Holding your partners arms/legs in place while you have sex.

[Dreamscape12]

Being held, tied, or restrained in any way is fun.

Well I hope you've experienced some of that kind of fun recently.

I agree totally. I'm even inclined to grab hold of the bed head when I'm not being pinned down so I can still pretend.

I've been with a partner who did something similar i think. She was giving me oral sex and she held her hands behind her back and just used her mouth

I've loved every position like this I've been put into. Held with my hands over my head against a door and being taken from behind; lying face down with my partner holding my wrists behind me, pulling me into him as he pounded away; my wrists tied to the bedposts; and last but best, my wrists and ankles tied to a bar which was then fastened over my head, leaving me totally exposed for the taking. *sigh*

Sounds like a hell of a lot of fun! You've done a lot more than I've ever thought about... many I should take a lesson from your book!

Omg, yes! I love being held down and fucked with abandon. I don't like being tied, however. I've only done this with one man at a time, but fantasize about, say, three or four.

As for mock struggling ... I do that sometimes, but it's very mild, and I give up quickly. It's more symbolic than anything else, but it can be very exciting.

Seeing her struggle, especially when i'm teasing is a seriouss turn on...

 

[Jen82]

Mmmmm. I love being held down and "forced" to enjoy a good fucking. It's a wild turn on when a man takes a control. It's hard to find these days! Where are you, guys?? I'm a flexible girl...imagine the fun!

 

[daddy4romance]

Mmmmm. I love being held down and "forced" to enjoy a good fucking. It's a wild turn on when a man takes a control. It's hard to find these days! Where are you, guys?? I'm a flexible girl...imagine the fun!

How flexible?

 

[ColeCrush]

Mmmmm. I love being held down and "forced" to enjoy a good fucking. It's a wild turn on when a man takes a control. It's hard to find these days! Where are you, guys?? I'm a flexible girl...imagine the fun!

It can be really tricky Jen...in the course of about a month, I scared a girl off because I was being too rough with her, and lost a great FB because I wasn't being rough enough with her!!
lol....dammit

 

[NaughtyP71]

BIG turn on

I love being pinned by my legs up and his hands placed on the underneath part of my thighs and slightly pushing them upwards, holding them down. he gets so much deeper with that angle, the problem is he cums too quick like that. I also love having my arms held above my head, hair pulled to hold in certain positions. My fav though is being pinned down by my neck (choking firmly but not to the point of not being able to breathe or blacking out), but again it never lasts as long as I would like because he cums immediately. He claims he doesn't like being that rough with me but actions speaks louder than words if he's cumming just seconds after placing his hand around my throat.

 

[gabriel16]

Hi all --- great post naughty

Hi all - love this thread. And holding a lover in place...

Naughty -- welcome! Turn on your Private Messages if you want people to be able to respond privately. Have fun here regardless!

G

 

[NaughtyP71]

Thanks Gabriel

Hi all - love this thread. And holding a lover in place...

Naughty -- welcome! Turn on your Private Messages if you want people to be able to respond privately. Have fun here regardless!

G

Not that I have posted much being a "virgin" and all..lol, but you are the first to respond to me at all. I know I have private message off because I don't have an account set up like that..yet! Thanks again for noticing me and welcoming me.

 

[Dreamscape12]

Love the new responses, Keep them coming!

 

[ExoticGal]

Ahh yes!!! I love being pinned down while he explores my body. Or tied as he licks me dry. I also enjoy pinning him down while I tease him. Let's be honest, I'm not really strong enough to hold him down, he's just throwing me a bone until he can't stand it anymore, flips me over, and REALLY throws me a bone. ;-)

 

[Dreamscape12]

Ahh yes!!! I love being pinned down while he explores my body. Or tied as he licks me dry. I also enjoy pinning him down while I tease him. Let's be honest, I'm not really strong enough to hold him down, he's just throwing me a bone until he can't stand it anymore, flips me over, and REALLY throws me a bone. ;-)

sounds familiar..

I like having the tables turned on me, but if im being teased my self control only lasts so long. Once I hit a point I'll be grabbing you and pinning you down, that or pushing you up against a wall

 

[Torinona]

I really enjoy when my man restrains me any number of ways: grabbing my ankles and holding my legs in a wide "v" as he drives into me, holding my wrists down on the bed in classic missionary, holding my hands behind my back in doggy style or when he makes me sit on his face, his hands gripping around my hips or belly as he pulls me onto him... the list goes on.

And oh, talking about turning the tables... he gets *such* a look in his eyes whenever I hold his wrists down to the bed. There's just something about the tension, the resistance, the body weight pressed on a certain spot. Even though he could easily break the hold I have on him, it's so delicious to feel him buck under me as though he wanted to truly get away.

