How many men have had your wife?

[wondering00]

My wife has been active since she was in ninth grade. She is confident and open about her prior sex life. Since we have been married she’s cheated. I can say with certainty there has been three guys that she’s admitted to. But there definitely has been more.
Truth be told I now love it. I hope for many more. Different types. That scratch her submissive itch that apparently only a stranger can.

You are so lucky!

 

[wondering00]

I understand her statement and feel the same about some things.

But those things are so hot.

 

[Justfantasies]

But those things are so hot.

I certainly think so

 

[Caroline1961]

But those things are so hot.

Maybe so, but from my perspective I didn't want him knowing just how eager and slutty I could be with another man.

 

[ornyguy32]

About 25 before me, but girls don't always tell the truth

That's the damn truth!!

 

[Justfantasies]

Maybe so, but from my perspective I didn't want him knowing just how eager and slutty I could be with another man.

When a GF admitted exactly that to me I was so turned on

 

[OldFred65]

My wife is a former prostitute, so I have no way of knowing how many before we married. I can't even count how many since we married either.

 

[Dreamer110]

Nine that I'm positive of. Considering how young she was when we met that's pretty good. Seven then and two later.

 

[Caroline1961]

When a GF admitted exactly that to me I was so turned on

I've gone into some detail about it and even admitted when I initiated things, or went beyond what the other guy suggested, and several guys who used the fuck right out of me and dropped me off at my car afterward. I ''was really into it'' with a few guys and didn't want to admit everything...

 

[haventdonethat]

First wife, 2 or 3 before me, 5 or so after marriage. One of those 5 was probably more than 30 times.
Second wife, many before me, I don’t think she kept track. Maybe 10 after wards.
Present GF, 10 maybe before but when she has a bit too much wine she tells different stories of her single years. Don’t really care. Only me since.

 

[phil1955]

Wife only gave me round numbers but about 10 in her college years and about 5 more after college and before we married. During our marriage she had 3 before we started the hotwife lifestyle. She has had one so far but is getting interested in another guy as well. Obviously there may be a few she does not want to talk about but that is OK too. When we first started with the hotwife thing, she was a bit reluctant to let me see how wild she can be when she is enjoying herself. I think we have reached the point where she is comfortable just letting go and knows I will be fine and actually enjoy her enjoyment.

 

[privateman]

There are some interesting numbers here. As I said before I'm sure mine has had more, I really don't know why she has not confessed. That said it was in our early days that i asked. Maybe I should ask again!

 

[SlutAddicted]

Well over 100. Before marriage it was about 25. She cheated once the we moved on to hot wifing. She started slowly. It was one new guy every six months or so until she had fucked three. Then she really opened up and took new lovers almost weekly.

 

[KimGordon67]

There are some interesting numbers here. As I said before I'm sure mine has had more, I really don't know why she has not confessed. That said it was in our early days that i asked. Maybe I should ask again!

I'm interested in what constitutes an 'interesting number'?

 

[tjernst]

Over forty

In seventeen years I had the pleasure of seeing my late wife enjoy over forty different men hundreds of times

 

[ShesInsatiable]

.....

 

[Giveitaday]

Before me just one, and seeing as how my wife has been my best friend since before we even started grade school I'm 100% confident that's the correct number. She married the first guy she had sex with after he got her pregnant and they were together for 17 years, and him being an abusive control freak he tried his best to keep her isolated from anyone. We're polyamorous and since we've been together I haven't really kept count but I can think of 8 off the top of my head, 12 if you count just oral.

 

[ssremember129]

You're right about that, it doesn't take much more than to make one's self available.

Total men who have had me, 28. Of those since married, 19.

Like most guys, it is a huge turn on to hear about events before or during being married. The more detail the better it is for the male partner in my opinion.

 

[ssremember129]

Maybe so, but from my perspective I didn't want him knowing just how eager and slutty I could be with another man.

Wow, that would be so intense to imagine your confession to the events, how turned on you were, what you did, and every detail all the while you were naked with your partner.

 

[Caroline1961]

Sometimes clothed, or partially so, but other than highlights memory does fade a lot of times. It's best to get the details while they're fresh.

 

[Rockymtnman]

Not surprising. It’s easier for a woman to find a man for sex. Not so much for a man. Especially when married.

Not trying to be flippant or mean but it depends on what you look like. If you look like Quasimodo I’m sure getting laid is harder. If you take care of your body, dress well and are reasonably attractive then it’s not so hard.

 

[PFWilly]

Her grandfather before we were married. Two other guys after we were married...the first guy she did it with six times one night. The second guy was an ongoing thing that lasted about two years.

 

[Justfantasies]

I'm interested in what constitutes an 'interesting number'?

It's arbitrary, but I would say that any wife who had over20 men is delightfully experienced

 

[Kate_part2]

About 25 before me, but girls don't always tell the truth

If we are smart, we don't. I know some guys here really get off on that thought. But a lot of guys in the real world get all weird if your number is "too high" -- and that's just such a subjective outlook.

The fact is, if you're in your late 20s, or 30s or 40s, that number is going to be more than 2. But finding a guy who is confident and comfortable enough to really be truthful about it is difficult.

Oh, and one more thing -- it's not how many men have had me. It's how many men I have had A girl has to own her sexuality!

 

[Justfantasies]

If we are smart, we don't. I know some guys here really get off on that thought. But a lot of guys in the real world get all weird if your number is "too high" -- and that's just such a subjective outlook.

The fact is, if you're in your late 20s, or 30s or 40s, that number is going to be more than 2. But finding a guy who is confident and comfortable enough to really be truthful about it is difficult.

Oh, and one more thing -- it's not how many men have had me. It's how many men I have had A girl has to own her sexuality!

I agree. But like to think I am one of those who is comfortable about it. When I married my first wife she said 5. Two years later when she told me the real number it was a huge turn on for me and we were both very happy