Have you ever faked an orgasm?

[LipstickKitten]

Thank you for sharing that, Guido. Many times when I had faked an orgasm, I wound up crying, unable to explain to my partner why. Never again.

 

[GuidoMustache]

Kitten is most often the emotional release that comes with making lvoe that helps us out more than the release of energy. I am sigle again as of last week, and quite sad that all this pent up energy is going to waste

 

[LipstickKitten]

Oh, Guido, I'm so sorry. Let us help you any way we can.

 

[SexySlut2]

My thoughts exactly...

Yes I am much like the other ladies here. I used to fake them to make the man I was with feel like he had satisfied me. It ended in nothing but frustration for me.

Now that I am older, wiser and much more experienced, if a man does not give me an orgasm then I make sure I tell him he didn't and ask him to. I am also comfortable enough to give myself one in his company if he is not up to the challenge. I'm sure if a man didn't cum he would ask! LOL

I believe that as we get older and more comfortable with ourselves and sex we can be much more open and satisfied.

Never settle for less than what you really want and need!

Hugs

Secretluv

I hve to totally agree with this comment!

~Sexy~

 

[wetkitten]

Yes, I've faked before too. Not for a long time though, before I got married. Oops, once during marriage, but not with hubby. He's let me have other guys a few times and the last guy was so small I couldn't feel him. He was so excited, I just didn't have the heart to tell him I didn't get off.

 

[Falkieri]

I have faked orgasms in the past, because for me it is very difficult to have one without very intense stimulation at the base, not something you really can get with anything other than fingers. It didn't diminish things for me, though, because I am satisfied more by how the women I am with is feeling and reacting to what I'm doing than by cumming. I have alot of mental orgasms during lovemaking. It seems that while the pressure to orgasm lasts for roughly the first 30 minutes or so (not that I've ever looked at the clock, just guessing) after that, I don't really need the release. It is welcome if it happens, don't mistake me. So, I guess I'm weird...lol...

 

[LipstickKitten]

Not weird at all, Falkieri. Thanks for your post.

 

[MIKEYLICKEY]

Male Faker-true story

Usually I am the first one to cum but this was bad. I had just spent a coupla hours playing tackle football with no equipment outside my college dorm. I was beat. I hadn't had sex in awhile (with someone else LOL) because I had broken up with my fiance six months before. She was a bitch from hell who claimed to be a virgin but she was just holding back so that I would marry her. She was about a 9 1/2, though, lookswise, like Pam Anderson with normal size tits.

Anyway, I had just crashed my beat-up body on my skinny dorm bed when she calls. "I'm downstairs, I just got in town. Do you wanna fool around?" Do I WANNA FOOL AROUND? IS SHE FUCKIN CRAZY?? I'M DYIN' HERE!!! Of course I said "Sure, Baby, I'll be right down to get you!"

Of course she was looking hot and smelling good and we couldn't get our clothes off fast enough. I jumped her bones with no preliminaries and started banging her into my skinny dorm bed. I opened my eyes and caught her looking bored. She was trying to untangle her long blonde hair from the bedspring, while I did my best to fuck her lovely pussy right THROUGH the bed.

I thought "What the fuck am I doing here with this bitch who ruined my life?" I was so bone tired I was actually numb, so I had to fake it. I went like Meg Ryan, then pulled out.

Did she know? Probably. Did I care? Fuck No!

She called a coupla years later when her boyfriend was out of town, and I fucked both of our brains out! Then the dumb bitch TOLD HIM!

I'm sure glad I didn't MARRY her!

 

[paphian]

Faked it?

Yep. Not often, but there have been times.

Sometimes I'm a bit priapic. When it happens, I get hard, stay that way and it takes a long, long while to cum. Some women are more than a little finished before me under those circumstances. If I can see that she's pretty well done, I have faked it sometimes just to please her.

It really doesn't matter to me when that happens. I've always been *way* more pleased by giving her pleasure than my own brief spurt. After all, I'm a guy, and for us, it's always, cum easy, cum often So if my partner is being pleased by what we're doing, and I'm having one of those priapic sorta days, it's OK.

I do generally tell new lovers about this in advance, though. It's much better to be honest and up-front and save hurt feelings. It really has nothing to do with any specific lover or how much I'm enjoying sex. It's just some physiological sort of thing.

 

[meop79]

Yes I did... It's not something I will ever have to do again because it was something that proved I was in a relationship where I couldn't talk or be honest with my partner...

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[LipstickKitten]

Yes I did... It's not something I will ever have to do again because it was something that proved I was in a relationship where I couldn't talk or be honest with my partner...

Meop79@yahoo.com

Very good point, meop. See, I knew I like you for more than your looks.

 

[ImNoGoodGurl]

I have faked a lot.... don't want my man to feel like he doesnt do a good job...... you know? but when i do have one it is really good.