It all started a year ago when we started role playing
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It all started a year ago when we started role playing
Just open honesty!! Magic!For those of you who one day, while in a long-term relationship, embarked on a threesome, how did the idea come about between you and your partner? Considering you were both newbies and had never talked about this before, who made the first move? What was the “request” or “initial idea” like? And what was your or your partner's reaction like?
I ask these questions here because I am very unsure about how to open this type of conversation with my wife. It would be interesting to know what each of yours experiences were like.
Sounds like it’s been in her mind, and maybe she was gauging your reaction. Have you discussed fantasies in general before? Maybe you ask her if she has fantasies she hasn’t told you about, or ask if she has ever thought of a threesome fantasy. Don’t ask her at first “can you see us having a threesome”. Ask her general thoughts first before you make an assumption of the details. She might share more than you expect. And that can open conversation to go deeper.
Just open honesty!! Magic!
You sound like a great guy and certainly not pushing it on her, which could easily have a negative effect. Speaking as a woman and I think most all women, if I feel safe and not threatened, I will open up to my partner more easily.Unfortunately we still haven't talked about it in a proper way, a calm down moment, both relaxed etc., everything that is recommended… but it will certainly happen one day, because I also think she's giving me some hinks and revelations just to check what I think about it.
Until now, what has been said has always been something very brief, in a joking tone (and always coming from her), without major developments to a more deeper conversation. The one time I asked directly about a fantasy of hers, the answer was “having sex in a motel room” and nothing more. But at that moment I feel like she became a little shy and surprised by the question and it was the way she found out to respond anything, even though she had something else in mind, something more kinky.
Your suggestion to introduce the subject gently sounds good to me, because she already used the same "Have you ever thought about..." strategy related to open relationships.
The initial idea for a threesome was mine. I've always been a flirt and my husband loves it. He never has had any objections to seeing me enjoy myself with other gents. It happened one evening by accident when we met a gentleman in a bar. My husband encouraged us and we enjoyed a fabulous time. It's the best thing we have ever done. We both find threesomes extremely erotic and enjoyableFor those of you who one day, while in a long-term relationship, embarked on a threesome, how did the idea come about between you and your partner? Considering you were both newbies and had never talked about this before, who made the first move? What was the “request” or “initial idea” like? And what was your or your partner's reaction like?
I ask these questions here because I am very unsure about how to open this type of conversation with my wife. It would be interesting to know what each of yours experiences were like.