How Did You Discover You Were Kinky?

[FGB]

I did not "Discover " that i was kinky so much as that I came to the realization that i was considered at least medium kinky by the women that i dated. I take it that they noticed! Sexually i react to reaction...I really good at reading female body language,especially NAKED ones! I will take to the limit and i love finding it.
Sometimes I go to far, too fast but Damn it i have sure had a lot of fun and have expanded a few horizons!

 

[FGB]

My list of kinks and fetishes and turn on’s is so long. I had thought of listing them down at some point but I realized I find more everyday.

It all started with my mums catalogues when I was young, all the sexy 80’s lingerie, the stockings, garter belts, corsets…… I loved girls in lingerie and then found I liked wearing stockings too, and panties, and garter belts. Now it’s high heels, boots, booties, thigh highs, mini skirts and dresses, leggings. Being girly is such a turn on but so is being a guy with a beautiful girl or sexy sissy. Being bi…. Wow.

Add in golden showers, role playing, anal, pegging, spanking, shaving, sexy uniforms, nipple play, honey, wax, threesomes especially MMF….. the list goes on.

Maybe I’m just a pervert.

Maybe...

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

probably the second time I had a cock in my mouth, with the second guy I had.
as late teenie gals, we'd talk about sex, and when dick sucking came up, I remember all the eewes, and no - that can't be etc haha.
while reflecting on that second bj, I realized I liked it - the cock filling my mouth, touching the back.
never admitted it to those gal friends haha.
so there I was - knew my clit, cock in my pussy, sucking cock - I realized that there must be a whole bunch of things that will make me feel good, pleasure me.
my kinks pretty much just involved various scenarios of cocks in my various recepticals. and a few pussies.
but I did entertain other's kinks. tried them of course.

 

[Hipshot1554]

probably the second time I had a cock in my mouth, with the second guy I had.
as late teenie gals, we'd talk about sex, and when dick sucking came up, I remember all the eewes, and no - that can't be etc haha.
while reflecting on that second bj, I realized I liked it - the cock filling my mouth, touching the back.
never admitted it to those gal friends haha.
so there I was - knew my clit, cock in my pussy, sucking cock - I realized that there must be a whole bunch of things that will make me feel good, pleasure me.
my kinks pretty much just involved various scenarios of cocks in my various recepticals. and a few pussies.
but I did entertain other's kinks. tried them of course.

No therapy needed here. Sounds like a healthy acceptance of your sexuality. I applaud you.

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

No therapy needed here. Sounds like a healthy acceptance of your sexuality. I applaud you.

but - my first foray into the kink
my ad in tinder, for basically free sex, was a success.
I'll skip the middle stuff - but I was in a hotel room with four guys. I'd never done multiple guys by then - I just gave them a show.
I felt safe with them - they watched me shower, powder myself.
anyway, I was on the bed wide open - I'd brought a vibe and masturbated myself.
I was confident they weren't going to attack me, so I was able to relax and enjoy myself.
it was a cheap hard plastic vibe.
so I laid on my stomach and had a guy spread my ass an put the vibe in my ass.
I was giggling by then.
he wasn't doing it right, so I got myself ass high, and put the toy in my ass myself.
yeah, I had him lube my ass and the toy.
I remember leaving the hotel room, I was so exhilarated and happy.

 

[Hipshot1554]

but - my first foray into the kink
my ad in tinder, for basically free sex, was a success.
I'll skip the middle stuff - but I was in a hotel room with four guys. I'd never done multiple guys by then - I just gave them a show.
I felt safe with them - they watched me shower, powder myself.
anyway, I was on the bed wide open - I'd brought a vibe and masturbated myself.
I was confident they weren't going to attack me, so I was able to relax and enjoy myself.
it was a cheap hard plastic vibe.
so I laid on my stomach and had a guy spread my ass an put the vibe in my ass.
I was giggling by then.
he wasn't doing it right, so I got myself ass high, and put the toy in my ass myself.
yeah, I had him lube my ass and the toy.
I remember leaving the hotel room, I was so exhilarated and happy.

Wild "first time"!

 

[screwher]

It was the first time my wife cheated. At first I was furious and it almost destroyed our relationship. But soon after it was like a switch was flipped. I actually started to become aroused by it. I started fantasizing (and masturbating) about my wife having sex with other men! Fast forward years later we agreed as a couple we both want her to have sex with other men. And have openly embraced it.

 

[DarkPrimalRose]

I was dating a girl in my early twenties who would love to take me to a club and put her hand down my panties and finger me and commanding my orgasm. I wasn't into the exhibitionist stuff but her controlling my orgasm made me hot. I liked the powerplay, I liked being bitten After we broke up, she ended up introducing me to a guy with whom I developed a really intimate relationship with, with lot of D/s elements, particularly primal. It was after I stumbled on a talking group at a bookstore that I went 'ooooh' and everything made sense. It was there I met a top who was into light to medium SM. We never had sex, but I realized that I enjoyed being tied up and spanked and having my body played with

Then I met a guy with whom I ended developing more of a kinky relationship and he became my D It was only later with another partner that I really got into barebacking (before it was almost always condoms). I was on the pill but I really hoped that his seed would overpower it and I’d get knocked up. Barebacking is now a requirement if I’m an established, committed D/s relationship—even if it’s LD and we are playing online. It’s how I show my submission

So very naturally. Just the way I like it

 

[LustyScribe]

For me, I think it was when even the monkey got scared and ran away! But I only asked it to work the camera!

