How much does your family know?

How open are certain members of your family? Not meaning in an incest type of way, lol. But how much do they talk and/or know about your sexual habits? Maybe if you're into swinging/poly....bisexual experimentation, porn etc....Just meaning a basically non-traditional sex life ? Do u ever talk and are they accepting?

I talk to my sister and girlfriends about funny things that have happened to me during sex, like the time my husband was eating me from behind and I queefed.

But no way in this lifetime will you hear me telling them or anyone else how I like to be fucked or that I write erotic stories or post explicit pictures of myself online.

That is not a part of me I'm willing to share with people coming over for Thanksgiving.
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My children know I enjoy sex, that I have taken a lover since my divorce, that I have a closet full of sex toys and that I frequently chat online with others about sex. I'm a adult and all my children are adults. We're all very open out sex which a normal and healthy part of life. Of course they don't know the specifics of each encounter and there is no reason they should.
 
Family and Friends

My mom and sister know very little. They know my 20's were quite active. My Dad knows a bit more, that I like porn and erotica etc.

My In-Laws know more than I would like, but nothing graphic.

Most of my "in life" friends have no clue, but there are a few special friends that know most everything. We figured out the others were not vanilla, so we're kinky friends too. We keep that side from the others in the group.
 
Hardly anyone

My brother knows bits and pieces, my wife knows more, and my ex knows most.

This is a similar topic, but when I see an attractive woman on the street, I almost instantly wonder, "what kind of kink is she into?" Almost everyone has something... often times they may not even know. Experimenting leads to desire and cravings for more...
 
My husband and I had a threesome with another man once and we both loved it and said we'd do it again. The problem is my daughter is *always* home! I've considered telling her/explaining to her just so hubby and I can experience it again... but then I feel selfish or feel like it might influence her.

any possibility we can discuss this in depth? Not sure why- you stopped talking to me ?
 
Survey says...

1. Have you ever had intercourse? Yes
2. Oral sex? Yes
3. Licked an ass? Accidentally
4. Had your ass licked? Yes
5. Stuck your tongue in their ass? No
6. Swallowed cum? Yes
7. Practiced bondage or BDSM? Once
8. Had anal sex? Yes
9. Had an orgasm from anal sex? Yes
10. Ever squirted or made someone squirt? Yes, made
11. Had sex with someone of the same sex? Yes
12. Did a threesome? Yes
13. Did a foursome? No
14. Been in an orgy? No
15. Been in a gangbang? No
16. Had sex in public? Yes
17. Snowballed? No
18. Had your toes licked or sucked? Yes
19. Licked or sucked someone’s toes? Yes
20. Had sex with more than one person (one on one only) in a day? Yes
21. Had sex with more than one person (one on one only) in a week? Yes
22. Had cyber sex or phone sex? Yes
23. Reached on orgasm? Yes
24. Watched porn? Yes
25. Bought a dirty magazine? Yes
26. Posted nude pictures of you on the net? Sort of
27. Let someone video tape you having sex? Yes, then deleted.
28. Had sex without protection? Like no condom? Yes, and no problem using them.
29. Had someone give you a cum facial or given someone a cum facial? Yes
30. Have you participated in any type of golden showers? No
31. Have you let anyone or have you shit on anyone? No
32. Had sex with a friend’s significant other? Yes
33. Ever did one of your significant other’s friends or relative? Yes
34. Have you ever cheated on your significant other? Yes
35. Made someone pass out from sex? No
36. Tasted your own cum? Yes. As a teen.
37. Masturbated? Yes
38. Let someone watch you? Yes
39. Ever showed you naked on cam? Partially
40. Had sex while on your period or while someone was on their period? Yes
41. Been eaten or eaten someone? Yes and yes
42. Had sex with someone you knew less than an hour? Yes
43. Had sex in a vehicle? Yes
44. Been caught having sex? Kind of
45. Paid for sex? No
46. Used toys during sex? Yes
47. Used food? Yes
48. Like pain from a little to extreme during sex? Neither gave it or took it.
49. Ever been dominated in bed? Yes
50. Ever had a wet dream? Yes
51. Like to have your ass slapped during sex? Maybe?
52. Like having your nipples licked, sucked, or bitten? Yes
53. Had sex with someone who you didn’t know their name? Once

All of above known only to the participants< i am good at keeping secrets.
 
My wife knows most of my kinks and fetishes, although she doesn't know that I desire to experience a cock buried deep in my ass while having my cock stroked until I explore cum all over myself.

My sister in law certainly had good insight into my kinks, as she helped me out with them up until she and my brother got divorced and she moved out of state. A shame really.
 
So let's see yes hubby knows all experiences and fantasies and fetishes I guess as well.....other family members.....a couple know more than maybe they should, but that comes with being clothing optional at home often I think.....an aunt and uncle knew a lot at one point on my side of the family mainly because they taught me a great deal......hubby's side....none know....so be it.....friends....well the friends that know were strangers until we met at a swing party or from dancing together or in some other fashion....those are our friends in the lifestyle....our vanilla friends nope they don't.

