have you ever fantasized about being locked in a cock cage

[policywank]

I have never tried one, but you make me want to try

Lol. The key is to understand that it is not a means to punish or deny. It is a way to redirect a man's sexual energy and to take control of it. I cage him because I want him not to reject him.

 

[policywank]

It's definitely stopped me from constantly masturbating. I'm much more productive and my imagination has started working again.

And I like the feeling. A LOT. I leak and it's tasty.

Of course it does. That is just your pleasure overflowing a bit.

 

[CuriousRick]

Lol. The key is to understand that it is not a means to punish or deny. It is a way to redirect a man's sexual energy and to take control of it. I cage him because I want him not to reject him.

I am wanting to learn more about my submissive side. I always thought if it as more of a punishment way to give up control. I can see it being more of a tool

 

[policywank]

I am wanting to learn more about my submissive side. I always thought if it as more of a punishment way to give up control. I can see it being more of a tool

Context is key. A bottom in a BDSM scenario gets spanked as a punishment for something. But it is clear that he wanted to be spanked so it isn't literal punishment.

Likewise I wouldn't put a cock cage on a man who is vehemently against it and literally force him into submission. He may be a bit pensive but ultimately he is onside with what we are doing.

It is a fine line of distinction but a submissive needs to be led, not forced. He might need an extra push and he may naturally resist a bit, but he shouldn't be forced against his will.

 

[CuriousRick]

Context is key. A bottom in a BDSM scenario gets spanked as a punishment for something. But it is clear that he wanted to be spanked so it isn't literal punishment.

Likewise I wouldn't put a cock cage on a man who is vehemently against it and literally force him into submission. He may be a bit pensive but ultimately he is onside with what we are doing.

It is a fine line of distinction but a submissive needs to be led, not forced. He might need an extra push and he may naturally resist a bit, but if he shouldn't be forced against his will.

Thank you Ms for sharing your thoughts and philosophies with me.

 

[NancyPan]

It is a fine line of distinction but a submissive needs to be led, not forced.

I can attest that, for me, this is absolutely true. For me, it is a privilege to be led by a superior Woman.

He might need an extra push and he may naturally resist a bit,

Any resistance on my part to accepting my wife’s authority is related to old “tapes” in my mind about male stereotypes and expectations that I still need Her help to confront and give up to accept my place as a submissive.

 

[LilyField]

I can attest that, for me, this is absolutely true. For me, it is a privilege to be led by a superior Woman.

Any resistance on my part to accepting my wife’s authority is related to old “tapes” in my mind about male stereotypes and expectations that I still need Her help to confront and give up to accept my place as a submissive.

good advice

 

[policywank]

The cage can also be used as a means of showing a man that he is accepted and embraced as he is.

Men generally face unrealistic societal expectations regarding their sexual prowess. If you are not a stud in general you need to be the perfect fit for your monogamous partner and be all that she could ever want.

Nice sentiments, but they aren't realistic. Whether they admit it to themselves or not a lot of men know this and it is a source of insecurity and anxiety. The energy expended trying to be something that they are not or trying to convince themselves and others that they are is bad for them and it drives away women.

The cage can be a way of basically saying no you aren't the greatest lover in the world or even the best for me but you are accepted and embraced so accept yourself and stop trying to fool yourself otherwise.

I don't mean give up or anything like that. But we all have to accept who we are.

 

[NancyPan]

The cage can be a way of basically saying no you aren't the greatest lover in the world or even the best for me but you are accepted and embraced so accept yourself and stop trying to fool yourself otherwise.

I don't mean give up or anything like that. But we all have to accept who we are.

Although I am not locked in a chastity device, my orgasms are managed by my wife. I know that my penis does not satisfy her sexually and, thankfully, she has taught me how to do so with other methods. She uses my penis to reward me, but I have accepted that she does not need or want it for her pleasure.

 

[policywank]

Although I am not locked in a chastity device, my orgasms are managed by my wife. I know that my penis does not satisfy her sexually and, thankfully, she has taught me how to do so with other methods. She uses my penis to reward me, but I have accepted that she does not need or want it for her pleasure.

That is a good example of how accepting your reality is better for both of you.

If she can give you pleasure while being honest with what does/doesn't please her (i.e. not faking it to assuage your ego) she has created a win-win.

 

[SlutAddicted]

Although I am not locked in a chastity device, my orgasms are managed by my wife. I know that my penis does not satisfy her sexually and, thankfully, she has taught me how to do so with other methods. She uses my penis to reward me, but I have accepted that she does not need or want it for her pleasure.

One of the best things my wife ever did was to take control of my orgasms (she does keep my penis in a cage but that is just her method). That together with being honest with me about her sexual needs allowed her to take control of her orgasms as well. The resulting improvement in her sex life led directly to her being a more engaged and sexually satisfied partner who is enthusiastic about taking care of my sexual needs.

I think that when we hear of wives having lost interest in sex it isn't so much that they have lost interest overall, but that they have lost interest in the sex that is available to them. And that is often the result of not being able to be completely honest due to their husband's insecurities or need to be unrealistic about his sexual prowess. She is expected to subordinate her sexual needs to the accepted narrative that will support her husband.

A woman like your wife is told by society that size doesn't matter and it is up to her to convince herself of that and support you even if that means setting aside her own pleasure so that you can live in the delusion that your little dick gives her sexual pleasure. It is only logical that she will lose interest in sex with you if that is the way it has to be.

