How challenging is to talk about fantasies, kinks etc.?

[DaddyforhisKitten]

I think it's easier to talk to strangers about them, no fear of judgement or being looked at differently. Hence why this place is popular

Regarding this place being popular, I have to imagine that being among a group you already know has a higher probability of being like minded individuals is a large component as well. The anonymity just enhances it.

 

[WonderPonder]

What was the turning point to make her going from someone with any fantasies to a woman now open to hotwife/cuckold lifestyle and openly talking about sex? Details, please.

Lots of changes in a short time. Her hitting menopause, her weight loss journey, new more outgoing personality.... things were going great sexually until late August of '23 I got diagnosed with cancer. A couple of other issues with the biggest being low heart function.
During treatment I brought up she should see someone until I got better. Leading up to this we were talking about sex and fantasies finally. Menopause made her libido skyrocket.
On New years eve she went out with another man and that's how it started. She saw him until June. It was great for her but I was only ever included once and it was really awkward.

My neighbor moved in a year and a half ago and I became friends with him. We watched football, hockey and baseball together and I confided in him about our new lifestyle.
After it ended with the other guy the three of us started hanging out as friends. I always was telling her that he wanted her and one night together we all talked and it happened with me only watching. We're still getting together with him and sometimes just them.
This arrangement is so much better than the first. We're still exploring new dimensions of hotwife-cuckold.

 

[Mommysboy84]

I don't think I'll ever open up completely to my husband. I know him so well and know how he'll react. It's so much easier to talk to with faceless strangers than someone close to me

I'm in the exact same boat with my wife. Honestly she's kinda bland and I have so many kinks I enjoy. It's a miracle we even ended up together.