Holding your partners arms/legs in place while you have sex.

Great ideas...most of which we utilize in the sack......We both pin each other!! Over the weekend she put my hands over my head and told me to let her take care of everything.....When I dropped one down to play with her swinging breasts, she slapped my thigh and told me to get my hand back or she would really punish me......Let's just say that it went pretty well for me from there...... ;) She also pins my legs together so I can't open them up for my own relief I (I love spreading my legs while she's blowing me so she can get to my balls and ass), when she's ready she forces them open and teases me until I cum.
 
Love it, everytime
Him holding my legs open and back, his hands on the back of my thighs.


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that is perfect holding those legs wide and back as she takes every inch
 
Holding her legs

I hope she enjoyed it as much as I did. She never complained sooo. When we were going at it I loved putting her legs up so her feet were right along side my head. Damn what a great feeling of really getting her full of every inch..If you know what I mean..aanndd It would seem like it made it a little easier to go to that other place, if she was in the mood. Damn I miss her sometimes....
 
one of my favorite positions is to put a girls legs on my shoulders hold them in place and lift until her ass is off the bed then I like to pound her hard and pull on her legs as I go
 
My wife loves it when I enter her doggy style holding her hands crossed at the wrists behind her back or over her head when we are face to face. Her squirming and struggle really amps up her orgasms and I get more excited by that.
 
Just wondering if anyone else likes when they have their legs pinned, or their arms held above their head or behind their back. Really like the feeling of holding someone down in a dominant way like that when I'm going really hard. It's the closeness too in a way, I'm not sure how to describe it. That feeling when I pin a woman's knees back near their heads.... serious turn on.

But i also like the reverse too, the interplay of dominance and submission makes sex so much damn fun.

Anyway enough of my random musings, just wondered if anyone had thoughts on this particular topic.

Ummm, yes. :eek: I don't overthink my fetishes too much but I know this gets me more excited... the hands gripped thing.
 
An ex flame would hold me down. Usually with my arms either over my head or pinned by my sides.
 
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Great hearing both sides of the fence on this one.

Had some fun recently where I held her hands so she couldn't move as I went down on her. She ended up bucking her hips a lot harder :).
 
Ummm, yes. :eek: I don't overthink my fetishes too much but I know this gets me more excited... the hands gripped thing.

Haha sometimes its better to go with it than analyse why you like it :)

Hot thread ;-)

Have any experiences you wanna share?

I know my girl loves it when I hold her arms and legs, kinda like holding her in place. It tells her "this is how I want you."

Depends on the mood we're in, but I get that. Someones just having her bent over with her hands held behind her back drives us both crazy.
 
Just wondering if anyone else likes when they have their legs pinned, or their arms held above their head or behind their back. Really like the feeling of holding someone down in a dominant way like that when I'm going really hard. It's the closeness too in a way, I'm not sure how to describe it. That feeling when I pin a woman's knees back near their heads.... serious turn on.

But i also like the reverse too, the interplay of dominance and submission makes sex so much damn fun.

Anyway enough of my random musings, just wondered if anyone had thoughts on this particular topic.

Take it to another level with a mmf situation, maybe the hubby and wife. One holding the female in place while the other guy does what ever he wants to do to bring both off.
 
holding

Love holding her hands over her head. Also like holding a woman on my lap, over my knees, arm pinned as my free is spanking or exploring. Leaving just panties on while in either of these positions is erotic too, adds a sense of spontaneity, or, a mild non-consent feel. Great thread.
Someone else mentioned it, best not to overthink the things that arouse and please us.
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My current fantasy is trying anal sex to orgasm (I've only had a cock head in my bottom and not the entire shaft to the balls.) in a position called The Burning Man. The woman leans over a bed or table. The man stands behind her, pulls her arms straight back and holds her by her wrists while he has his way with her anally. I would try this in a HEARTBEAT.
 
I've loved every position like this I've been put into. Held with my hands over my head against a door and being taken from behind; lying face down with my partner holding my wrists behind me, pulling me into him as he pounded away; my wrists tied to the bedposts; and last but best, my wrists and ankles tied to a bar which was then fastened over my head, leaving me totally exposed for the taking. *sigh*
 
I've found..on occasion..holding or pinning your lady friend down can be quite fun..maybe even with an edge of force...the occasional "harder Daddy" is always nice. I also like the occasional arms thrown up over your head...very open for business....
 
Omg, yes! I love being held down and fucked with abandon. I don't like being tied, however. I've only done this with one man at a time, but fantasize about, say, three or four.

As for mock struggling ... I do that sometimes, but it's very mild, and I give up quickly. It's more symbolic than anything else, but it can be very exciting.
 
I love to let her do as she pleases....but I do enjoy restraints and her teasing me unmercifully....she can get me so damn wet that way.
Of course turnabout is fair play.....lol
 
I love to let her do as she pleases....but I do enjoy restraints and her teasing me unmercifully....she can get me so damn wet that way.
Of course turnabout is fair play.....lol

I'm all for her pinning my arms with her knees when she sits on my face. Me struggling just adds to the grinding of her pussy against my lips. Not that I want her to actually get off of me, just to get off on me ;)
 
I'm all for her pinning my arms with her knees when she sits on my face. Me struggling just adds to the grinding of her pussy against my lips. Not that I want her to actually get off of me, just to get off on me ;)

Oh My....so well put. I'm already wet for you....I think it's about time that you let me spread your beautiful lips for my tongue lashing....I'm on a mission...and you must cum for me!!!
 
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