How many men have had your wife?

Me too.

It’s funny. Most men would be crushed to find out there were a lot of men in his wife’s pussy. So those who threw it it around are going to be hesitant to share. Then there are the men like me. I know the small amount that have enjoyed her. And wish there were a lot more.

Yes me too
 
My wife admitted to me after a year or so of dating that she had worked as an escort in college. She didn't work long, maybe a month, but I was able to find old ads on the web as well as "reviews" of her service on message boards. She says she doesn't know how many but there had to be about 30-50 guys. Based on bookings and such, the new girls get booked out quickly, so there were days when there were 5-6 a day.
 
My wife admitted to me after a year or so of dating that she had worked as an escort in college. She didn't work long, maybe a month, but I was able to find old ads on the web as well as "reviews" of her service on message boards. She says she doesn't know how many but there had to be about 30-50 guys. Based on bookings and such, the new girls get booked out quickly, so there were days when there were 5-6 a day.

That is so hot!
 
I don't understand some guys hangups with how many guys have "had" their wife. My wife was with 23 men before me and I couldn't care less. She didn't get as good as she is without practice! I love it when she talks about being with other men, it's a huge turn on for me. Wish she was open to bringing in another man for threesomes now, she's interested but fearful.

I've had platonic female friends my entire life, women meet people they are attracted to and sometimes have sex with them just like men do. We need to let the whole Virgin/Whore thing go. I don't know a single woman (or man) who has never had a one night stand.
 
That is so hot!

We have had some intense sessions where she tells me stories. She goes from "I don't remember" to very detailed, then to ... I don't want to talk about it. I hadn't been into the idea until she brought it up, and I was surprised how much it turned me on. The idea of her going just minutes between servicing random men is a huge turn-on, but I think it's more that it's in the past. Not sure I would want her doing that now.
 
Wife sharing

I had the pleasure of seeing my late wife enjoy over forty different men hundreds of times in seventeen years. Love chatting with open minded people about the fun we had
 
I didn't know , nor did my wife , that we were supposed to keep track !
 
I don't understand some guys hangups with how many guys have "had" their wife. My wife was with 23 men before me and I couldn't care less. She didn't get as good as she is without practice! I love it when she talks about being with other men, it's a huge turn on for me. Wish she was open to bringing in another man for threesomes now, she's interested but fearful.

I've had platonic female friends my entire life, women meet people they are attracted to and sometimes have sex with them just like men do. We need to let the whole Virgin/Whore thing go. I don't know a single woman (or man) who has never had a one night stand.

I don't really get hung up on the number she's been with before, because she's been my best friend since we were kids, I know her number, it's 1, I don't specifically pay attention to then "number" of men either she, or we, have been with since we got married, I've just got a really good memory. My wife and I decided very early in our relationship that we wanted to be polyamorous, she'd never been with anyone but her ex husband and me and wanted to explore and I had some "Friends with benefits" relationships I didn't really want to let go of.
 
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Current wife 4 before her first husband, 3 after her divorce then me. My first wife started having sex in junior high, and before we were married she told me she had sex with about 30 guys because my number was in the teens, after we were married she confessed that her number was over 150. After we were married she had at least another 50 guys during our swinging days plus when she cheated on me. We had a lot of fmf 3 somes so my number went up over 150 also. My current wife and I will not share so our numbers will be the same.
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This whole topic is funny to me. There is always much more 'concern' about the number of guys who have 'had' a woman than with how many women have 'had' a particular guy. When I have been asked by a guy I'm dating or whatever, my answer has always been some form of 'none of your business'. How many is 'a lot'? Over five? Over ten? Over thirty? My number is over thirty, but if I am perfectly honest, I don't know the exact number. I definitely can't remember all their names at this point. For example, I do remember this guy being super sweet and walking me home from a drunken party. I know I fucked him, but his name is long gone from my memory banks even though I am sure I knew it at the time. Did he 'have' me, or did I 'have' him? If memory serves, I pretty much threw myself at him, so it feels like I 'had' him, but who's to say?

