Hotwife Anklet

I am not a swinger, so I have no idea if swingers use anklets to indicate anything.

However, I have always noticed that certain sexy women can make something like a simple anklet seem so sexy it's like a invitation. It draws the eye down to take in her whole body. And a 'naked ankle' with a simple adornment just projects an idea of intimacy beyond the everyday.
 
To me the anklet can be very sexy or not depending how it is worn and with what other attire. But even if it is sexy or more clearly identifies a hotwife connotation it isn't an open invitation to hit on me or assume I am open to sex with anyone. It is more like the dynamic any time I dress to look sexy - I like looking that way and I am presenting myself to the world that way knowing that some men will approach me.

Having put myself out there I will be polite and personable if a guy does hit on me. That doesn't mean I will be interested in every guy that fancies me. Nor does it mean I want to be immediately quizzed on my sexual status. A tactful guy will "chat me up" like normal and perhaps eventually get around to asking me about my anklet. But the fact that I maintain my sexual prerogative is unchanged.
 
Do any Hotwives actually wear an anklet that lets others know you're a Hotwife and are available?
Is there a list of all these signs? I heard of the upside down pineapple but never the anklet. I’m wondering how many other signs I’ve missed
 
I think it had more to do with volleyball than anything else. You had to take off your wristwatch or bracelet during the games. The boys wanted the girls to always to wear what they gave you and the cool gift moved to ankles instead of wrists.
 
I’ve just purchased two anklets for my wife. Simple ones but she is crazy about them. I have a 3rd one on order. It has a Rose gold Vixen on it to suggest she is a HW. Foxes are a favorite of hers but I doubt that she knows of the HW implication. It will be fun to see how long it takes her to get exposed to it. I wonder if a GF will tell her or if a male friend will spill the beans.
I suspect she'll figure it out ... "with a little help from her friends" (male or female) .... I doubt she'll be shocked or flabbergasted if you've ever eluded to your desires during sex .... but her reaction will be telling .... 😍

This holiday season I bought "matching" holiday t-shirts for me & my gf .... mostly on a lark; they both depict one of Santa's reindeer, hers Vixen (of course) and mine "Let's Get Blitzen" (I love the "stag" angle) ... 😈

I don't think she picked up on the double-double entendres but it won't shock her if/when she puts 2 & 2 together ..... 😁
 
Is there a list of all these signs? I heard of the upside down pineapple but never the anklet. I’m wondering how many other signs I’ve missed
Supposedly, stars on your house, Pampas grass, pink flamingoes, and pineapples all could possibly mean the homeowners are swingers.

But like an ankle bracelet, who in their right mind is going to walk up to a house with a star on it and think the man is going to let you have his wife? It could very well end up being an Amish house... you know, if the ten houses and 17 children were not a tip-off already.
 
My husband got me a sexy gold anklet last year for Valentine's Day that has a little key on it. He told me it was because I will always have the key to his heart. I smiled and thanked him and kissed him sweetly. As I put it on I explained that everyone might not quite see it that way though. I didn't tell him how I knew (I learned what a key on a woman's ankle bracelet means here on Lit lol) but that usually a key on a woman's ankle bracelet, or necklace, is meant to suggest that it is a chastity cage key. He asked me what a chastity cage is and I told him. He wanted to return the anklet and get me one with a heart and I reminded him that I already have two with hearts. He offered to get me something different but I wouldn't let him.

For the past year he complains every time I wear it in public. I still do though sometimes because a little mad, I-hate-you sex keeps our sex life spicy :devil:

And this year for Valentine's Day, guess what I'm thinking of getting for him? :giggle: He's protested so much against the idea of a chastity cage, it's made me wonder if he might actually be into it. There's only one way to find out, right? And I already have the perfect anklet to put the key!
 
You're kidding me! I learned two things today: anklets might be a hotwife sign, and the adjunct professor in our department might be available.

Thank you, Lit.
 
My husband got me a sexy gold anklet last year for Valentine's Day that has a little key on it. He told me it was because I will always have the key to his heart. I smiled and thanked him and kissed him sweetly. As I put it on I explained that everyone might not quite see it that way though. I didn't tell him how I knew (I learned what a key on a woman's ankle bracelet means here on Lit lol) but that usually a key on a woman's ankle bracelet, or necklace, is meant to suggest that it is a chastity cage key. He asked me what a chastity cage is and I told him. He wanted to return the anklet and get me one with a heart and I reminded him that I already have two with hearts. He offered to get me something different but I wouldn't let him.

For the past year he complains every time I wear it in public. I still do though sometimes because a little mad, I-hate-you sex keeps our sex life spicy :devil:

And this year for Valentine's Day, guess what I'm thinking of getting for him? :giggle: He's protested so much against the idea of a chastity cage, it's made me wonder if he might actually be into it. There's only one way to find out, right? And I already have the perfect anklet to put the key!
Do it. Don’t let him say no. Cut any deal you have to make for follow-up sex but make him wear it for a few hours before you give him relief. Let him begin to associate the pleasure that comes with being caged
 
Do it. Don’t let him say no. Cut any deal you have to make for follow-up sex but make him wear it for a few hours before you give him relief. Let him begin to associate the pleasure that comes with being caged

Are you speaking as someone who has experienced that pleasure by chance?
 
Are you speaking as someone who has experienced that pleasure by chance?
I self cage and love it. My wife has no kink so trying to share the submission with her is pointless. Having a cage on really gets my sub mindset going. Your hubby has a chance to discover a new side of his sexuality. It’s like fishing, just give him some line and he may hook himself
 
My husband got me a sexy gold anklet last year for Valentine's Day that has a little key on it. He told me it was because I will always have the key to his heart. I smiled and thanked him and kissed him sweetly. As I put it on I explained that everyone might not quite see it that way though. I didn't tell him how I knew (I learned what a key on a woman's ankle bracelet means here on Lit lol) but that usually a key on a woman's ankle bracelet, or necklace, is meant to suggest that it is a chastity cage key. He asked me what a chastity cage is and I told him. He wanted to return the anklet and get me one with a heart and I reminded him that I already have two with hearts. He offered to get me something different but I wouldn't let him.

For the past year he complains every time I wear it in public. I still do though sometimes because a little mad, I-hate-you sex keeps our sex life spicy :devil:

And this year for Valentine's Day, guess what I'm thinking of getting for him? :giggle: He's protested so much against the idea of a chastity cage, it's made me wonder if he might actually be into it. There's only one way to find out, right? And I already have the perfect anklet to put the key!
Your poor poor husband if this happens, I imagine your usual teasing may go off the charts
 
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