Hot Wife:rose::kiss:
 
I have a cousin that knows that I love butt plugs but nobody knows that I am bicurious
 
My mother in law has seen pics of my erect cock and heard stories of my wife's and my sex life.

My stepmother is currently fucking me and knows that I'm bisexual.
 
So the only family member (actually former family member) that knows anything about my fetishes would be my dad's 2nd wife. The two of us played around and shared our fetishes and kinks. She taught me a lot during our one year affair.
 
I have told my younger brother that man to man sex is hot. He also knows that I occasionally wear panties to work. He just came to spend a week with us following a death in the family and he didn't mention it at all. He did tell me he thinks girl on girl is hot. Duh!
 
How open are certain members of your family? Not meaning in an incest type of way, lol. But how much do they talk and/or know about your sexual habits? Maybe if you're into swinging/poly....bisexual experimentation, porn etc....Just meaning a basically non-traditional sex life ? Do u ever talk and are they accepting?

sissy is an open book. :)
sissy has serviced Her mother and father but not Her sister. :D
sissy parent's are dead and sister knows all. :caning:
sissy will service anyone She wishes sissy to. :rose:
 
My sister knows everything as she has been involved with us, my mum is aware of me and hubby meeting other couples but she doesn't know the full story and she certainly doesn't know my sister has been involved. I wasn't going to say anything to my mother about it but a friend of hers had spotted hubby and a woman in a hotel bar. It was a bit of bad timing really as we were meeting a couple and I had gone up to the room with her husband and my hubby and his wife were going to follow us up. We decided to tell her what had happened but left out a lot of details. She did ask some questions about our lifestyle but has not mentioned it since.
 
How open are certain members of your family? Not meaning in an incest type of way, lol. But how much do they talk and/or know about your sexual habits? Maybe if you're into swinging/poly....bisexual experimentation, porn etc....Just meaning a basically non-traditional sex life ? Do u ever talk and are they accepting?

My sister knows the most of my family members about my sex life, and visa versa. We talked about it a lot more when we were in our early 20s/college age, but still will chat about it some here or there. She is married now and has a kid, so her sex life isn’t nearly as exciting as it used to be.

My mom and I have had very basic conversations about sex. She knows I’m not a virgin. That’s about it.

Zero conversations with my dad about sex. I’m sure he’d be mortified if he knew the details of my sex life.
 
Our parents and my older sister are passed on now but had no idea of my sexual nature. We have kept that separate. My brother, who is 12 years older than I have never been close, mostly due to the age separation and he left home at an early age. We keep in touch but he has no idea of my inclinations as well. Pretty much holds true for my husbands family. Our son (24) knows we don't have a "traditional" marriage, but no, I have never been with him in a sexual manner.

That being said, we do have "interest" in a few cousins. One of my husbands in particular.
 
My mother knows that I'm very keen on sex and was aware that, whilst I was single, I had a couple of concurrent FWB arrangements. From the odd comment she has made she suspects that I'm not entirely vanilla, but I'm pretty sure she doesn't know about any kinks. One of my FWBs let slip once that she was getting very dry since the menopause kicked in and we did "other things" then went all embarassed, my mum just said "That's alright I know ---- is demanding."

I've been playing with my sister for a while and she obviously now knows what I like. I'm certian my mum doesn't know about this.

My sons were pretty aware of the various women, but we are all adults.

None of them know I'm on Lit.
 
No one in my wife’s family or mine know about our sex life, except a few small things: her younger brother walked in on us twice before we were married (so like 40 years ago). I once borrowed my younger brother’s car specifically for the purpose of screwing my wife in it on some rural road. (Too bad I drove it into a ditch, had to have it towed and repaired!) And one night years ago at a big family beach trip all the women were drinking on the deck late at night and ended up talking about Brazilian waxes. From the sound of it, wife and her younger sister were the only ones to admit to waxing or shaving their privates. The others claimed to find the idea disgusting! (One even asked her husband later what he would think if she did and he was a “hard ‘no’”. Nice of her to get back to the others with his answer!

Our adult daughters know just a bit, especially that their mom is loud during sex, and one know that I’m nude much of the time at home. Otoh, I’ve found one’s vibrator, ball gag and collection of gay manga.

Everything else is strictly secret. We don’t involve others in our sex life, so there’s no way it’s going to be known. We share most things between us but even she does not know about the Lit account or how strong my bi curiosity is, or that I really would like to see her take on a couple of guys to pleasure her. It’s our dirty talk during sex, but I don’t think she realizes I could easily be persuaded to try it IRL.
 
A side question

So if nobody in your family knows about your kinks, what plans do you have for that collection of sex toys, videos, erotic literature, etc if you were to suddenly pass away? I personally don’t know my own feelings when I think of my daughters cleaning out our house and finding the extensive collection of vibrators, huge dildos, anal toys and the rest of it. My best friend is the executor of my estate, and I can’t even bring myself to tell him about it. Maybe I should tuck a note into the papers I gave him saying “Just throw away the green box in the closet without opening it. You really don’t want to know what’s in it.”
 
My mom knows alittle. In laws know pretty much most of it, whether seeing it or being in it. Kids know some, can’t help but hear their mom, she gets loud
 
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