How did you acquire your fetishes?

My love for pantys bras and sexy girlie clothes came from my uncle's dressing me in my aunt's clothes and doing things to me
 
When I was 4 or 5, I was playing hide and seek with neighborhood kids. Trash had been picked up that morning so I hid in the big green dumpster in the alley. I was slipping and sliding all over and lifted the lid to
 
When I was 4 or 5, I was playing hide and seek with neighborhood kids. Trash had been picked up that morning so I hid in the big green dumpster in the alley. I was slipping and sliding all over and lifted the lifted the lid to see. The bottom was filled with adult magazines! Many dozens!! My mother and I retreaved them all and spent days looking through them.
 
A lot of stories on here talk about their kinks vs. fetishes. I have an origin story about each.

I own what could be considered a luxury pen. It was a gift to me when I graduated, and I treasure it. It has become something of a fetish for me. I cannot look at that pen without become aroused. All the memories of the office romance that kindled as a result of that pen come roaring like a freight train to the forefront of my mind each time I look at it.

My breeder/pregnancy-risk kink was discovered when I did some self-reflection and had some help. I would question myself like why creampie porn turned me on, or why I preferred certain sex positions. One day, my former lover and I were enjoyed each other. I won't go into detail now, but she must have seen into my mind somehow, because she reached out one day while she was astride me and placed my hand over the spot where her womb would be. She wanted me to "mark her" and would sometimes dare me to "f. a baby" into her. She would text me screenshots of her fertility tracking calendar. It made my blood boil, to say the least. I'll save the rest of that story for another day.
 
My first gay sex was with a black body builder. Yes his dick was huge. The first time he fucked me. He did so with no regard for my pain. He just took me and I loved that.
 
I’d be curious to know the “science” behind fetishes, but I would say mine came from extended relatives wearing pantyhose a lot, combined with the exploration of my mom’s dresser. Add on top of that the once I heard her having sex and that’s probably mine.
 
When I was younger I stayed at my aunt and uncles house for a couple of weeks. I saw my aunt laying over my uncles lap and he pulled her dress up and pulled down her panties and spanked her ass. I couldn't tell if he knew I was watching but he spread her ass cheeks apart and held them apart for a long time. I tried it with a couple of girlfriends but it wasn't the same until I meet my girlfriend know my wife who loves being pulled over my lap and and having her panties pulled down in front of my friends and me spreading her ass cheeks apart. With her permission I have attached a photo of her laying over my lap with her panties pulled down and spreading her ass cheeks apart that a good friend of mine took a long time ago.
 
When I was younger I stayed at my aunt and uncles house for a couple of weeks. I saw my aunt laying over my uncles lap and he pulled her dress up and pulled down her panties and spanked her ass. I couldn't tell if he knew I was watching but he spread her ass cheeks apart and held them apart for a long time. I tried it with a couple of girlfriends but it wasn't the same until I meet my girlfriend know my wife who loves being pulled over my lap and and having her panties pulled down in front of my friends and me spreading her ass cheeks apart. With her permission I have attached a photo of her laying over my lap with her panties pulled down and spreading her ass cheeks apart that a good friend of mine took a long time ago.
That is a fine looking ass!
 
My father had a business trip to Europe, he got back and had left a copy of “Oui” magazine in his suitcase. there was a pictorial of a lady shaving her pussy bald.
 
For me it all started one day when I talked my first real girlfriend into taking off her bikini top on a public beach. Those days topless sunbathing was quite common in many countries but I’ve never been on a beach with a topless girlfriend before. She agreed to stay topless just for a short time, maybe about 10 minutes before we left the beach. But that was enough for her to get a whole lot of admiring glances (her boobs were really gorgeous). And for me to understand how much I love when other men see my woman’s nakedness. My utmost kink since then.
 
when dressing up when younger (completely innocently) always found I got aroused by putting on panties. Didn’t really understand it then but looking back it feels like the start for me.
I started young by wearing my sister’s panties I found in the clothes hamper. From there I started wearing her bras and garter belts and stockings. It just grew from there. Taking my first wife’s baby dolls and even dressing in her lingerie and clothes. She learned of my dressing and threatened to tell my girlfriend after we divorced. She never did tell. I told her about my love of dressing. She was ok as long as it was just panties. It did progress further till she was comfortable with me dressing in women’s clothing. Still love dressing up after 45 years together. 😊💕
 
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