How much does your family know?

[HampshireBoy]

So if nobody in your family knows about your kinks, what plans do you have for that collection of sex toys, videos, erotic literature, etc if you were to suddenly pass away? I personally don’t know my own feelings when I think of my daughters cleaning out our house and finding the extensive collection of vibrators, huge dildos, anal toys and the rest of it. My best friend is the executor of my estate, and I can’t even bring myself to tell him about it. Maybe I should tuck a note into the papers I gave him saying “Just throw away the green box in the closet without opening it. You really don’t want to know what’s in it.”

I am one of two people who have been asked to get rid of a friend's vibrators when she dies. She is single and doesn't want her brother finding them.

My wife would obviously deal with anything if i go first and I'll deal with her vibrators etc if she goes first.

 

[Snowflakke]

My mom and sister are my primary family and they pretty much know more than anyone else about my sexual lifestyle. It's not like typical dinner conversation lol but they are accepting as long as I am happy and relatively safe with everything. Most of the rest of my family barely talks so they barely even know the basics things about me. On my husband's side his cousin knows but outside of that no one else is aware family wise.

 

[binudistcouple21]

how much family knows

Our family knows all about our activities, they are part of them. Most of our neighbors know too!

our family is the same, they know and are part of the fun.

 

[binudistcouple21]

how much family knows

My mum knows about my bisexuality and she knows me and hubby meet other couples. She's fine with it as long as I'm careful.

Both my mom and her mom know of our strong bisexual lives, and have been part of the parting fun .

 

[TallOne]

Family knows that my wife and I's relationship is a little queer. No details, but basically not worried about anyone trying to blackmail us over it or something.

 

[KaitlynW1993]

My sister knows im in this life style. I have actually of late convinced her to tip her toe in it. So far after 3 weeks she is doing well and enjoying it.

My mother has some idea but not sure how far in the details she knows.

 

[Yesok1]

My best friend knows a lot, but I don't go into details.

My daughter saw me and my ex in the middle of a taboo sex act. And when I was drunk I embarrassed my daughters, and my youngests girlfriend in a restaurant about the wanders of anal.

I cringe in shame!

 

[mark_j]

My family? None of them really.. Brother was suspicious about our past lifestyle but we never talked about it.. Mom & Dad have passed on and I don't think they had any clue about it..

 

[Handydan]

Our daughter in law told my wife. Ya, we, our kids and spouces, we all talking and we think you are swingers. Lol. They're right.

 

[naturallynude21]

My parents and my brother/sister-in-law know about my shenanigans and open minded attitude regarding sex. Mostly because I was raised in an open minded, laid back household.

 

[curiouskinkstoo]

Most of my family and my wife's family has no clue how open we are sexually or that we've been swingers for 20+ years. I believe most of them would freak out, given how close minded most of them are.

That being said, 2 years ago we did run into our niece (wife's sister's daughter) at a swinger party. She was definitely more shocked than we were to see us there. For us, it was quite a thrill. We've run into her multiple times since then as well. Outside of that, my wife's youngest sister I believe has an idea about us, but not the full picture. Only because she has walked in a few times when she was staying with us while she was moving.

Otherwise, we try to keep a lid on things.

 

[jaF0]

Well, they're all dead, so ....

 

[Nightspeed]

My family and friends no absolutely nothing about my bi-sexual desires and curiosity. NOTHING. And they won't.