Some guys don't like the idea of a bunch of other guys dicks being in their wife. Those guys want their wife to be a virgin but they don't mind them having sex with a bunch of women. If the woman need to stay a virgin then who are these guys having sex with? I enjoyed my first wife's experience. My second wife is not was not as adventurous as the first but she gets the benefit of all my experience from the first wife and our adventures. I loved knowing my first wife got around before me. It didn't concern me that her number was way bigger than mine in fact it was a turn on.
 
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Current wife 4 before her first husband, 3 after her divorce then me. My first wife started having sex in junior high, and before we were married she told me she had sex with about 30 guys because my number was in the teens, after we were married she confessed that her number was over 150. After we were married she had at least another 50 guys during our swinging days plus when she cheated on me. We had a lot of fmf 3 somes so my number went up over 150 also. My current wife and I will not share so our numbers will be the same.
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Is your current wife adding to her numbers?
 
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Current wife 4 before her first husband, 3 after her divorce then me. My first wife started having sex in junior high, and before we were married she told me she had sex with about 30 guys because my number was in the teens, after we were married she confessed that her number was over 150. After we were married she had at least another 50 guys during our swinging days plus when she cheated on me. We had a lot of fmf 3 somes so my number went up over 150 also. My current wife and I will not share so our numbers will be the same.
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Cheating is fun
 
It didn't concern me that her number was way bigger than mine in fact it was a turn on.

Interesting...I had never thought of this before, but I suspect that since I turned 21 or so, I very probably have had more sex partners than every guy I've had sex with.
 
I don't understand some guys hangups with how many guys have "had" their wife. My wife was with 23 men before me and I couldn't care less. She didn't get as good as she is without practice! I love it when she talks about being with other men, it's a huge turn on for me. Wish she was open to bringing in another man for threesomes now, she's interested but fearful.

I've had platonic female friends my entire life, women meet people they are attracted to and sometimes have sex with them just like men do. We need to let the whole Virgin/Whore thing go. I don't know a single woman (or man) who has never had a one night stand.

I agree, it only matters that she has enough cock to make her happy.
 
Interesting...I had never thought of this before, but I suspect that since I turned 21 or so, I very probably have had more sex partners than every guy I've had sex with.

Forgive me for asking, but did you post your number? I always enjoyed getting with someone who could teach me something when I was single. I just happened to fall in love with someone less experienced than me. Out of all the women I have fucked, my wife's pussy gets the wettest. I love it, it always feels like sloppy seconds.
 
Some guys don't like the idea of a bunch of other guys dicks being in their wife. Those guys want their wife to be a virgin but they don't mind them having sex with a bunch of women. If the woman need to stay a virgin then who are these guys having sex with? I enjoyed my first wife's experience. My second wife is not was not as adventurous as the first but she gets the benefit of all my experience from the first wife and our adventures. I loved knowing my first wife got around before me. It didn't concern me that her number was way bigger than mine in fact it was a turn on.

I never could get the whole virgin thing, I prefer a woman who knows both what they are doing and what they like and aren't shy about telling me if I'm not doing it right for her!
 
She was Maried before me and swears she never cheated, I believe that is truthful.

So doing the math that would imply 8o-90 per year before we were married.

(Plus about 12 or so, after engagement and 14 after marriage. Unfortunately, none the past 10 years.
 
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She was Maried before me and swears she never cheated, I believe that is truthful.

So doing the math that would imply 8o-90 per year before we were engaged.

(Plus about 20, or so, after engagement and marriage. Unfortunately, none the past 10 years.

Sounds like she has fun
 
3 before we married

Who knows how many after....
That's why we divorced. Looking back though, I wish we had worked it out and just became swingers. We loved each other but she just could not get enough strange cock. She started going out with a group of girls and that's when it started. Turns out they were part of some social sex club. Needless to say when I found out, it did not end well.
 
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