Guys, Gals, your feelings about / experience of COCKRINGS

[Lastknight42]

I have a silicone ring with clit nubs and space for a vib. Goes around shaft and balls. I have the wife put it on me. We both enjoy it.

 

[suckonsimon]

... All of the medical grade pump/cockring sets include instructions saying to not leave the cockring on for more than 30 minutes. ...

Useful for us all to know about those medical grade sets. I think it's equally useful for us all to know that the sort of cockrings designed for the pleasure of those who are well capable of getting erect are entirely different items. Most, especially the ones which most of us here are talking about which have an inner diameter to take a guy's balls through as well as his cock, don't squeeze. The 'no more than 30 minutes' instruction, so wise for the pump/cockring sets, simply does not apply, for instance, to a steel ring of inner diameter two inches or thereabouts. There are guys who wear that kind of ring more or less continuously, who would never dream of having a squeezing restricting shaft ring such as those medical grade ones that some fellas need to depend on, for even two minutes let alone 30.

We're talking of two entirely different kinds of equipment here, and confusion about what is healthy practice with each kind needs clarifying.

Me, I never ever put a ring of any kind on my shaft. I would hate that 'tourniquet' feel! Even the un-rolled part of a condom there is horrible! But a handsome bit of bling around my whole junk? totally different feel, both flaccid and erect.

 

[luckyseven]

Useful for us all to know about those medical grade sets. I think it's equally useful for us all to know that the sort of cockrings designed for the pleasure of those who are well capable of getting erect are entirely different items. Most, especially the ones which most of us here are talking about which have an inner diameter to take a guy's balls through as well as his cock, don't squeeze. The 'no more than 30 minutes' instruction, so wise for the pump/cockring sets, simply does not apply, for instance, to a steel ring of inner diameter two inches or thereabouts. There are guys who wear that kind of ring more or less continuously, who would never dream of having a squeezing restricting shaft ring such as those medical grade ones that some fellas need to depend on, for even two minutes let alone 30.

We're talking of two entirely different kinds of equipment here, and confusion about what is healthy practice with each kind needs clarifying.

Me, I never ever put a ring of any kind on my shaft. I would hate that 'tourniquet' feel! Even the un-rolled part of a condom there is horrible! But a handsome bit of bling around my whole junk? totally different feel, both flaccid and erect.

Good points well made. My 1.9 Inch Doughnut ring is really thick and feels nice and tight around my shaved cock and balls. It requires a little patience to put on - I slip my balls through one at a time first, but it's definitely worth the effort.

This ring has a good weight and it's very comfortable to wear for extended periods and sized just right to fit around my "full package" (cock and balls) without causing discomfort. It gives a heavy sensation when flaccid that just feels great, and the extra grip just keeps you going and going and going when hard.

My missus loves it when I'm all trussed up with this cock ring. It has the added bonus that due to the size of it the ring rubs up against her clit.

 

[suckonsimon]

... It has the added bonus that due to the size of it the ring rubs up against her clit.

I well remember the first time I fucked my woman while wearing the gearessentials 'Master' ring which is chunky stainless steel with a 'square' cross-section to the band of steel, corners just a little rounded for comfort. I was cautious about powerful full thrusts and about grinding when balls deep. But she wasn't! When she got to riding me it was crashes down onto it and wild rocking back and forth to get that steel edge doing magic on her clit and pussy lips while my thicker harder pleasure pole did its magic on the inside. Oh the O she built to!

 

[Nezhul]

You are indeed, but generalising about other people's experience is inappropriate.

Why not? Generalizing is as valid point of view as any other. You disagree - it's your problem. You get annoyed by it - guess what, it's still your problem.

The consensus is never found in banning certain opinions or forms of expression outright.

 

[suckonsimon]

Just bumping this to see if there are more guys and gals who want to vote. Might make some more comments if we get to x60 ...

 

[Wncbicouple]

Love to wear one when having sex. Silicon with a butt plug attachment. It gets my cock raging hard and my wife loves it.

 

[Olderthanthat]

A stretchy-cloth one--ha, made from products sold for use by women in braiding their hair!--does it for me.
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[Gotham_Central]

Discovered them just a couple of years ago, found I enjoy them greatly. I have yet to venture out wearing one.

 

[suckonsimon]

At 70 Votes some reflections by the OP

1583 hits on the thread and just 70 votes suggests to me that the very notion of cockrings is still well away from the mainstream of sexual experience. Am I right?

That said, 14 guys 'interested' and 5 women 'intrigued' tells a story perhaps.

