I like my men to be 5 inches taller than me or more.... granted... I could settle for 4 inches taller if he's extra sexy and willing to put in the work.
I'm 6'2" and most of the ladies I have been with have been in the 5'2" area. No complaints about that, but...
I had a friend who dated a gal who was quite short, maybe 4'10". She was cute as a button and very shapely. My friend didn't give details, but indicated that she was great in bed. After they broke up, I was at a party at her house and she was very friendly to me. Nothing happened, but the thought of enjoying her hot little bod was exciting. I guess it was the idea of how tight she might be, and being able to lift her easily.
I have noticed that when I meet an attractive lady closer to my height or taller, there is a different kind of vibe. Maybe it's the angle of eye contact, but I interpret it as the taller lady maybe wanting a man more her size. This is especially true if the lady has a shorter husband. Could be all in my mind...