Holding your partners arms/legs in place while you have sex.

[LoveHerNow]

So I'm told Think I might go test that out right now!!

Lucky you! And him. I'm all worked up now thinking about it too.

 

[BBWparamedic]

I love being restrained like that and pounded hard. Push my knees up by my ears and pound away or hold my arms behind my back and shove my face down.

 

[LoveHerNow]

I love being restrained like that and pounded hard. Push my knees up by my ears and pound away or hold my arms behind my back and shove my face down.

Love to do this. And then after show my appreciation by licking her till she cums all over my face.

 

[NotSoMuchVanilla]

Love to do this. And then after show my appreciation by licking her till she cums all over my face.

Oh good lord! The girl you take to bed certainly is lucky.

 

[LoveHerNow]

Oh good lord! The girl you take to bed certainly is lucky.

Thanks! It's how to properly treat a lady, no? A good hard fuck and then a reward.

 

[NotSoMuchVanilla]

Thanks! It's how to properly treat a lady, no? A good hard fuck and then a reward.

Occasionally in the other order, too... explosive oral orgasm followed by a brutal fuck. That's fun, as well.

 

[LoveHerNow]

Occasionally in the other order, too... explosive oral orgasm followed by a brutal fuck. That's fun, as well.

You kinda read my mind, sexy. lol Those are sometimes even more fun.

O good lord, the man you take to bed is a lucky man.

 

[NotSoMuchVanilla]

Hehe, thanks, Love ;-)

 

[LoveHerNow]

Hehe, thanks, Love ;-)

 

[sereneone4u]

Yes. I love the sense of power I get from holding a woman's legs up, or apart, or against my shoulders or chest. And funnily enough, I've never met a woman who didn't respond to it. It increases the sense that she's totally yours for the taking, that she's relinquishing herself to you, that you are taking what you want and need. That strikes a cord for a lot of girls.

This.

 

[xjasminex]

Women --> men

Sometimes I really like doing it to my boyfriend - we play wrestle a lot anyway. I'm laughably weak, so when I do it's mainly for show. We both know he's just letting me, but it's still sexy anyway. Though I can hold him down for a while using my knees on his arms....
In any case, since the original question was about holding your partner's limbs down during sex, I was wondering about how people liked it with men being held down by women? Clearly the natural strength factor is disadvantaged, but regardless, are people into this at all?

 

[quietlylooking]

This thread is hitting on a number of themes that really turn me on. I love having my arms held down by the guy when being fucked... part of my whole submissive nature, I suppose. Legs are also good: I had a BF once who had a really tall bed, and I would lay on my back with my ass near the edge of the bed while he would stand and fuck me while holding my legs up high and wide. I would prop myself up a bit on my elbows so I could watch his cock pump into me. Really, really liked that.

With the right guy, some friendly wrestling is a great prelude to these types of fun.

 

[MrRetro]

Sometimes I really like doing it to my boyfriend - we play wrestle a lot anyway. I'm laughably weak, so when I do it's mainly for show. We both know he's just letting me, but it's still sexy anyway. Though I can hold him down for a while using my knees on his arms....
In any case, since the original question was about holding your partner's limbs down during sex, I was wondering about how people liked it with men being held down by women? Clearly the natural strength factor is disadvantaged, but regardless, are people into this at all?

I find it very enjoyable... When I'm with a woman that enjoy's this, I usually allow her to win...!

 

[gabriel16]

Holding

Holding her down -- holding her legs apart -- and more.


mmmm

 

[daveraymo]

Wife loves it

My lady loves being on her back, knees/ankles by her head totally exposed and likes me to fuck her hard. She also like to have her wrists and ankles tied together in this position. It's the easiest position to make her orgasm as my cock bends just about right to find her g spot from this position.

Rather strangely I then found out she likes to be on her knees, arms tied behind her back, knees secured with a belt or stockings, ankles tied together. She then likes to have her hair in a pony-tail so I pull it back hard and really spank her. She won't cum like this but it drives her wild so much you can start to see the juices oozing from her. I then either enter her from behind and fuck her while pulling her pony-tail. I also slap her arse which she loves. She won't cum like this though not if I could fuck her for an hour!

I then flip her over push her legs back and thrust hard into her. It normally takes 2-3 hard thrusts and she cums. We also found that this build up is also certain to make her squirt! About 1 minute for her to recover and then thrust into her again and she'll come again in about 15 seconds of hard thrusting. I think our record is 7 orgasms in about 15 minutes. She is then begging me to stop. Actually she starts begging at about 3-4 orgasms but I try and make her take more. This actually helped me how to achieve multiple orgasms for myself without ejaculating.

