How many sexual partners have you had?

[Ezpickins]

26, we swing so the number gets blury now and then.

 

[Mropietaylor69]

On lit? men or women? real or fantasy. Any way gives me a headache. Not what I thought my life would give, but glad it did.

 

[DarlingCunt]

Only 7 for me! Though, I'm still only 20, so I assume there'll be more in the future. (3 of them were in 2014, anyway!)

 

[notnice66]

never thought of calculating them up - is this a guy kinda thing? notches on the bedpost?

 

[KUJACK]

both

6 men, 17 women

 

[PreggoBitch]

Lost count, so I gave up.....

 

[boytoyjoy]

If my current boyfriend, Mike, asks me this, I plan to answer "You're my 6th Mike". Accept maybe I will accidentally hesitate a little more than I should between the words "6th" and "Mike". It will be an honest misunderstanding.

Guy (in bed): That was wonderful... am I the first guy you've ever slept with?

Girl: Hmm, I'm not sure, your face looks familiar....

 

[lilydaresinNYC]

http://www.survivingcollege.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/Mean-Girls-GIF-Cady-Heron-Lindsay-Lohan-Mathletes-The-Limit-Does-Not-Exist.gif

 

[k_m_d_]

I think I saw it listed as an 'error' for that movie that there was no way she could have solved the problem that quickly. I was surprised she didn't solve it faster.

 

[Cdn_Couple]

just one

 

[DiscoKing]

5 for me, 17 for my wife. I am working on making both of those numbers increase.

 

[ShyGuy1855]

Two, maybe three

 

[xxxdoctorJ]

74 over 40 years...married in my late 30's wife was #73

 

[CyranoJ]

With this being an erotic forum, I'm curious if the numbers are higher here than in the general public. If only counting vaginal or anal penetration, how many sexual partners have you had? So this would not count oral or hand jobs. Only penile penetration of ass or vagina.

It's a little odd that the framing of this question basically rules lesbians out from having sex partners, but anyway. With anal or PIV as the criterion I'm just over twenty.

 

[anthilly]

I've had just a few, around 10 or so.

 

[Rogue25]

Well depending on the definition of sex then three.

 

[kaitlyn_sun]

I've had 16.

 

[kaitlyn_sun]

oh... 16 including women. why aren't we including women?

 

[KUJACK]

Lets see

26, we swing so the number gets blury now and then.

I I I I I, I I I I I, I I I I I, I I I I I,I I I I, , THATS 24, SO FAR

 

[LizVegas79]

I lied to my husband when we got married. If you count handjobs and blowjobs I have no idea.

 

[jezzilee]

this thread is making me think and now I want an actual answer. I will be back after I carefully consider all the players, I don't suppose a m/m/f encounter could be counted as one since they were both inside at the same time?

 

[grannykat]

From age 14 to 63 I can remember each and every one, but from 63 to now it's a total blur, many more than I could ever count. My life has gone totally backwards! I'm supposed to be retired and puttering around in the garden, not being penetrated each day every which way!

 

[Que]

this thread is making me think and now I want an actual answer. I will be back after I carefully consider all the players, I don't suppose a m/m/f encounter could be counted as one since they were both inside at the same time?

I am pretty sure that you have to make a tick mark for every dick that you had a direct hand in stiffening and for each clit that you stimulated or that was stimulated against you.

You could go down in the weeds and argue Clinton style that unless a penis was sheathed therein whilst a vagina was penetrated there was no sexual relationship.

I have observed that some delicate flowers who are not quite ready to fully celebrate and own their sexuality and their sexual dalliances have a list of "doesn't count" exceptions.

To wit:

• Oral or manual stimulation doesn't count. Some are less likely to count it if it was "68" (You do me and I will owe ou one.)
• Vacation sex. It isn't just Vegas that a lot of crowd-counting clickers get turned off.
• One night stands if you finished up in a bathroom or parking lot and got no where near a night stand.

It is somewhat complicated, legitimately. Personally, being male with its attendant ego-centric interest in counting conquests. I would like to take full credit for every woman that ever had an orgasm in my immediate vicinity or as a tangential consequence of some idle suggestion I made once.

To answer the extremely narrow OP, it is 11. When I was first on lit, all the way through 2010 I think the answer was 1.

If we are counting anal sodomy what about oral sodomy if it is ruminato (sp?) rather than fellatio? I feel that a good face fucking ought to count the same as an ass-fucking.

 

[jezzilee]

I am pretty sure that you have to make a tick mark for every dick that you had a direct hand in stiffening and for each clit that you stimulated or that was stimulated against you.

You could go down in the weeds and argue Clinton style that unless a penis was sheathed therein whilst a vagina was penetrated there was no sexual relationship.

I have observed that some delicate flowers who are not quite ready to fully celebrate and own their sexuality and their sexual dalliances have a list of "doesn't count" exceptions.

To wit:

• Oral or manual stimulation doesn't count. Some are less likely to count it if it was "68" (You do me and I will owe ou one.)
• Vacation sex. It isn't just Vegas that a lot of crowd-counting clickers get turned off.
• One night stands if you finished up in a bathroom or parking lot and got no where near a night stand.

It is somewhat complicated, legitimately. Personally, being male with its attendant ego-centric interest in counting conquests. I would like to take full credit for every woman that ever had an orgasm in my immediate vicinity or as a tangential consequence of some idle suggestion I made once.

To answer the extremely narrow OP, it is 11. When I was first on lit, all the way through 2010 I think the answer was 1.

If we are counting anal sodomy what about oral sodomy if it is ruminato (sp?) rather than fellatio? I feel that a good face fucking ought to count the same as an ass-fucking.

I think I don't like this thread any more... At least not by your rules. Wait, I have to count the females too???

 

[Que]

I think I don't like this thread any more... At least not by your rules. Wait, I have to count the females too???

Hmm still in that "delicate flower" phase? The prospect of defiling such a woman has its charms as well. *nods*