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AvaAdore said:I really wanted to give blood, but because my bf has had sex with another guy (though unwillingly), they won't let me give blood. Nevermind that he was tested and is completely clean.
Yes, because I've slept with someone who's slept with someone [etc], I can't give blood. What about women who have had anal sex? They are just as likely to get infections, and that's not on the questionaire.
A Desert Rose said:I am president of a community service/civic club in my community. One of our biggest events are the blood drives we sponser. Being a former nurse too, I can't impress enough what a gift it is to donate.
If you can, when you can, you should do so.
Rose
What a straight line.Miss Diva said:ADR I have a question. I stopped donating blood because the nurses could never get to my veins. I was once pricked about a dozen times (six times each are) before they found a good vein. After that I said no more!!
Even when I go for blood tests my vein collapses before they get enough.
So what can I do. I would love to give blood but being poked a dozen times is not my idea of fun filled afternoon.
thanks
AngelicAssassin said:What a straight line.
Why thank you ...Miss Diva said:OH you are the witty one tonight.
Do you have rollers or just ones that collapse?Miss Diva said:No I remember I went back to the office with bandaids all over my arms...it was amusing...NOT.
AngelicAssassin said:Why thank you ...Do you have rollers or just ones that collapse?
Backs of the knees, inner thigh (maybe), back of hand (common, but painful as hell and liable to collapse if you already have a problem), or anywhere else the skin is thin. i'm trying to think of body areas with major circulatory system close to the surface that won't make the Red Cross phlebotomist faint dead away from embarrassment.Miss Diva said:Mine collapse before they can get what they need...
hehehe, my mother is a labrotory technician I hear about this all the time, let me explain:Never said:Ebonyfire, I don’t know how kind hearted I really am. I enjoy helping others but as friends go, I suck big time.
Rubyfruit, I live to serve and I serve to live.
Marquis, I like the Red Cross but I think some of their rules are arbitrary. If you’re a man and have slept with another man, you can’t give blood, period. That’s just insulting. In addition, I seriously don’t understand why someone who lived in England for three months when they were eight can’t give blood as a twenty one year old. I understand that some groups are at a higher risk than others but turning away a potential donor simply because they might have a disease is foolish. Most people who give blood are willing to do so on a regular basis, turning away one person could be turning away a hundred pints of blood.
ShyGuy, Yeah, that’s always unfortunate. At our college, we have quite a few students turned down because just were pierced. Again, they test the blood anyway so I don’t know why they have these regulations. Is someone who had a piercing two months ago really that more likely to be infected than someone who had unprotected sex two days ago?
Debbiexxx, heya sweets.
Yes, Blue, I’m crazy, but I’m relatively harmless and that’s all that matter. Thank you for donating!
Never said:I had the most amazing experience.
Yesterday, I met this very attractive woman. To make a short story short, I ended up strapped down in this huge chair while she stuck a needle in my arm and removed about a pint of blood.
It lasted for 30 minutes, hurt like hell, and was completely free!
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I give blood as often as they'll allow here (I think it's every 56 days) and if it hurt like Hell, they did something wrong. I've donated several times and the worst I've experienced is a bit of discomfort. At any rate, keep up the charitable work.