that, she just had a tendency to smell absolutley irresistable. Also, it turns out she made very pleasant sounds under the right conditions.

 

[reddelicious]

I feel less guilty... I said no to the hot guy willing to fuck me with no strings...

Wait, why am I happy?

He had a girlfriend, he had a girlfriend *keeps repeating it to herself*

 

[Texguy84]

I feel less guilty... I said no to the hot guy willing to fuck me with no strings...

Wait, why am I happy?

He had a girlfriend, he had a girlfriend *keeps repeating it to herself*

Fucking you with no strings? Was Marionette sex the norm for this guy?

 

[Quoll]

Ok I really need to achieve something offline, it's starting to eat away at me now.

 

[reddelicious]

Fucking you with no strings? Was Marionette sex the norm for this guy?

*gets image in head of Marionette sex*

Why do I have a feeling we'd have to play a game of packed away Christmas tree lights to get untangled afterwards?

 

[lil_squirter]

Felt kinda bad about giving a full-body massage, making out with, and dry-humping the girlfriend of a friend of mine on the floor of my dorm room (the ground rules when we started making out was "No kissing, no bodily fluids", so being a man of my word, our pants stayed on. Though her shirt and bra certainly didn't )

I felt less guilty about it than I would have since her boyfriend had, a week or two earlier, badgered me to take a body shot of tequila out of her bra (I nearly choked on the shot glass, part of why I still don't quite like tequila to this day ). Felt a lot less guilty about it later when I realized what a prick the guy was. He did have an awesome DVD collection though (Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Babylon 5, Dune, the works. A shame he couldn't avoid SCRATCHING the damned things.)

Felt guilty because, well, I was raised to be a good Catholic boy, and I did consider the guy to be fairly cool at the time. Was also confusing cause the girl wasn't really (and still isn't) anything like what I normally consider good looking, though she had some very nice lips. I wasn't drunk or anything like that, she just had a tendency to smell absolutley irresistable. Also, it turns out she made very pleasant sounds under the right conditions.

Marry me????

 

[Texguy84]

Marry me????

Pffth, you gotta buy me dinner or give me a blowjob or at least get me really drunk before I can agree to that before I even get to know you!

 

[lil_squirter]

Pffth, you gotta buy me dinner or give me a blowjob or at least get me really drunk before I can agree to that before I even get to know you!

Hmmm getting to know me...blow job... *ponderponderponder* Both might take too long

I have season 5-9 of SG1, both seasons of the new BSG and Farscape on DVD.

 

[Texguy84]

Hmmm getting to know me...blow job... *ponderponderponder* Both might take too long

I have season 5-9 of SG1, both seasons of the new BSG and Farscape on DVD.

Marry me????

 

[Quoll]

Felt kinda bad about giving a full-body massage, making out with, and dry-humping the girlfriend of a friend of mine on the floor of my dorm room (the ground rules when we started making out was "No kissing, no bodily fluids", so being a man of my word, our pants stayed on. Though her shirt and bra certainly didn't )

I felt less guilty about it than I would have since her boyfriend had, a week or two earlier, badgered me to take a body shot of tequila out of her bra (I nearly choked on the shot glass, part of why I still don't quite like tequila to this day ). Felt a lot less guilty about it later when I realized what a prick the guy was. He did have an awesome DVD collection though (Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Babylon 5, Dune, the works. A shame he couldn't avoid SCRATCHING the damned things.)

Felt guilty because, well, I was raised to be a good Catholic boy, and I did consider the guy to be fairly cool at the time. Was also confusing cause the girl wasn't really (and still isn't) anything like what I normally consider good looking, though she had some very nice lips. I wasn't drunk or anything like that, she just had a tendency to smell absolutley irresistable. Also, it turns out she made very pleasant sounds under the right conditions.

I was going to say that's pretty cold dude, but that's a kickarse DVD collection.

 

[lil_squirter]

Marry me????

..are you good in bed? I forgot to ask that before. *buys the dress books the flights to vegas*

 

[Texguy84]

..are you good in bed? I forgot to ask that before. *buys the dress books the flights to vegas*

Dunno, my experience is extremely limited. Pretty much limited to dry humping the girl on the dorm room floor (because we started there when I was giving her the massage, it just never occured to us to move 5 feet over onto the bed until it was time for us to do the post-dry-hump cuddle and sleep thing).

I have been told by various cyber and phone partners that I have a VERY good imagination, so the theory is there, just not the practical experience.

 

[lil_squirter]

Dunno, my experience is extremely limited. Pretty much limited to dry humping the girl on the dorm room floor (because we started there when I was giving her the massage, it just never occured to us to move 5 feet over onto the bed until it was time for us to do the post-dry-hump cuddle and sleep thing).

I have been told by various cyber and phone partners that I have a VERY good imagination, so the theory is there, just not the practical experience.

Be happy to lend my opinion.

 

[AboutFace]

What do/did you feel guilty about?
Why do you think you feel that way?
Have you overcome your guilt? How?

Nice question.
I feel guilty about having an affair with someone that I met on another message board - and let it flow over into RL. I feel guilty that I fell for his "words" 100% - and letting it get to that point. (hell - on a PG13 board - he was extremely forward) The reason I feel guilty is because I honestly thought he was serious - and I also feel used.

I still haven't overcome my guilt because I haven't completely overcome "loving him" - even though the relationship is well over.

great question.