But seriously, I think it was the first time I was able to REALLY let go and write an erotic story for someone, and what came out of my fingertips and through the keyboard was enough to shock me. I was like, "Is this what I actually think of in that dark room of my brain, the locked door with the Do Not Disturb! sign on it?" And I realized that, while that room is certainly not the only room in the hotel, it houses a permanent resident, and some of the other rooms around it bear some examination as well. Because there is some really weird stuff that goes on in that wing.

Now, has anybody seen that monkey? I rented him for the whole night, and he has my camera!

 

[subbywannabe]

When I discovered that Playboy was tip of the iceberg. Hustler and Forum opened so many possibilities

 

[LustyScribe]

When I discovered that Playboy was tip of the iceberg. Hustler and Forum opened so many possibilities

And then came the Penthouse Letters...and I was doomed!

 

[Jordanjack]

I’ve always enjoyed pleasuring myself, and through my self exploration I discovered I like to be spanked, have my nipples tugged, be penetrated anally, and deep throat a cock (dildo).

There is so much more I want to explore with my wife, but too scared to talk to her about it. She’s very vanilla, I don’t think she’d react too well if I told her I wanted her to fuck my face and ass with the dildos hiding in our closet

 

[subbywannabe]

Lol I meant sucking you own cock, but but that too I imagine.

And then came the Penthouse Letters...and I was doomed!

I just remembered the magazine Variations

 

[LustyScribe]

I just remembered the magazine Variations

YES! Chock full of spank material! Occasionally I'll remember a story/"letter" and wish I could find it again. Good foodstuff for the young adult perverted mind.

 

[LustyScribe]

I’ve always enjoyed pleasuring myself, and through my self exploration I discovered I like to be spanked, have my nipples tugged, be penetrated anally, and deep throat a cock (dildo).

There is so much more I want to explore with my wife, but too scared to talk to her about it. She’s very vanilla, I don’t think she’d react too well if I told her I wanted her to fuck my face and ass with the dildos hiding in our closet

Ease into it, but don't be afraid to try. I've been in a sexless marriage for several years, and was at the point of considering divorce after almost 40 years together. Suddenly she opened up about it about 5 weeks ago, and I've been sllllooowwwllly introducing some of my...not so tame ideas. And she hasn't run out the door or cut anything off of me in my sleep. yet. Life is either a daring, bold adventure or it's nothing at all!

 

[nutoseen]

How did you discover you were kinky?

Through kinky stories and films when I was younger! Now, I share my tastes by talking about my fantasies and my sexual desires, and encourage folks who might be interested in a sexual chat with me to do the same.

i found out i was kinky when i had shrinkage and my mother in law saw it and i got off on it. before that i thought i was just my perverted old self

 

[Wonderer67]

I always was horny and had a high sex drive.

Right around when I was 20, I told my sister I wanted to experience sex from a womens perspective. (Late 80s), and I thought that was “weird” but told her anyway.

After I got out of the army and was going to college (mid 90s) I dated a girl who was dominating one of her male gay friends). I found it intriguing and sometimes watched and more and more enjoyed submitting to her. Wild times!!

Was in a bad and sexless marriage ( first started reading stories on lit in mid 2000s) and then did a lot of research and found kinks that really turned me on - chastity, solo anal with a prostate massager, and just accepting that I was sexually submissive.

Met my wife in 2007, altho 10 years older than me, she had/has a great sex drive. Since we first met, things have gone to strictly vanilla to me exploring my submissive side which she happily had helped me out with.

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

When I jerked off in my mid teens I started fingerings my asshole at the same time. After feeling how awesome it was I never stopped.

There's another kink, but it's a bit Taboo.
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[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

When I was younger, mid teens, I found a number of porn magazines of my fathers. These were beyond Playboy or Penthouse but extremely hardcore. It was then I think I started developing my voyeuristic nature and found my bisexual side sparked. I would often sneek them for masturbation sessions. Later, after a couple of bad relationships I met my husband who was as sexually adventurous and curious as I was. Our kinkiness has grown together from a mix of suggestions from both of us.

 

[naughty_shygirl]

How did you discover you were kinky?

Through kinky stories and films when I was younger! Now, I share my tastes by talking about my fantasies and my sexual desires, and encourage folks who might be interested in a sexual chat with me to do the same.

Actually websites like lit and watching porn is what made me discover I’m kinky.

 

[stiv837]

Peeping in windows at an early age was a fairly good indication of where I was headed.

 

[fma20fma]

Actually websites like lit and watching porn is what made me discover I’m kinky.

my words too.

 

[fma20fma]

birds of a feather flock together.......

 

[WereGeek75]

I used to share my small porn magazine collection with my best friend, we would swap one for another etc. That inherently wasn't that kinky, but one day during a swap he said he was too horny to wait so sat down on my bed pulled out his cock and started to masturbate, at his prompt of "you joining in or what?" I certainly did albeit a little hesitantly at first.

Looking back that was the moment that turned me froma plain old nerd into a adventurous, kinky nerd.

 

[uncle easy]

Things are only kinky the first time,,,, after that they are normal.