So glad this isn't a contest. I'd expect the women are the recipients 20 to 1 in most cases. lol
Of course, I'm new, so what do I know.
All the same, I also image that the 'spam' they get is generally a poorly crafted attempt a suave. Cheers to you ladies for tolerating. May your fingers not tire of deleting.
Experiencing a dearth of pm's of late, but I blame myself as I haven't been sending many. For guys, it is something you have to work at, if you want a lot of pm's, send even more.