Heartbreak Hotel

[prettygrneyes]

so very true WILDROSE...

that is very true WILDROSE...I couldn't of said it any better...I hurt still thinking back to the times we shared together ,they were very special,but it only made me wiser and stronger.....I feel bad for the next guy...
I'm a survivor!!!!!!

 

[mayi]

Wildrose,

i agree, no love is a true loss, it is a learning experience. i was looking for something, but didn't know what it was. now i have a very good idea. for that i am thankful. i will always feel blessed that i knew him, even if it was for a short time. and i will always look back on our e-mail and smile at what we wrote. and i will always love him for being there when i needed him and for falling in love with me when i needed to feel speical. i only wish him the best in his choice and that he gets all he wants from life.

mayi

 

[wildrose70]

If there is one thing I have learned after being married for 49 year and raising 4 kids and 9 grandkids and having the courage to go out on my own....after all that time...

Is that women are definately Survivors!!!!!!

 

[Blue Dolphin]

time to og

am leaving hh
guess all I am remembered for is my words. have been hurt too much
going to Michigan
bye mayi
no more
P

 

[Ladybird]

Re: time to og

am leaving hh
guess all I am remembered for is my words. have been hurt too much
going to Michigan
bye mayi
no more
P

...I sit here and silently weep for my friend..

 

[stunner311]

yes

sadly enough it seems a lot of us have loved and lost. although its never easy i have one thing that helps more than anything. as hard as it is be thankful for the time you did have together instead of wallering so to speak in the pity thats its over for whatever reason. hopefully this will help someone who is going through it now, i certainly hate to see anyone hurting. keep your head up despite wha you may think the sun will rise tomorrow and it will be a new day remember today is the first day of the rest of your life. oh well enough of the cliches but i do hope this helps.


stunner

 

[Sincerely]

A poem for all those who have checked into heartbreak hotel at one time or another.......

There is a place where the heart dwells as a stranger to hope.......
The heartbreak hotel.......
Where time stands as still as the waters on a dry humid night wishing to go on thru a dead sea.....but there is a solice........
To know that you will love again and send an eviction notice to your heart telling it to leave........
The heartbreak hotel.......
For what joy can come from you mourning your darkest hour and what hope can come from a night without comfort......but know this......the heart break hotel is not a permanent dwelling......more like a passing thru of your life on a journey to something far more grand......
That little house on the hill with your spouse if you will......ahh....hope is near
To see it is to live it and to dream it is to be it so why don't we all put up a for sale sign on......
The heartbreak hotel.........

 

[mayi]

Thank you stunner,

we are here to help each other.


Sincerely,
Thank you for the lovely poem.


mayi

 

[mayi]

Pleasureu

i don't consider you a lost love, because you are still here and i still love you.

I want you to keep writing your poems and telling me your thoughts.

mayi

 

[mayi]

another day, one more day with out a note, a hi, a good bye. wondering if having it all is worth it, or having nothing is better.

mayi

 

[twodogs]

Mayi

From past experence having it all does not always fill the heart a person can be mis led or take'n advantage of by thinking you got it all.
Now on the other hand when you got nothing you got everthing to look forward to , just a thought. TWO DOGS

 

[boneherhard]

lost love

mayi,

having beenin a relationship here at lit and recently having it end with thye two of us still as freinds was good. but i am not sure about having another relationship here at lit. maybe time will tell but for now i just wanna have a little time of from a regular relationship here ........

 

[mayi]

boneherhard

Hey bone, i heard about what happened, i am sorry. I know that we had our differences, but i really feel for you right now. If you need to talk about it i will be there for you. You will always be someone i consider a friend.

hugs
mayi

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Friends ARE important here too

SORRY TO HEAR WHEN ANY OF MY FRIENDS ARE HURTING.I HOPE EVERYONE KNOWS I WILL BE THERE WHENEVER ANY ONE NEEDS AN ARM,A SHOULDER OR AN EAR. FRIENDS ARE VERY VERY IMPORTANT TO OMAN

I keep checking on this thread and see so many of the "tubsters" at different stages of transition, and I share the pain and confusion you are experiencing.

The world, both in and out of LIT, can be a hard road to travel. Yet the journey is only made easier by sharing our load with friends. I have learned not to take anything for granted, and hope I can avoid "checking into" the heartbreak hotel as the days pass on. I share Oman's feelings on friendship, and hope that time will indeed make all our experiences (both good and bad) the foundation we need towards a happy and contented life.

 

[mayi]

Jenny

The day you check into the Heartbreak Hotel is the day I close the doors. You are the last person I want to see here for any help (other then giving us your wonderful words of wisdom). You have to remember that the difference between what you and omaha have and what most of the rest of us are going through, is that you are single and live a reasonable distance away. If i was single (i wouldn't be now), but it would have made a difference. I know distance can cause troubles, but my brother lived 22 hours (driving time) from his now wife and they made it work. I beleive that true love will work for all the right reasons.

Even though love was not the right thing in my case, i do so much hope that after time, we can be friends. He is a wonderful man and what he has to offer as a friend is just as good as what he had to offer as a lover, himself.

I am so glad i started this thread. i know it is not getting the visits i had hoped, it has helped me write out my thoughts. I do hope it will help others and not just tubbers.

mayi

 

[Blue Dolphin]

jenny

jenny
Dont youu dare ever check in here.
You and Oma are permanent
forever
The oracle has spoken

 

[Blue Dolphin]

I moved out

Just popped in as I was passin
take care y`all

 

[boneherhard]

thank you jenny

jenny,

thank you for your freindship it means so much to both of us what you and oman have is so special comes along once in a lifetime. take care

boneherhard

 

[prettygrneyes]

luv your nic....

hehehe ,luv your nic boneherhard,
hmmm that is such an interesting nic....LOL

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Re: thank you jenny

jenny,

thank you for your freindship it means so much to both of us what you and oman have is so special comes along once in a lifetime. take care

boneherhard

Tubsters do seem to stick together! Keep bumping this thread, Mayi, and others will follow (just keep looking at my LDR thread!)

Hope to see you post more now that you're "here" boner!

Thanks Mayi, boner and P, and of course my beloved Oman!

I'm not planning on a broken heart, but I don't think any of you were either! Just take each day and event as it comes. I think Oman and I will make it though! Thanks for your wishes (they always help!)

 

[boneherhard]

jenny

your welcome jenny

boneherhard

 

[mayi]

You are so right jenny, tubbers do stick together, and what a great group to stick to. I still want to see your omaha man, wish he would let me know when he is free for lunch again.

mayi

 

[mayi]

boneherhard

bone, anytime you want to talk, i am here to listen.

hugs
mayi

 

[daisyangel79]

My Beast...

I wouldn't say heartbreak, but I had a wonderful experience with someone and it didn't turn out the way I wanted it too. He ended up getting together with an old crush and I was left alone... Its ok, its a great memory...

 

[JennyOmanHill]

...I still want to see your omaha man, wish he would let me know when he is free for lunch again.

mayi

So do I, Mayi.... SO DO I!!!