How many sexual partners have you had?

I am pretty sure that you have to make a tick mark for every dick that you had a direct hand in stiffening and for each clit that you stimulated or that was stimulated against you.

You could go down in the weeds and argue Clinton style that unless a penis was sheathed therein whilst a vagina was penetrated there was no sexual relationship.

I have observed that some delicate flowers who are not quite ready to fully celebrate and own their sexuality and their sexual dalliances have a list of "doesn't count" exceptions.

To wit:

  • Oral or manual stimulation doesn't count. Some are less likely to count it if it was "68" (You do me and I will owe ou one.)
  • Vacation sex. It isn't just Vegas that a lot of crowd-counting clickers get turned off.
  • One night stands if you finished up in a bathroom or parking lot and got no where near a night stand.

It is somewhat complicated, legitimately. Personally, being male with its attendant ego-centric interest in counting conquests. I would like to take full credit for every woman that ever had an orgasm in my immediate vicinity or as a tangential consequence of some idle suggestion I made once.

To answer the extremely narrow OP, it is 11. When I was first on lit, all the way through 2010 I think the answer was 1.

If we are counting anal sodomy what about oral sodomy if it is ruminato (sp?) rather than fellatio? I feel that a good face fucking ought to count the same as an ass-fucking.

Now things are getting complicated and way far beyond my fingers and toes.
 
I am pretty sure that you have to make a tick mark for every dick that you had a direct hand in stiffening and for each clit that you stimulated or that was stimulated against you.

You could go down in the weeds and argue Clinton style that unless a penis was sheathed therein whilst a vagina was penetrated there was no sexual relationship.

I have observed that some delicate flowers who are not quite ready to fully celebrate and own their sexuality and their sexual dalliances have a list of "doesn't count" exceptions.

To wit:

  • Oral or manual stimulation doesn't count. Some are less likely to count it if it was "68" (You do me and I will owe ou one.)
  • Vacation sex. It isn't just Vegas that a lot of crowd-counting clickers get turned off.
  • One night stands if you finished up in a bathroom or parking lot and got no where near a night stand.

It is somewhat complicated, legitimately. Personally, being male with its attendant ego-centric interest in counting conquests. I would like to take full credit for every woman that ever had an orgasm in my immediate vicinity or as a tangential consequence of some idle suggestion I made once.

To answer the extremely narrow OP, it is 11. When I was first on lit, all the way through 2010 I think the answer was 1.

If we are counting anal sodomy what about oral sodomy if it is ruminato (sp?) rather than fellatio? I feel that a good face fucking ought to count the same as an ass-fucking.

So you don't count creaming in your jeans? What if she helped?
 
Now things are getting complicated and way far beyond my fingers and toes.

Hand and foot jobs are definitely countable, in my view, notwithstanding the constraints set forth in the OP.

So you don't count creaming in your jeans? What if she helped?

Oh, messy as that is and silly as I feel when that occurs, that sure feels like it counts. I have some rather fond memories of dry-humping. Why is it called that? Done right, dry is not what anyone is.

I would have to say if anyone had an orgasm, someone did something right and it was clearly sexual.
 
more than I care to admit. or is it more than I care to remember? Hmmm I can say,being as old as I am the number is great than 10 but less than 250! Closer to....that's for me to know and you to find out....if your lucky!
 
The list keeps getting bigger of what counts.... Ack! back to the drawing board.
 
In between my junior year of university and my recent engagement, I averaged--if fudging in the direction of being conservative due to a love of whiskey and psychedelics at the time--about one partner a week.

Since the latter event, in between work and helping out with family, I'm averaging a partner once every 2.5-3 weeks.

So, my rough estimate here would be a number in the middle 160s to low 170s.
 
About 30 I think. I've been monogamous since 1991...

I think Mel's magic number is about 5.
 
Same here

Well, a little under 30. But only my wife since we met. Unless you count cybersex. And I don't.
 
A dozen, just counting intercourse. It spiked a bit in the last couple years of being mostly-single in college.
 
I'd say probably 15. Not a slut level ... but that's not for lack of wanting it. :D
 
Thirteen months ago, my answer would have been one. I was 62, married 42 years to my high school sweetheart and only lover.

Since then, I've had sex with twelve additional men.
 
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