 

[Dreamscape12]

I really enjoy when my man restrains me any number of ways: grabbing my ankles and holding my legs in a wide "v" as he drives into me, holding my wrists down on the bed in classic missionary, holding my hands behind my back in doggy style or when he makes me sit on his face, his hands gripping around my hips or belly as he pulls me onto him... the list goes on.

And oh, talking about turning the tables... he gets *such* a look in his eyes whenever I hold his wrists down to the bed. There's just something about the tension, the resistance, the body weight pressed on a certain spot. Even though he could easily break the hold I have on him, it's so delicious to feel him buck under me as though he wanted to truly get away.

For its that moment of tension as I try and hold back when my wrists are being held. Trying hard to hold back and focusing on just the sensation and desperately not trying to move..

You'd have to do than just hold my wrist at a certain point though

 

[Aurantica]

This is one of those things that I REALLY FUCKING LOVE. I had a partner forcibly push and hold my legs open while we were playing around and he said he could feel my heat and wetness though my jeans. There's something very primal about it, almost bestial. I'm one of those people that really likes weight and pressure during funtime, and to combine the calming effect of having someones bodyweight pushing down on me and the excitement of being held open gets me really excited.

 

[Dreamscape12]

This is one of those things that I REALLY FUCKING LOVE. I had a partner forcibly push and hold my legs open while we were playing around and he said he could feel my heat and wetness though my jeans. There's something very primal about it, almost bestial. I'm one of those people that really likes weight and pressure during funtime, and to combine the calming effect of having someones bodyweight pushing down on me and the excitement of being held open gets me really excited.

I love that too. When it's intense like that. Usually i like to cup someone outside their clothing like you mentioned and grind my palm against them. When that turns into kissing and more body contact I use my thigh to grind against her whilst i hold her wrists.

Thanks for adding your opinion by the way

 

[Lisalist13]

Mmmm I lovvveeee this....

 

[fullservice65]

Better access -- and it's just damn hot!

 

[FoxxyRedd]

I love it! I get wet quicker this way and he loves it too...just pinning me down, hand around my throat...he shocked himself when he grabbed me "too hard" around my throat..and I just wanted more...

 

[Dreamscape12]

Mmmm I lovvveeee this....

Haha sounds like you do.. but why?

Better access -- and it's just damn hot!

I know right? gets me seriously turn on doing it, and works for the other person too

I love it! I get wet quicker this way and he loves it too...just pinning me down, hand around my throat...he shocked himself when he grabbed me "too hard" around my throat..and I just wanted more...

Remember my first experience with grabbing. It surprised me as well, but sheing the reaction and how turned on it made her...

Let's just say it made me a fan of that particular kink

 

[UhlBWett]

I love to..........

Hold her ankles high, feet wide apart and pound her mercilessly as the bed creaks, the headboard bangs on the wall and her hard nippled tits flail wildly................

Just saying.

 

[Dreamscape12]

Hold her ankles high, feet wide apart and pound her mercilessly as the bed creaks, the headboard bangs on the wall and her hard nippled tits flail wildly................

Just saying.

Someone's got an active imagination.. That or you've got some interesting plans .

Thanks for posting

 

[UhlBWett]

Someone's got an active imagination.. That or you've got some interesting plans .

Thanks for posting

Your quite welcome.........

I have both actually, love taking charge..................

 

[Torinona]

Yes, this. My husband's hands are large enough that he can hold my crossed wrists down with just one hand. It makes me feel very exposed and at the same time very taken care of.

^THIS!!!^

Vulnerable yet safe.

When my man holds me in place [and his hands anywhere on me will drive me wild], it is such a massive turn-on, even when there's very little or no actual penetration [like when he holds me in place when I sit on his face]. The sight of his flexing forearms and his strong fingers pressing at my tummy and hips or clutching my thighs to his hips... the visual of it is enough to make me cum.

 

[Dreamscape12]

^THIS!!!^

Vulnerable yet safe.

When my man holds me in place [and his hands anywhere on me will drive me wild], it is such a massive turn-on, even when there's very little or no actual penetration [like when he holds me in place when I sit on his face]. The sight of his flexing forearms and his strong fingers pressing at my tummy and hips or clutching my thighs to his hips... the visual of it is enough to make me cum.

Great description

It's weird how small things like that can do that. It's the same with me when I'm teasing someone. It's the small muscles movements and rapid changes as I tease that can be such a turn on. For me it can be more intense when I hold her down, like you said I know that she feels safe but vulnerable.