Have you changed your appearance for your S/O?

[humbledoll]

I had a breast reduction. He also prefers me without pubic hair so he shaves me weekly.

 

[satindesire]

I had a breast reduction. He also prefers me without pubic hair so he shaves me weekly.

Ooh, a breast reduction? How was that?

 

[Chicklet]

I started using a hair spray because my former top wanted me to look my best. he chose new shampoo, new conditioner, and hair spray that i still use.

I also started shaving completely for him, but now I prefer to wax. I'm a little low on funds, but keep getting it done professionally because my current Dom loves it.

My current Dom made a request to see me in makeup, and so I wear it for him on extremely rare occasions now.

 

[EmpressFi]

I had a breast reduction. He also prefers me without pubic hair so he shaves me weekly.

I dont know that I could undergo surgery because someone wanted me to... for myself, yeah... but not for a dominant

 

[Fuckette]

My dom likes to role play and I will wear whatever he feels "fits"
the part in public.

 

[twysted73]

Grew a goatee, grew out hair, (ex-military, I like to keep it short)
Otherwise, no.
I can't suffer jealous natures. It's cute to the point that it becomes seriously harmful to their trust in me. Then it's nolonger fun and the shit needs to stop.

Oh...she can request. If she earns enough GoodGirl Points, she can add that to the list of choices.

But if I change anything, I'll do it because it simply needs to be done.

 

[humbledoll]

Ooh, a breast reduction? How was that?

The worst part for me was when they removed the drains the next day. One of them was a little stuck so that really hurt. Other than that the pain overall wasn't nearly as bad as I feared it would be. (And I'm not a painslut what so ever). I really disliked seeing staples in my most sensitive bodyparts though and I had to count till 5 before I dared to look down when the bandages came off the first time. I'm a wuss when it comes to that.

But I'm very happy that I did it and I've never regretted it.

 

[humbledoll]

I dont know that I could undergo surgery because someone wanted me to... for myself, yeah... but not for a dominant

I guess that's just a part of our dynamics. For us it was another way to emphasize that my body belongs to him.

I'm very happy with them though, especially when I look at pictures of how they were before the surgery. I've honestly never felt a single second of regret.

 

[Marquis]

I lost weight so an SO wouldn't leave me once.

She still left.

 

[snowbyte]

My pyl and I went on our own weightloss program together. We both lost 20lbs strictly on diet modifications. Things have stalled so an exercise regimen is in the near future. For both of us it is primarily for health reasons, but our D/s relationship has helped to keep her focused. She has made other changes which she can bring up if she likes. Those were primarily focused around bring out her more feminine side. No tats or brands yet

 

[Shadow Thief]

Mine has told me not to change my appearance, particularly my long hair. She loves to stroke it, run her fingers thru it, and of course, yank on it.

She said that if I ever cut my hair short, she'd cry.

 

[ecstaticsub]

My husband likes clean shaven or a landing strip. My Daddy likes a full bush, so that's the way I keep it. He also likes me with long blond hair. So I keep it colored and have been working on growing it long for the past three years. I get my nails done and my toes and feet get regular pedicures.

I did have a tummy tuck a few months after I met Daddy. But he didn't ask me to do it. I had been wanting one for years and years and had been saving up for ages also. When I finally lost all the weight I had been working on I had it done. I was extremely nervous about telling him what I was planning to do. He told me he thought I didn't need one but if it made me feel better then it was up to me. He was very concerned about the safety of the procedure.

 

[EmpressFi]

I am lucky in that both Master and Malin prefer me to be shaved and to have long hair... and both love me as I am now. However I have their complete support in whatever changes I do make...

 

[gingermango]

I have been required to wear panties every day for my Goddess; she has also had me have my nipples and ears pierced, had me tattooed with her chosen symbol, and has me shave my legs, chest and armpits for her year-round (so I cannot hide it during warm weather months when I must wear shorts).

I have been firmly taken into Her custody and I am content.

 

[satindesire]

Just got a haircut, Just got a haircut!

Five inches of my hair that I will never need again. Whoo!

 

[her_soffie]

My Mistress has most recently had me start applying nail polish, and wear panties. i am very excited about the transformation she has started me on. She is very aware of the limitations which are placed on me by my vanilla life, which makes me all the more eager to please her.

 

[Shadow Thief]

had me tattooed with her chosen symbol

That reminds me of something I completely forgot -- She'd love for me to get a tattoo on my ass that says "Property of Mistress *******."

Unfortunately, since I'm married, she can't even mark me up, let alone have me get a tattoo.

 

[EmpressFi]

That reminds me of something I completely forgot -- She'd love for me to get a tattoo on my ass that says "Property of Mistress *******."

Unfortunately, since I'm married, she can't even mark me up, let alone have me get a tattoo.

It is a request your spouse made? I'm glad that the only request my husband has made is that he doesnt want to see Master slap me because even though his brain knows that it's something I'm ok with.. he doesnt know that he could control the gorilla reaction.

 

[Anne_Prospere]

i want to lose weight again for my s.o. Ive been having SO MUCH trouble with that. Taking birth control isnt helping with that either.

I've tamed my wardrobe for my s.o. i used to spend a lot of money on clothes and i rarely shop anymore, ive also tamed down the type of clothing I wore (im a strange dresser with a taste for haute couture)
I've donned serious stripper slut gear for them (well him really, i dont know if she cares about that lol)
and i havent gotten any tattoos or piercings that he hasnt done for me, and lord knows i want them.

 

[madetotakeit]

Although he didn't request it, my ex went through a phase where he mentioned he liked short hair on women. I surprised him returning from break with short hair for the first time in my life. I eventually grew to have a lot of fun with it, but the only reason I did it was to please him. (A_P when I saw you in Miami I momentarily considered cutting it again. I used to wear mine just like yours and missed how much fun it was.)

Any other changes over the years have been for me.

 

[Anne_Prospere]

Although he didn't request it, my ex went through a phase where he mentioned he liked short hair on women. I surprised him returning from break with short hair for the first time in my life. I eventually grew to have a lot of fun with it, but the only reason I did it was to please him. (A_P when I saw you in Miami I momentarily considered cutting it again. I used to wear mine just like yours and missed how much fun it was.)

Any other changes over the years have been for me.

we should do it together
its way more fun to get bad ass haircuts with someone else

 

[coastal-boy]

I tend to encourage what's there rather than change what's not - if that makes any sense.

I like the way you think. It is about appreciation...not molding someone into the image of another.

 

[gingermango]

I like the way you think. It is about appreciation...not molding someone into the image of another.

Don't be so quick to judge. For some of us, perhaps a great many of us, that appreciation is the encouragement we need to express our true selves. The external changes we make (whether "ordered" to do so by a caring dominant or because we make them entirely on our own) are merely external affirmations of who we really are and who we wish to be.

 

[coastal-boy]

Don't be so quick to judge. For some of us, perhaps a great many of us, that appreciation is the encouragement we need to express our true selves. The external changes we make (whether "ordered" to do so by a caring dominant or because we make them entirely on our own) are merely external affirmations of who we really are and who we wish to be.

oh no..that isnt at all what I was trying to say. This is what popped in my head when I read this thread. I have an acquaintance who has demanded the same changes from all of his subs/gfs. If you took a pic of each of them and posted them side by side, and then pull out a pic of his first wife...you would see what I was refering to. Why make someone else into the person that left you?

 

[pink]

i've not had to change anything at this point but i will when asked to.