It's strange that we started the doggy position with me just slapping her arse. Then I would hold wrists together behind her back. That led to tying her wrists then her ankles, knees etc. It was such a turn on when she asked me to pull her pony-tail - HARD!!! She tells me she likes to feel vulnerable and dominated so who am I to argue!

This has only ever worked like this with my wife. Yes multiple orgasms with previous partners but they were hard work whereas this position just sends my wife straight to heaven. I am very lucky that it works like this; so is she I guess!

 

[nonfictional]

Sometimes I really like doing it to my boyfriend - we play wrestle a lot anyway. I'm laughably weak, so when I do it's mainly for show. We both know he's just letting me, but it's still sexy anyway. Though I can hold him down for a while using my knees on his arms....
In any case, since the original question was about holding your partner's limbs down during sex, I was wondering about how people liked it with men being held down by women? Clearly the natural strength factor is disadvantaged, but regardless, are people into this at all?

I am very into this. Being pinned down by a woman during sex is a huge turn-on.

 

[nflgirl81]

Just wondering if anyone else likes when they have their legs pinned, or their arms held above their head or behind their back. Really like the feeling of holding someone down in a dominant way like that when I'm going really hard. It's the closeness too in a way, I'm not sure how to describe it. That feeling when I pin a woman's knees back near their heads.... serious turn on.

But i also like the reverse too, the interplay of dominance and submission makes sex so much damn fun.

Anyway enough of my random musings, just wondered if anyone had thoughts on this particular topic.

I wish my hubby would do this. Such a turn on to be lightly dominated like that.

 

[UhlBWett]

Hmmmmm

I wish my hubby would do this. Such a turn on to be lightly dominated like that.

Ever tell hubby about your desires sweet girl?

 

[nflgirl81]

Ever tell hubby about your desires sweet girl?

He doesn't like the idea of things like that.

 

[UhlBWett]

Such a pity

He doesn't like the idea of things like that.

I would love to learn more about your Domination desires...............

 

[sweetfanny]

It's the closeness too in a way, I'm not sure how to describe it.

I know what you mean. I don't know how to describe it either, but I know what you mean.

The pinning arms thing, that doesn't really rock my boat. (Dominating/being dominated isn't my kink.) I like when my partner holds onto my hips or waist or thighs or presses me down on my stomach with his hand on the small of my back. Being on the receiving end, the thing that I enjoy is having a confident partner, being with someone that's generous and sure of himself and his ability to give me pleasure, that isn't afraid to explore my body, someone that doesn't treat me like I'm made of glass.

For a long time I was scared of men and only went to bed with, well, scrawny guys. Guys I was pretty sure I could fight off, if I had to. Going to bed with someone that's capable of overriding my physical autonomy is a huge act of trust. That trust in my partner is part of what makes it erotic. I know, absolutely, that if I'm not enjoying myself, he'll stop, no matter what.

I enjoy the reverse, too, putting him in the positions I want. I know I can't physically hold him there if he doesn't want to be there, but that's so not the point. I enjoy being with someone that can relax and let me give them pleasure or is willing to humor me while I pleasure myself with his body. Sometimes a girl just wants to play cowgirl, you know?

 

[brunette1989]

When I was about 18 and just did like dry grinding type of thing on top of the guy I used to hold their arms above their head or hold their hands down constantly, but that was to stop them trying to have sex with me lol Now whenever I get close to climaxing I hold my boyfriend down really tight with my arms and legs if he's on top and if it's from behind then I wrap my legs around his and push down.

 

[gk6h]

When I was about 18 and just did like dry grinding type of thing on top of the guy I used to hold their arms above their head or hold their hands down constantly, but that was to stop them trying to have sex with me lol Now whenever I get close to climaxing I hold my boyfriend down really tight with my arms and legs if he's on top and if it's from behind then I wrap my legs around his and push down.

wow love when girls do this

 

[HSigurdsson]

I love being restrained like that and pounded hard. Push my knees up by my ears and pound away or hold my arms behind my back and shove my face down.

Love doing that with a woman! Gives me a wonderful sense of control and tremendous, deep penetration. A perfect combination.

 

[IvyMae]

I actually just had a talk with my significant other the other day, and I told him that I would be interested in him holding my hands down, during sex. Because there are other forms of control that he likes that I do not like, such as grabbing the front of my neck.

Yes! I love when my significant other holds the front of my neck. And he likes it when I hold his wrists above his head too. I obviously couldn't hold him down if I wanted to. Hes much too strong for me, but he enjoys the resistance.