How many men have had your wife?

Who knows how many after....
That's why we divorced. Looking back though, I wish we had worked it out and just became swingers. We loved each other but she just could not get enough strange cock. She started going out with a group of girls and that's when it started. Turns out they were part of some social sex club. Needless to say when I found out, it did not end well.

Yes, the road not taken. It was my wife’s infidelity years ago that almost ended us. Fortunately we kept it together. But soon after, her tryst started to turn me on. I started fantasizing and masturbating to the idea of other men fucking her. We became a hotwife couple a few years ago but now I wish we had started back then. All these years we could’ve been enjoying the lifestyle. Who knows how many men could have screwed her over the years!
 
Before marriage, only 1. Her first husband

We've been married 20+ yrs and she has had at least a dozen men or more. Hasn't played in 3+ yrs though
 
My wife was fucked repeatedly by a high school boyfriend, now a fireman and another got to "third base". Then there was me. She cheated drunkenly one night with a coworker, on a work trip, so him too. That's it, I think.

You should be very proud of her.
 
My wife was fucked repeatedly by a high school boyfriend, now a fireman and another got to "third base". Then there was me. She cheated drunkenly one night with a coworker, on a work trip, so him too. That's it, I think.

Just curious how you felt about the co-worker?
 
My wife was fucked repeatedly by a high school boyfriend, now a fireman and another got to "third base". Then there was me. She cheated drunkenly one night with a coworker, on a work trip, so him too. That's it, I think.

My wife has a thing for firemen. So maybe send her ex our way lol.
 
How many

To me the number is not important. She loves sex and enjoyed all of them. That is what is important to me.
 
My wife is a former prostitute, so I have no way of knowing how many before we married. I can't even count how many since we married either.

My wife was a ‘licensed entertainer’ in Angeles in City for 10 years before we married. I met her when she was 18 and we married when I was 25! She was one of the 10% of cuties who landed about 90% of the bar-fines. We were both extremely promiscuous and I had long relationships with about 5 other ‘career’ cuties in parallel with our ‘courtship’. They all married foreigners too and are living in Australia, Korea(US?), Germany, Norway and Switzerland. I wonder if they took to bar-fining girls as a couple when they visited, which my wife and I did.

How many partners before and after? No idea, but she’s well ahead of me, and I’ve been no slouch.
 
Not many men are marrying virgins these days. My wife has not had that many. She claims 18 and I have no reason to doubt her. When she is in the mood to talk, I love to hear about it and I keep encouraging her to add to the number. So many men have trouble getting any so I would like to keep her as horny as possible.
 
I think a lot of us are much more sexually active than people think. It’s just that it is our interest to be discrete and have sex with guys who can also be trusted to be discrete.

I don't know about all men but I am very interested in my wife's sexual past. I do not want to hold it over her head or use it against her. I get really turned on hearing about her getting fucked, sucking cock, having cum shot in her sweet pussy, having her pussy licked, and enjoying a threesome with 2 guys and they both came in her pussy.

This is the one that I want to hear all about! Not because I want to shame her or anything like that, exactly the opposite. I'm VERY proud of her for trying the experience and being honest with me when I asked her about it. If she wanted to try it again now that she is older, I would be happy to oblige her. After she told me about her first one, she was giving me head and I pictured another guy behind her fucking her pussy while she was giving me head and I came really quickly and I usually don't cum at all from a blow job.
 
I don't know about all men but I am very interested in my wife's sexual past. I do not want to hold it over her head or use it against her. I get really turned on hearing about her getting fucked, sucking cock, having cum shot in her sweet pussy, having her pussy licked, and enjoying a threesome with 2 guys and they both came in her pussy.

This is the one that I want to hear all about! Not because I want to shame her or anything like that, exactly the opposite. I'm VERY proud of her for trying the experience and being honest with me when I asked her about it. If she wanted to try it again now that she is older, I would be happy to oblige her. After she told me about her first one, she was giving me head and I pictured another guy behind her fucking her pussy while she was giving me head and I came really quickly and I usually don't cum at all from a blow job.

That is damn hot 😊😊
 
This whole topic is funny to me. There is always much more 'concern' about the number of guys who have 'had' a woman than with how many women have 'had' a particular guy. When I have been asked by a guy I'm dating or whatever, my answer has always been some form of 'none of your business'. How many is 'a lot'? Over five? Over ten? Over thirty? My number is over thirty, but if I am perfectly honest, I don't know the exact number. I definitely can't remember all their names at this point. For example, I do remember this guy being super sweet and walking me home from a drunken party. I know I fucked him, but his name is long gone from my memory banks even though I am sure I knew it at the time. Did he 'have' me, or did I 'have' him? If memory serves, I pretty much threw myself at him, so it feels like I 'had' him, but who's to say?

It doesn't bother me, personally. My wife and I were both pretty active in college and after, before we were married (and beyond for a stint of threesomes, and a couple MFMFs), but we sat down one night and compared "numbers" and she was well ahead of me. I won't lie, it was kind of a turn-on to hear the number come in higher than my own.
 
Gents, I'm sure this has been asked before but I cant find a thread.
Mine says 10 before me....so that will probably be 30 :)
Honestly I'd need a calculator. When I met my wife she always talked about these guys she knew as "friends".. then I asked her is she slept with any of them..She turned red and danced around an answer but she did say that she fucked all of them as well as many women. I told her I loved it!
 
It doesn't bother me, personally. My wife and I were both pretty active in college and after, before we were married (and beyond for a stint of threesomes, and a couple MFMFs), but we sat down one night and compared "numbers" and she was well ahead of me. I won't lie, it was kind of a turn-on to hear the number come in higher than my own.

It shouldn't matter. It should not be a contest. I don't keep track of the number. I had relationships, one night stands, etc. Some I don't remember the names or exactly where I met them. I have good memory and some so-so memory. I think its a good way to let out some frustration and steam.
 
My wife has been close but we never have gone all the way . First time she backed out of a swap and second time guy came to quick and left embarrassed. We haven’t found a guy since that we can try with.
 
My wife has fucked about 20 guys. Mostly before we were married and a couple after. Within the last year she has added 3 more with my blessing. Hopefully we can get past Covid and she will add even more while she is in the mood. I encourage her all I can as I love to watch or just hear about it.
 
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