Guys, what makes a girl a good lay?

Hoping I'm some good pussy

I have often wondered that myself. I definitely want my bf to utterly enjoy fucking me. Before him, my attitude was if a guy was going to be telling all his friends how he had gotten into my panties, at least try to assure that he would also be telling them what good pussy I am.

Any all cases I try to show great enthusiasm of how much I’m enjoying having that cock in me. I try to show how I’m aching to be fucked senseless.

If I’m on top riding his cock is when I’m able to get the most physical. I know the guys really enjoy seeing me climb aboard their love pole, then seeing my pussy stretching open to accommodate it as I lower myself onto it, eventually taking its full length up inside me. Sometimes I’ll be on my knees while riding him, or I may be squatting on his cock. As I’m going up and down on him I’ll vary the speed, sometimes slow and sensual, and then speed up to a frantic pace, bouncing up and down as quickly as I can. Then I’ll sink down on him completely, fully impaling myself on him. Then I’ll begin grinding my pussy around the base of his cock, grinding my clit against his pubic bone. At the same time I’ll be squeezing and releasing my pussy muscles, giving him the pleasure of feeling my pussy caressing the full length of his cock. Most of the times I’ll be looking into his eyes, trying to give him my best ‘Fuck me’ look. All the time, I think he’s enjoying watching me pleasure myself on his hard cock.

Most often my bf and I are in a missionary type position, which happens to my favorite. I really prefer being the submissive one. Being on my back, pinned beneath his weight allows me that wonderful sensation of being totally dominated by his masculinity. However, being pinned beneath him like that can really restrict my movements. It can make it hard for me when I’m trying to meet each of his thrusts with an upward one of my own. I can open my legs as widely as I can and pull them high up alongside him. At the same time I can arch my pelvis up slightly and make my pussy as vulnerable as possible so he can fuck me as deeply as he can. I can also writhe beneath him to an extent. Often I’ll have hold of his hips, trying to pull myself up onto his cock with each of his downward thrusts. Those are some of the physical means which I use to try to show him how much I’m enjoying having him fucking me, and how much I want it.

I find it very easy to just surrender myself to him completely, allowing myself to me totally mastered by his cock. I think that is part of which makes it easier to cum while being fucked. When I start having those multiple orgasms I like knowing that he’s able to recognize my waning coherence each time he makes me cum. I want him to have that manly satisfaction that he is indeed fucking me senseless.

Too, I’m often verbal. I’m frequently urging him on. ‘Yes…yes…yes…fuck me…fuck me. Give me that cock. Give it to me as deep as you can. Just fuck me.’ The words may vary, but I’m definitely trying to let him know how I so need to be fucked. When I can feel he’s nearing his release, I’ll urge him on then as well. ‘Cum in me…cum in me…shoot your hot cum deep inside me.’

Hopefully things like that has him thinking I’m some good pussy. Maybe it’s what has him wanting to take me to bed often, fuck my brains out, and then pump me full of cum.
 
I was having drinks with a few girlfriends last night. All of us have been told we're great lays, and we ended up talking about what guys like best about each of us and what we think they mean by us being great lays. So I thought I would see what people say here. What makes a girl a great lay in your opinion?

Sike. Nice anecdote. Translation: you have no idea, let's find out.
 
I was having drinks with a few girlfriends last night. All of us have been told we're great lays, and we ended up talking about what guys like best about each of us and what we think they mean by us being great lays. So I thought I would see what people say here. What makes a girl a great lay in your opinion?

Desire, enthusiasm and being open minded
 
Personally for me it's being willing to try new things and open to things that may seem taboo
 
Confidence in herself, her body, her mind, her sexuality.

A woman who both wants to please but also wants to be pleased and is willing to do or say what is needed for that to happen=sex GODDESS.
 
for me it is a womans self confidence. knowing her body comfortable with it. comfortable giving of herself and also accepting pleasure. no hang-ups able to relaxz let herself go...enjoying....
 
I was having drinks with a few girlfriends last night. All of us have been told we're great lays, and we ended up talking about what guys like best about each of us and what we think they mean by us being great lays. So I thought I would see what people say here. What makes a girl a great lay in your opinion?

Moaning, slowly, saying nice cock, baby fill me up, OOH so good, just encouragement so we feel like we are important.
 
The kind of girl that always makes remarks and asks for more. Very enthusiastic and into it and loves the intimacy of it like kissing.

"Don't stop!", "Keep going!", "Harder!", "Make me cum again!" are a few examples.
 
From my experience, I'd rank the attributes of a good sex partner in this order:

1) Love: I've had pretty intense sex with women I barely know and possess the other attributes I'm about to list--but the most mind-blowingly great sex with a person you don't love is always go to pale in comparison to even a so-so night with a person you love. Great sex with those people approaches something like a religious experience.