As one of the just 7 out of 68 men who have voted the 'totally into ... for day wear and for sex' I'm see that I'm in a much smaller minority that I thought might be the case. And I wonder, if this poll was on the GLBT chatter board, would the balance of votes be quite different?

That biggest vote, 25 for 'sometimes for sex or solo play' begs a question I think: while gay guys who choose to wear a ring will I guess very easily share this with partners, is it a different story for hetero guys? Are they more likely to enjoy a ring sometimes when alone, while being reticent about wearing one with a woman, be her his SO or date? I confess it took me a few months to pluck up the courage to share my new-found delight in a steel ring with my wife. But, damn am I glad I did, as is she!

And ... thank you very much to the eight women who have participated in the poll.

Comments on my reflections, folks? ...

 

[rae121452]

my experience after years of having sex with guys who identify as both gay and straight is that it's mainly a gay thing. i was gifted my first one in the early 70's, at the time it was mainly a thing in the leather community. i've worn one in public before. i've had all kinds made from different materials. i had a really great one made from leather and velcro that was adjustable, i gave it to a friend after i fucked him. right now, i have a collection of metal ones that i like and one rubber one. something i've noticed as i've gotten older is that i've had to go to a larger size a couple of times, i can't wear my original one which i still have.
it's amazing what you can find to use as a cock ring with a little imagination. i've gotten o rings in the hardware store, pet collars, large rubber bands that come around fresh produce, hair bands, bracelets. if i can get it around my cock and balls, i'll give it a go.
while they work well for me during sex, they're not real great for cumming. i don't shoot as much and it isn't as satisfying. lots of times i wind up with achy balls afterward. but my erection is always bigger and harder and more sensitive.
something that i've noticed over the years is that it always seems to be guys who identify as straight who wear a ring just around their cock shaft. i don't know if that's always true, its just been my experience.
and, i've also had partners who prefer i wear one. one guy several years ago would always specify that i wear a certain black rubber one to fuck him.

 

[MatureSensualBottom]

My experience as a bisexual guy is that I wear mine with my gay lover as does he, I agree with the previous contributor that it seems to be more of a gay thing...

 

[PEAKER44]

Most days I wear a glans ring, have used the rubber/stretchy cock rings in the past.

 

[pumperguy191]

I wear a heavy steel ring daily. longest has been 36 hours straight. no issues. most times I wear it during sex as well

 

[suckonsimon]

I wear a heavy steel ring daily. longest has been 36 hours straight. no issues. most times I wear it during sex as well

Yey! Pumper. At last the 'totally into' vote jumps from 7 to 8

 

[ADIDAS00]

All this talk of rings has me wanting to wear mine. I may just have to put it on tomorrow for some solo play. It's steel and fits nicely so I do enjoy it when I wear it. I may even leave it on for the day and sport it around

 

[jackstud]

good idea

 

[suckonsimon]

All this talk of rings has me wanting to wear mine. I may just have to put it on tomorrow for some solo play. It's steel and fits nicely so I do enjoy it when I wear it. I may even leave it on for the day and sport it around

A guy with your arousal factor, be prepared for not only the balls bulge but also a man-meat line as you 'sport it around'!

 

[Beachsyrf]

I've been asked for photographic proof that I am not a "shower" only .... this seems like a suitable place to put this ....

 

[ilovetoeat42]

Cock rings are a lot of fun! Sadly my wife threw mine away because they didn't do anything for her

 

[Britva415]

Cock rings are a lot of fun! Sadly my wife threw mine away because they didn't do anything for her

the fuck

That isn't sad, that's psychological abuse.

Is "didn't do anything for her" code for somehow harming her or making sex unpleasant for her? Or was she just jealous you had something she couldn't pirate for her own pleasure?

 

[Beachsyrf]

the fuck

That isn't sad, that's psychological abuse.

Is "didn't do anything for her" code for somehow harming her or making sex unpleasant for her? Or was she just jealous you had something she couldn't pirate for her own pleasure?

I'd have to agree .... her tossing out something of yours, that you went to the time, effort and expense to buy & have .... if my gf chucked my Mickey Mantle baseball card or Joe Montana-signed helmet, we'd have problems ....

 

[ilovetoeat42]

the fuck

That isn't sad, that's psychological abuse.

Is "didn't do anything for her" code for somehow harming her or making sex unpleasant for her? Or was she just jealous you had something she couldn't pirate for her own pleasure?

Probably both

 

[Leslie51]

I've been asked for photographic proof that I am not a "shower" only .... this seems like a suitable place to put this ....

Love the way it enhances your balls. I sometimes put one around my balls. Love how it makes them stand out.

 

[Leslie51]

Worn this all day a few times
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Would love to be able to see up close in person!