Heartbreak Hotel

[JennyOmanHill]

Don't mean to hijack your thread, Mayi

I'll take that as a YES, darling!

 

[omahaman2]

 

[Ladybird]

Jenny and Oman..

.. it's so nice to watch you two play together..

and share in your love..

 

[QuickDuck]

*chuckle* it is pretty cool

 

[Blue Dolphin]

good to see

*******************

 

[mayi]

jenny and omaha, you are so welcome to take the site..........just to see you together is wonderful and makes me smile. This site is for the good.......not just the sad.

Even though I fould love and lost it does not mean I am sad..........i am happy for the time we sharied and he will always be there if i need him. But for now my family needs me and his family needs him. That is the biggest difference between the single crowd and the not single crowd.............love it there.

Thanks for the morning smile.

CONRGADS LB...........you deserve it.

mayi

 

[Guest]

You are good friend also mayi....and yes LB we did have some good times in the tub...*W* ..... talk with ya'll again soon
hugs and kisses to all my friends,
JT

 

[Guest]

LB i forgot to congratulate you ..i'm sorry..CONGRATULATIONS
Let's hope all works out for you
JT

 

[Ladybird]

Thanks JT.. I really appreciate that..

... you're a real sweetie, but then.. I've always known that.

 

[mayi]

Okay, marking LB off the hotel registery. I will have to start advertising for rooms available soon.

JT, you need to register and become one of us.

mayi

 

[Blue Dolphin]

RTegistry

**************************

 

[mayi]

good night all, hope your dreams come true.

mayi

 

[LovetoGiveRoses]

Hi y'all.

I haven't been in the hot tub for a long time. If I'd as known it was as much fun as y'all talk about here, I'd have visited more often. I guess I'll see some of you there.

Not tonight though, gotta get some rest. Good night.

 

[Ladybird]

LTGR... I didn't know that you were an occasional tubber..

Let me know when you plan on visiting next.. and I'll meet you there..

 

[LovetoGiveRoses]

That sounds great. I did stop in last night and no one was home. The water was cold too.

I have to work today, can you imagine the gall of my employers asking me to work on such a day! What is it, Thursday, why, that's practically a weekend. Lol.

I'll drop by the Bar for a drink before jumping in the hot tub. Let me guess, Dragonnette has attached Syd's hot tub to the back of the bar. She does some great things with that magical tail.

 

[mayi]

Welcome LTGR

I hope your are here just for a visit and not planning on staying. The 'Hotel' is open to all who want to visit, but I hope there is no specific reason for it LTGR.

Oh and just so you know, white are the best of the bunch.

mayi

 

[Ladybird]

I'll drop by the Bar for a drink before jumping in the hot tub. Let me guess, Dragonnette has attached Syd's hot tub to the back of the bar. She does some great things with that magical tail.

Yep.. you know Dragonette... she can do anything she sets her mind too LTGR!

She's a very special dragon..

 

[mayi]

Okay, It is time

I was not going to do this, but after last night, it is time. Here is my story.

We met in lit sometime around November. At first it was chatting in the tub, nothing big, nothing special. I was involved with another and he was just another tubber. One night when I was in the tub chatting, I noticed that he left with someone. Later on we were chatting and he told me that he had developed a relationship with another lit regular.

Somewhere along the chatting, we exchanged addys and pictures. Then the e-mail started. Over the days we would send mail back and forth, four mails a day. He told me everything about his relationship in lit and at home. I listened and tryed to councul him on the right things to do. The more I read the more I wanted to help.

The e-mails gave way to messanger chatting. We would spend hours chatting............4 to 6 hours a day. My other realationship in lit went to the side. My family went to the side. All I wanted was to chat with him. We could talk about anything.......everything.........nothing. We agreed on everything. We connected like I have never connected before.

Finally the time had come, he wanted to meet. I was actually scared by the prospect. He was everything I had ever wanted in a man. Romantic, caring, smart, funny, and so much more. For the first time in my life, I could not make love to my husband. I wanted someone else. When we met it was like we were old friends. We had a 2 1/2 hour lunch and could have talk even longer. Then that night we both agreed..........

He asked me to stop the whole affair the following week. I say affair, because we did have an affair. It was not physical, it was emotional, we were both ready to give up everything for each other. I know now it is time for me to move on. I will always love him and i know now that he will always love me. But we have to stay with the path we have chosen until it come to the end. One day i do hope to see him again.

Thank you all for listenting to me.

mayi

 

[Blue Dolphin]

mayi

Mayi wrote:

My other realationship in lit went to the side.

What a perfect little phrase, wow, I feel so good now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sidelined

always seems to happen
ah well
no more
I am fucking gone from you and your crap

 

[twodogs]

Mayi

That was very cool not because it did'nt work out but you touched some happiness for a time.
I can relate to that just came out of one that lasted for 3 years.
you take care and hold that head up , thank you it brough up something i did'nt want to die.

 

[mayi]

For everyone who has not figured it out yet. The other relationship in lit that i was refering to was with Pleasureu. I didn't take care of him in the way he deserved to be taken care of, in a loving and sharing way. Along the discovery of my bond, I realized that I was hurting a dear person. I know he is heartbroken with all that has happened, I hope in my heart he will sometime forgive me.

Love should not hurt in the ways I have hurt.

mayi

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Mayi

Thank you for sharing your story with us.

Each LIT relationship involves different factors, and I am finding out first-hand how very difficult it is to be involved in an LDR, even when there are no other spouses or SO's involved!

I have discovered by sharing the good, wonderful, bad and lonely experiences of being involved in such a relationship, separated by distance, helps me to cope and deal with the honesty of the entire package.

 

[Blue Dolphin]

Frankness

bollocks

 

[sortacurious]

I just wanted to say,

I've read thru this thread and the people that have posted ALL seem like such wonderful, caring, sweet, tender people!
I'm hoping for each of you: happiness and love.

I also wanted to thank you for this thread. I am a newbie and it has helped me to understand the pro's and con's of internet relationship, which is great as I haven't had one yet. I think all newbies need this kind of truth-from-the-heart before beginning, so again Thank You!
Take care of yourselves!

 

[mayi]

Congrads P

You know that i wish you the best with your new relationship. I hope she is everything to you i could not be. You deserve the best and i was not that for you. Please remember that you are a dear friend and if you ever need anything i will be there for you.

I will always love you.

mayi