2) Enthusiasm: Nothing is hotter than a person who is game and in the moment.

3) Charity/selflessness: I think a good romantic partner and a good sex partner prioritizes your needs. Ideally, you, in turn, do this for her and every body is happy.

4) Confidence: Sexiness and confidence are kind of synonymous to me. Few people are as critical of others as they are of themselves and self-confidence can overcome many negatives, enhance the positives, and contribute charitably to the atmosphere.

5) Kinkiness/craziness: There is just something exciting about a person who surprises you in bed.
 
I have often wondered that myself. I definitely want my bf to utterly enjoy fucking me. Before him, my attitude was if a guy was going to be telling all his friends how he had gotten into my panties, at least try to assure that he would also be telling them what good pussy I am.

Any all cases I try to show great enthusiasm of how much I’m enjoying having that cock in me. I try to show how I’m aching to be fucked senseless.

If I’m on top riding his cock is when I’m able to get the most physical. I know the guys really enjoy seeing me climb aboard their love pole, then seeing my pussy stretching open to accommodate it as I lower myself onto it, eventually taking its full length up inside me. Sometimes I’ll be on my knees while riding him, or I may be squatting on his cock. As I’m going up and down on him I’ll vary the speed, sometimes slow and sensual, and then speed up to a frantic pace, bouncing up and down as quickly as I can. Then I’ll sink down on him completely, fully impaling myself on him. Then I’ll begin grinding my pussy around the base of his cock, grinding my clit against his pubic bone. At the same time I’ll be squeezing and releasing my pussy muscles, giving him the pleasure of feeling my pussy caressing the full length of his cock. Most of the times I’ll be looking into his eyes, trying to give him my best ‘Fuck me’ look. All the time, I think he’s enjoying watching me pleasure myself on his hard cock.

Most often my bf and I are in a missionary type position, which happens to my favorite. I really prefer being the submissive one. Being on my back, pinned beneath his weight allows me that wonderful sensation of being totally dominated by his masculinity. However, being pinned beneath him like that can really restrict my movements. It can make it hard for me when I’m trying to meet each of his thrusts with an upward one of my own. I can open my legs as widely as I can and pull them high up alongside him. At the same time I can arch my pelvis up slightly and make my pussy as vulnerable as possible so he can fuck me as deeply as he can. I can also writhe beneath him to an extent. Often I’ll have hold of his hips, trying to pull myself up onto his cock with each of his downward thrusts. Those are some of the physical means which I use to try to show him how much I’m enjoying having him fucking me, and how much I want it.

I find it very easy to just surrender myself to him completely, allowing myself to me totally mastered by his cock. I think that is part of which makes it easier to cum while being fucked. When I start having those multiple orgasms I like knowing that he’s able to recognize my waning coherence each time he makes me cum. I want him to have that manly satisfaction that he is indeed fucking me senseless.

Too, I’m often verbal. I’m frequently urging him on. ‘Yes…yes…yes…fuck me…fuck me. Give me that cock. Give it to me as deep as you can. Just fuck me.’ The words may vary, but I’m definitely trying to let him know how I so need to be fucked. When I can feel he’s nearing his release, I’ll urge him on then as well. ‘Cum in me…cum in me…shoot your hot cum deep inside me.’

Hopefully things like that has him thinking I’m some good pussy. Maybe it’s what has him wanting to take me to bed often, fuck my brains out, and then pump me full of cum.

What she ^^^ said!
 
Really being in to it, and willing to try new things. And not acting like they are doing you a favor.
 
Willing to do it all, anal, oral, etc. with me and all my CD friends and their wives and GF's.
 
This is a great thread..............

And it deserves more than a one sentence response as it encompasses both physical and mental aspects. I will answer as honestly as I can soon.

UBW
 
Guys have told me that my enthusiasm and obvious pleasure is hot for them.
 
1. Enthusiasm
2. Willingness to try new things (ideas, positions)
3. Vocal (talking dirty, moaning loudly, etc)
 
I work with mostly men, most of my friends are guys, and I relate better to men on most levels. The one thing I hear the most is wanting to be wanted. Men want to know you want them. Call it enthusiasm, call it attraction, call it ripping his clothes off and dragging him to bed... Women know when a man wants them, y'all don't hide that shit real well. But for a man to call a woman a great lay, I think it's lust and all that comes with it. Being an active participant in your sexual game definitely makes a woman a great lay. I've been with a few women, and the best times were women who were into it. The ones who were so nervous and never loosened up never got to play with me.
 
I guess all comes down to that mental connection. Being with someone with total comfort and trust, the rest physical interaction would naturally efforlessly - that's what make a great lay after all.
 
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