How Did You Discover You Were Kinky?

[tristianc]

When I found a copy of my mother's Flowers in the Attic. I was just old enough to understand what was going on as well as know it probably shouldn't. I think I read it several times that summer while learning so many different ways to masturbate.

My sister read that book. I don’t know if I knew then what took place in the book, but I did by my early 20’s and wondered if she was open to or had fantasies about our relationship evolving to such an intimate level.

 

[AZsurfer40]

In college I did a lot of webcamming as I worked night and weekend so missed out on the entire party scene but still was a horny young adult. Sometimes they turned into games of sexual truth or dare and I accepted some small dares I wouldn't have done myself.

Or maybe it was when I was younger and had my own American Pie type experience, lol.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I thought I was weird before I thought I was kinky. I tried to kiss a girlfriend after a bj and she told me no. I asked why not and she said because she had cum in her mouth. She said that was weird.

 

[Easyvirtue]

Probably when I got hard wearing my moms panties and bra! I wore some lingerie to bed with a few girls later in life and it was accepted by a few scorned by many others.

 

[AlexBailey]

I had lots of early triggers. The first time I realized something was "kinky" was when I got excited from getting tied up and humiliated by some of my older brother's friends.

 

[FantasySharer1]

When I realized I couldn't think of the word "sister" without getting turned on. It was a quick road from there into an incest fetish that is a permanent part of me now.

 

[JoeBeans2751]

How did you discover you were kinky?

Through kinky stories and films when I was younger! Now, I share my tastes by talking about my fantasies and my sexual desires, and encourage folks who might be interested in a sexual chat with me to do the same.

Define kinky?????

 

[Lady2020]

Probably about the time I discovered how creative a lover was. He was building a fucking machine in his basement. Don't think he finished it, but his creativity was inspiring.

 

[mouthful6]

1. Before I was sexually active, I was jerking off to porn. Skipping over a ton of stuff, but drifting into some kink.

2. First girlfriend where we fucked a lot, she would blow me, swallow my load, then I would go down on her until she came. By then I would be hard again, and we would then fuck for an hour or more and watch porn. Talked about scenarios & explored a bit.

3. Now, long time married, but undersexed, so more self-exploration. Time, denial, high drive... and further down the kink path.

 

[Hodes101]

1. Before I was sexually active, I was jerking off to porn. Skipping over a ton of stuff, but drifting into some kink.

2. First girlfriend where we fucked a lot, she would blow me, swallow my load, then I would go down on her until she came. By then I would be hard again, and we would then fuck for an hour or more and watch porn. Talked about scenarios & explored a bit.

3. Now, long time married, but undersexed, so more self-exploration. Time, denial, high drive... and further down the kink path.

So number 1.

Would be looking at porn on the internet and just found out normal stuff didn't cut it.

Also I had this old porn magazine. The pictures were alright but the one thing I kept flipping to and kept wondering about was an advert for a sexline.

It was basically an ad where the woman claimed she'd fuck me in the ass whilst wanking me off.

I never rang it, and as a adolescent had no concept of pegging etc, but this advert always got me excited.

A small part of me wishes I had the mag still. For reminiscing of course... Nothing else

 

[hulmule]

Having a very high sexual drive at a young age. I would try and do different things to get pleasure. As i got old and on my own it just grew. Met diffent women and tried more and more stuff. Then marriage wife wasnt what she said to be sexually, and now in a sexless marriage im back to exploring what i can do to sexually satisfy myself

 

[stxjimmy]

Probably about the time I discovered how creative a lover was. He was building a fucking machine in his basement. Don't think he finished it, but his creativity was inspiring.

That scenario didn't quite work out in Burn After Reading either

 

[sdguy4fun]

How did you discover you were kinky?

Through kinky stories and films when I was younger! Now, I share my tastes by talking about my fantasies and my sexual desires, and encourage folks who might be interested in a sexual chat with me to do the same.

Is enjoying your own sperm kinky? I've been tasting myself since I was a teenager

 

[smoothwiener]

I knew in my teens. I was seriously into completely shaved pubic hair in the late 70s when the neanderthal look was popular.

 

[Timetotryagain]

When I needed to set “Playboy” aside for something harder, setting on Penthouse “Variations” eventually. Reading was more interesting than motionless pictures.

This site has helped me feel that my kinks aren’t all that bad.

If Lit had existed 40 years ago, I might still be really really limber.

Same here used to buy Playboy, but once I read Variations, it opened a whole new world. Now with Lit, I find myself turned on to things I never would have considered years ago.

 

[redheadfantasy]

My step daddy started playing with me when I was younger, and I’ve loved pleasing older men ever since.

 

[CockSparrow]

My first mother in law told me when she bailed me up in a corner of the kitchen while a family party was going on in the next room

 

[haventdonethat]

A couple of instances stand out.
When I started sucking my own cock and thinking it was normal. Didn’t every young guy want his cock sucked whenever the thought crossed his mind?
When I gave my first fisting and realized how much the woman enjoyed it.
After my first DVP and realized how much everyone involved enjoyed it.
Not everybody is vanilla!

 

[chame1eon]

A couple of instances stand out.
When I started sucking my own cock and thinking it was normal. Didn’t every young guy want his cock sucked whenever the thought crossed his mind?
When I gave my first fisting and realized how much the woman enjoyed it.
After my first DVP and realized how much everyone involved enjoyed it.
Not everybody is vanilla!

Well not everyone even can do that.

 

[haventdonethat]

Well not everyone even can do that.

You mean the DVP?

 

[chame1eon]

You mean the DVP?

Lol I meant sucking you own cock, but but that too I imagine.

 

[haventdonethat]

Lol I meant sucking you own cock, but but that too I imagine.

LOL I knew what you meant. Just pulling your leg or whatever.

 

[chame1eon]

LOL I knew what you meant. Just pulling your leg or whatever.

Ha. Well I know I can't do it.

 

[chame1eon]

I think i always was but I guess I didn't know that was a thing till i found this forum actually.

 

[skirt_chaser]

I thought I was weird before I thought I was kinky. I tried to kiss a girlfriend after a bj and she told me no. I asked why not and she said because I had cum in her mouth. She said that was weird.

I had a girlfriend who would give me a blow job. Then we’d kiss and “snowball” sharing my salty cum in her mouth. Yummy!