Controlling your orgasms is presumably not an absolute necessity to her being completely honest with you. But it does set the stage for her to feel empowered to assert her needs and more importantly for you to accept your reality so that resistance to doing so doesn't stand in the way of her embracing her sexual pleasure. Once you explicitly agree to cede control of your orgasms and submit to her, everything changes.

 

[NancyPan]

One of the best things my wife ever did was to take control of my orgasms (she does keep my penis in a cage but that is just her method). That together with being honest with me about her sexual needs allowed her to take control of her orgasms as well. The resulting improvement in her sex life led directly to her being a more engaged and sexually satisfied partner who is enthusiastic about taking care of my sexual needs.

This has been true for us, too. It all came about from my bringing up with her (for the 3rd time over a several year period — she refused the first two times) my desire for her to take control of our home, bedroom, and marriage.

I think that when we hear of wives having lost interest in sex it isn't so much that they have lost interest overall, but that they have lost interest in the sex that is available to them. And that is often the result of not being able to be completely honest due to their husband's insecurities or need to be unrealistic about his sexual prowess. She is expected to subordinate her sexual needs to the accepted narrative that will support her husband.

This may often be true. Her being in charge, at the very least, ensures that Her needs come first.

A woman like your wife is told by society that size doesn't matter and it is up to her to convince herself of that and support you even if that means setting aside her own pleasure so that you can live in the delusion that your little dick gives her sexual pleasure. It is only logical that she will lose interest in sex with you if that is the way it has to be.

Although my wife has an advanced degree and has had a successful career, She did not tell me that my penis was not satisfying to Her and how frustrated She was with my excited quick spurts until She told me that a condition of her taking control would be no more PIV sex for me. I would only orally satisfy Her and use Her vibrator.

Controlling your orgasms is presumably not an absolute necessity to her being completely honest with you. But it does set the stage for her to feel empowered to assert her needs and more importantly for you to accept your reality so that resistance to doing so doesn't stand in the way of her embracing her sexual pleasure. Once you explicitly agree to cede control of your orgasms and submit to her, everything changes.

Actually, I think orgasm management was and is necessary for this to work. I had to pledge to not ejaculate without permission. This meant no masturbation. To be totally dependent on Her for a release changes everything. She might orgasm multiple time over several weeks while She keeps me in a state of sustained denial and arousal. This is incredibly powerful. It keeps me focused on Her. Although we go about our day-to-day lives in every “routine” aspect, I can not look at Her without thinking about worshiping Her pussy. I obey Her and both of our lives are better for it!

 

[Goldenfinger]

Here’s to locktober 2024

 

[gregy70]

I havnt been locked for a long time but I find I’m craving to be but for me it’s the desire of the woman to want to control a man this way that is erotic to me

 

[swansong1]

https://78.media.tumblr.com/a8709ac8253982f4449711057e3b2e42/tumblr_o6ei56H3Dg1u70hm5o1_400.gif

Do rather like the smile she has as he falls - that aside from her nice heels.

Me too…

 

[9to5]

yes it begins I have been locked since last night.

 

[Jerryteroga]

men have you ever fantasized about being locked in a cock cage by a sexually dominant woman?


ladies have you ever fantasized about locking your man in a cock cage because


men who ejaculate more than three times every day become assertive and dominant and powerful.


this has been proven by many scientific studies.


the longer men are denied orgasm the more submissive and the more obedient and the more


respectful men become.


this has also been proven by many scientific studies.


By locking your man in a cock cage, you effectively control his ability to get sexual relief.


which means he is totally surrendering control to us ladies.


when feminists rule the world


the most effective cock cages will be compulsory for all men because


then all ladies will feel completely comfortable and safe walking around


totally naked whenever and wherever ladies choose


full nudity at all times and every place ladies will feel really safe


can you imagine that?


ladies just imagine the infinite choice of possible ways to


wickedly cock tease men when they are all locked in cock cages


and constantly kept at the highest state of sexual arousal


by being denied orgasm.


while we ladies innocently walk around


totally naked whenever and wherever ladies choose to be


fully nude at all times and every place ladies will feel really safe.


just imagine how desperate men will be to obey us ladies


and


just imagine how desperate men will be to pleasure us ladies.


and


just imagine how desperate men will be to stimulate


our clitorises and give us ladies the most powerful orgasms


we have ever had.


the sexual rewards of obedient submissive men who wear cock cages


and obey and respect all ladies will be beyond your wildest dreams.

I am often locked in a cock cage by my wife, i am pretty submissive and i do love being teased. Being in a cock very much does make me want to pleasure my wife enlessly licking her to orgasm over and over.
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[trevorness]

I was just reading a story with a husband being caged by his wife and it was quite stimulating.

 

[trevorness]

Now tormenting myself with chats and porns, unable to get hard.

 

[Richelieujuniour]

Never.

In fact I’ve always felt a little uneasy and bad for the men locked in them while I fucked their women in front of them.

Not enough to stop, mind you, but no desire to be in their place.

 

[ChuckWolf]

I always wondered what something like this would feel like.

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[Richelieujuniour]

I had to model a metal “cock ofnenty” and it was fucking painful!

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Often. But can’t find one that fits.

 

[9to5]

Often. But can’t find one that fits.

takes time and a lot of different styles. I find its the style and then the ring size that makes a big difference. the ring gap is what works for me.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

takes time and a lot of different styles. I find its the style and then the ring size that makes a big difference. the ring gap is what works for me.

I can’t find one that has a large enough base ring.